Why do women obligate men to be more ugly than them?

[RobEurope]

They tell guys to not care about their appearance so much, stop going to the gym, stop eating healthy. Yeah I put oils on my eyelashes for them to be bigger and stronger. No Im not gay and I dont have fake eyelashes, theyre real. I like to keep out of direct sun for my face, wear sunscreen. Moisturize. Why do women hate this?

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Why is it ok for women to call themselves attractive but if a man called himself attractive he would get made fun of and get called stuck up? ↗

[Dontaaaa]

In my personal experience I never had any woman obligate to be more ugly. Women that I've been close to in my life looked up to me and sought guidance when they knew I worked out.

My ex at one point even tried to help me maintain good hygiene when I started getting depressed.

I would assume that if you have anyone doing that then they're probably not a good person, no one in thier right mind should be obligation you to be ugly.

At most it seems that people don't like it when you take a long time to do your hygiene, as taking a long time with it is seen as more of a woman thing. I say that out of experience.

[jhl_x]

This is the exact opposite of every situation I've seen in my life. Women actually complain about men not taking care of their looks, no matter the situation.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I've noticed this as well. They'll have high demand and then start dropping their own standards and convince the guy to follow along. Reduces competition as far as I can tell.

[MountAverage]

That may be you experiences with women, but it's not mine.

[driven159]

they want the attention not to have you get it and security issues and men age better than women