As somebody with belly fat, how do you stop feeling self conscious about wearing a crop top?

[fonduegirl]

fatphobic comments will be removed!

im inviting everyone and if you dunno what to say, don't say it! ha, GAG hack <33

[Thatbaldguy]

Just wear it! Plus size acceptance is more a thing now then it ever has been. Are there still haters? Absolutely. Always will be. Opinions are like buttholes. Everyones got one. If you wanna wear that crop top. Wear it and wear it with confidence. People are more likely to comment negatively if you wear it and are visibly uncomfortable. Basically the more you make an issue of it the more others will too. Or… the more you will notice people making an issue of it and the more you will let it affect you.


Way different topic but its kinda like when i first started carrying a fire arm. I knew it was on my right hip. So I felt like everyone else HAD to know it was there too. I felt like they HAD to be seeing it and i was gonna get called out and have an issue. And thusly i kept checking the area to make sure it was properly concealed. And in doing so more or less pointing out something was there. And actually creating a possible scenario where i could have been noticed and called out. When in actuality I was the one that was more concerned and literally no one noticed or notices to this day. And if they do they certainly haven't called me out on it. I was making it more of an issue then it was.
That being said. Most people these days are more into their cell phones or what ever is going on in their own little world to usually truly care what’s actually going on around them.


Rock the top and be happy.

[Ευδεμονια]

I can’t properly speak since I’m a male and I don’t wear anything like that but I can’t give some advices.
1) you can wear comfortable trousers, in order not to feel squeezed while sitting (so, no tight belts or very adherent trousers, prefer elastic ones);
2) divert attention of others maybe wearing a blouse or a nice skirt with some laces in order to hide eventual fat rolls and divert attention towards them;
3) think that normally also for a slim person is normal to have some little rolls forming when sitting, especially if trousers are tight. It’s normal and every instagram or fashion model have retouched photos or works in order to hide her “defects” for that specific photo, but it doesn’t exist a person who don’t have any defects… so it’s normal to have little rolls of fat or not having a perfect muscular and linear body shape, everyone is ok as it is, until it’s healthy and happy with his body.

[EmmaMary]

If you by any chance have a slightly larger bust the crop top will lay more in line with your stomach/belly.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[Nikki1989]

Wear whatever you want. You should never dress according to what appeals to others.

[NathanDavis]

just keep doing it... till you no longer care, and it stops having such effect

that's what I did with my whole existence as a person... lmao

it wasn't about my body thought... just me being extremely and painfully shy around other people, but I am sure it can work the same

[Smoothing]

I don't wear crop tops because I am male and I tend to choose comfort over all else. I either wear a shirt, a T shirt or a turtle neck. There is nothing complicated about fashion when it comes to men unless the man is flamboyant.

Also, I am not worried about my belly fat because I am already loosing it.

I hope that helps

[jshm2]

As long as you're not looking like wearing a spare tyre. Nothing wrong with a bit of fat.

[vald9inches]

I honestly find belly fat sexy and hot af!! Obviously if it's not too extreme such obesity i will find it attractive 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵😍😍😍😍😍🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

[fonduegirl]

I'm like 31 inches of waist lol

[vald9inches]

I can't really judge without actually seeing a photo lol

[fonduegirl]

Okedoke

[36FS45]

That's a very good question.
I have belly fat too and I really struggle with it.
Have to work so hard to tone it there
But that doesn't last long
It's a constant battle

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Say that it is the latest fashion. And encourage them to develop their own fat too.

🙂👍

[Bubbles16]

I'd say maybe wear something under the shirt so you feel more confident

[Juxtapose]

You're probably a healthy weight. Women are supposed to have more body fat than men anyway.

[Deku2009]

Stop caring what about others think and just wear it

[Mr_Peterson]

I don't wear them. Whatever I wear I am conscious of my fat belly and big bum.

[fonduegirl]

Is this supposed to be helpful

[anton_dee]

Depending on how much of my pooch is hangin out, I would certainly be conscious

[jengeorge26]

I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ ha ha