Why do men think padded bras are deceiving?

[chick]

I think it's just a type of an underwear that helps the breasts look good...

[MCheetah]

Because they objectively are. It's one thing to lie, but it's another thing to lie twice, then try to criticize others for pointing out your lies. This is some Amber Heard level gaslighting sh*t, here. if they didn't serve a purpose to deceive, no one would wear them.

I'm not even saying women can't wear padded bras, four inch heels, makeup, and butt tape to hide the fact they're a 4 instead of a 7, but then don't get mad and b*tch when you find out the 6'1" guy you met online is actually only 5'10" and only makes $90K a year instead of six figures. ... You utterly shameless hypocrites.

[CA4444]

I think you take it a bit far 🤣 women like to try to look good for men 🤷‍♀️ and the padding does give a type of cleavage that you can’t really have otherwise by the way

[MCheetah]

@CA4444
Most women *claim* they only dress that way to "look good for themselves." Although I'm sure if they lived in an all-female community or went on a women's retreat for the weekend, I doubt they'd still dress that way.

[CA4444]

Yeah i think we do want to look good just for ourselves too even if these things are sexual in a way but they do make you feel good and feminine and your best, but yeah we would go for comfort rather than sexiness on a desert island with no men. Would be very boring. when I was younger I was dressing much sexier actually and it wasn’t for men it’s hard to explain. It’s more about trends and fashion when you’re young that’s it. I’m not talking about IG girls looking for men’s likes obviously

[ohsheeT]

For me this evening's not the right word it's confidence it doesn't matter what size breast you have if you feel comfortable with it and you have the confidence within yourself it should not matter what size dress you have I think girls think that they have to have big breasts in order to get a guy and that's just bull crap and if you're going to date a guy that thinks that way then you're blowing it because if a guy wants to only date you because of the size of your breast it's never going to work anyway

[StephiC]

Men go after women based on their look.

Of he chooses to pursue you because of your padded bra he feels cheated.

Yes it's superficial, animalistic and base. It's just how men are. It's the same with makeup. They love it untill they realise it's makeup. If you want a man long term, get him off of your natural or willing to lie long term about being your natural. If its short term... remember they often can't tell the difference with a lot of things.

[Anonymous]

I've been slapped silly and told I'm going to be impregnated or implanted whether I like it or not so I won't have to trick men anymore. My current boyfriend doesn't allow me to wear them he said I'll be groped and abused if my tits looked that big

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Guys claim them to be a lie because they make what you got look bigger or perkier (I’m not sure that’s a word…) but personally I don’t think it is. It’s the same with make up. Some will also claim make up to be a lie. But in reality make up is complimentary to the face as a padded bra is a compliment to a woman’s figure.

[DaveJord]

Because they are naive and ignorant men. Any experienced man can tell the different between padded and unpadded bra.

Like how they look as she moves around, do they bounce up and down as one unit or giggle a little... If they just giggle around the cleavage area, she is wearing a padded bra, or push up bra.. can you see a bra line through the shirt, is there any hint of a nipple print?

Women breasts respond differently to motion when she is wearing a padded bra, dumbasses!

[Sarahr123]

I think they don’t make much difference. If you have big boobs you have big boobs and if they’re small then padded bras don’t make much difference unless they put extra inserts. If you see someone’s cleavage you can get a better idea of their size.

[SnowedIn]

Because they're not thinking fully? That said, men are fairly linear... if something looks a certain size, a man isn't going to think otherwise. Sometimes padded bras make breasts look larger or a different shape than they naturally are. That's not a bad thing but men often assume that that's the size. Then the bra comes off and...

[TheorionMage]

Ask yourself...'why' is it "preferable" for breasts to 'look good'?
'Why' do Drag Queens and transgender persons fixate on false breasts?

'Why' do teen females find teen boys stuffing rolled socks in their undershorts misleading
when in later life experience they say: "Its not the meat, its the motion"?

[oddwaffle]

It's like a rental car. Gives certain impression when you don't actually have it.

Sure they make you look fabulous and I am thankful for the invention. I love them.

Until bra comes off then I get greeted with reality. I honestly will pay to get her a boob job.

[qwert1234]

As you said, "helps the breasts look good". So, the boobs either look bad or fine (or great), then you add a thing to it to alter how it looks. Like make-up.

But I personally don't care, I just understand where some dudes are coming from about this.

[Anonymous]

Women are just fake.
Your nails are fake, they're not that long.
Your boobs are fake, they're not that big. boob job and bras.
your hair is fake, it's not that color. wigs or hair dye
Your height is fake, you're not that tall. high heels.
Your ass is fake, it's not that round. ass jobs or pants made for it.
Your eyelashes are fake, they're not that long.
Your skin is fake, it's not that flawless. Camera filters and make up.
Your personality is fake, you're not that nice or interested in a man as he is. You just see them as a pet project to fix up.

Women are just 100% fake.

[CA4444]

You should be a poet

[Opinion Owner]

@CA4444 I would, but I'd be fake.

[CA4444]

Why fake? I’m not entirely disagreeing with you by the way but we’re not necessarily fake depends on the person

[Opinion Owner]

@CA4444 Was just trying to be funny, ahaha

[EmmaMary]

Not that I've ever needed to wear a padded/push up bra, I can in some way see how guys would find it very deceiving indeed when a girl removes her bra and being much smaller than they thought she was.

[Date_a_Snob]

@EmmaMary Finally a woman who gets it

[EmmaMary]

@Date_a_Snob

Thank you.

[MrHopper]

Never had a problem really, out of all the girls in padded bras i seen in my life i can tell you only a small number i actually seen her boobs... so i dont see a problem with this enhanced version, its a treat for me

[normalice]

It adds artificial volume where no one is looking to affect the appearance where someone is looking. Like how enormous bags of chips that are full of mostly air are deceiving.

[dustybiker]

They don’t stop to think why a woman would wear something. That it might make her feel good about herself. Thankfully not all men are like this.

[rachel776]

i just wear them because they make clothes look nicer 🤷‍♀️

[nawtee_me]

@rachel776 you would make a cardboard box look good on you...

[HighValue]

It is. You are tricking/deceiving someone into thinking something is true when it is actually false.

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes but small breasts aren't necessarily a bad thing. Some women and bodies look way better with smaller ones than big ones

[Chazmatazz269]

Well, it’s kind of false advertising. Chris Rock has a great bit about that.

https://youtu.be/LJviK2YEBMU

[AsaKyo]

Imagine wearing padded bras

[MCheetah]

This must be a woman in-joke. Cause I don't get it. But I'm sure it's funny.

[A_Bell]

@MCheetah well I think it's sarcasm. You know we aren't funny.

[CA4444]

I still don’t get it either

[CA4444]

I guess so, when I was a teenager I heard a woman in a shop saying women wearing those bras were like ‘marchandise labelling fraud’ I found it so crude it shocked me 😂

[Labokachulaa]

I believe they look at it as false advertisement. However, it makes them sit pretty, or at least in my experiences.

I like the support that it gives me.

[RavVid]

Well they sort of are deceiving. I am a lover of small breasts but I have felt disappointed when the padded bra came off. Still I was getting my leg over so not that disappointed

[Anonymous]

You just said it yourself. It’s deceptive cause it helps them look good meaning they don’t look good on their own. They need support to make them look appealing to you as well as men who are looking.