Why do men think padded bras are deceiving?

Question

I think it's just a type of an underwear that helps the breasts look good...

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Because they objectively are. It's one thing to lie, but it's another thing to lie twice, then try to criticize others for pointing out your lies. This is some Amber Heard level gaslighting sh*t, here. if they didn't serve a purpose to deceive, no one would wear them.

I'm not even saying women can't wear padded bras, four inch heels, makeup, and butt tape to hide the fact they're a 4 instead of a 7, but then don't get mad and b*tch when you find out the 6'1" guy you met online is actually only 5'10" and only makes $90K a year instead of six figures. ... You utterly shameless hypocrites.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

For me this evening's not the right word it's confidence it doesn't matter what size breast you have if you feel comfortable with it and you have the confidence within yourself it should not matter what size dress you have I think girls think that they have to have big breasts in order to get a guy and that's just bull crap and if you're going to date a guy that thinks that way then you're blowing it because if a guy wants to only date you because of the size of your breast it's never going to work anyway

StephiC · Accepted Answer

Men go after women based on their look.

Of he chooses to pursue you because of your padded bra he feels cheated.

Yes it's superficial, animalistic and base. It's just how men are. It's the same with makeup. They love it untill they realise it's makeup. If you want a man long term, get him off of your natural or willing to lie long term about being your natural. If its short term... remember they often can't tell the difference with a lot of things.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've been slapped silly and told I'm going to be impregnated or implanted whether I like it or not so I won't have to trick men anymore. My current boyfriend doesn't allow me to wear them he said I'll be groped and abused if my tits looked that big

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

Guys claim them to be a lie because they make what you got look bigger or perkier (I’m not sure that’s a word…) but personally I don’t think it is. It’s the same with make up. Some will also claim make up to be a lie. But in reality make up is complimentary to the face as a padded bra is a compliment to a woman’s figure.

DaveJord · Answer

Because they are naive and ignorant men. Any experienced man can tell the different between padded and unpadded bra.

Like how they look as she moves around, do they bounce up and down as one unit or giggle a little... If they just giggle around the cleavage area, she is wearing a padded bra, or push up bra.. can you see a bra line through the shirt, is there any hint of a nipple print?

Women breasts respond differently to motion when she is wearing a padded bra, dumbasses!

Sarahr123 · Answer

I think they don’t make much difference. If you have big boobs you have big boobs and if they’re small then padded bras don’t make much difference unless they put extra inserts. If you see someone’s cleavage you can get a better idea of their size.

SnowedIn · Answer

Because they're not thinking fully? That said, men are fairly linear... if something looks a certain size, a man isn't going to think otherwise. Sometimes padded bras make breasts look larger or a different shape than they naturally are. That's not a bad thing but men often assume that that's the size. Then the bra comes off and...

TheorionMage · Answer

Ask yourself...'why' is it "preferable" for breasts to 'look good'?
'Why' do Drag Queens and transgender persons fixate on false breasts?

'Why' do teen females find teen boys stuffing rolled socks in their undershorts misleading
when in later life experience they say: "Its not the meat, its the motion"?

oddwaffle · Answer

It's like a rental car. Gives certain impression when you don't actually have it.

Sure they make you look fabulous and I am thankful for the invention. I love them.

Until bra comes off then I get greeted with reality. I honestly will pay to get her a boob job.

qwert1234 · Answer

As you said, "helps the breasts look good". So, the boobs either look bad or fine (or great), then you add a thing to it to alter how it looks. Like make-up.

But I personally don't care, I just understand where some dudes are coming from about this.

Anonymous · Answer

Women are just fake.
Your nails are fake, they're not that long.
Your boobs are fake, they're not that big. boob job and bras.
your hair is fake, it's not that color. wigs or hair dye
Your height is fake, you're not that tall. high heels.
Your ass is fake, it's not that round. ass jobs or pants made for it.
Your eyelashes are fake, they're not that long.
Your skin is fake, it's not that flawless. Camera filters and make up.
Your personality is fake, you're not that nice or interested in a man as he is. You just see them as a pet project to fix up.

Women are just 100% fake.

EmmaMary · Answer

Not that I've ever needed to wear a padded/push up bra, I can in some way see how guys would find it very deceiving indeed when a girl removes her bra and being much smaller than they thought she was.

MrHopper · Answer

Never had a problem really, out of all the girls in padded bras i seen in my life i can tell you only a small number i actually seen her boobs... so i dont see a problem with this enhanced version, its a treat for me

normalice · Answer

It adds artificial volume where no one is looking to affect the appearance where someone is looking. Like how enormous bags of chips that are full of mostly air are deceiving.

dustybiker · Answer

They don’t stop to think why a woman would wear something. That it might make her feel good about herself. Thankfully not all men are like this.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Well, it’s kind of false advertising. Chris Rock has a great bit about that.

rachel776 · Answer

i just wear them because they make clothes look nicer 🤷‍♀️

HighValue · Answer

It is. You are tricking/deceiving someone into thinking something is true when it is actually false.

AsaKyo · Answer

Imagine wearing padded bras

CA4444 · Answer

I guess so, when I was a teenager I heard a woman in a shop saying women wearing those bras were like ‘marchandise labelling fraud’ I found it so crude it shocked me 😂

Labokachulaa · Answer

I believe they look at it as false advertisement. However, it makes them sit pretty, or at least in my experiences.  I like the support that it gives me.

RavVid · Answer

Well they sort of are deceiving. I am a lover of small breasts but I have felt disappointed when the padded bra came off. Still I was getting my leg over so not that disappointed

Anonymous · Answer

You just said it yourself. It’s deceptive cause it helps them look good meaning they don’t look good on their own. They need support to make them look appealing to you as well as men who are looking.

PinkRose24 · Answer

Lol they are though. I understand having a bit of pad to protect your breasts from getting hit, but some women wear bras that have too much padding that 95% of their boobs is padding.

Guy13 · Answer

Since when has anything a woman has done in clothing, beauty, and cosmetics been honest... ;-)

BlueScorpio · Answer

I wear them for support and so you won't see my nipples always poking out at you 🤣

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

They want to see how we actually look, and not think we look one way when we actually look different.

Vibe201 · Answer

It's werid j like flat chested women or women that have smaller cup sizes so I guess I don't care.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Padded bras are false advertising!

Grond21 · Answer

Wait. It changes how they look? Makes them look better? Sooooo they deceive men on the true size and shape of the woman's breasts? So weird that men would feel deceived.

virtue2332 · Answer

Not all men feel this way. Some of us really could care less about breast. Women who pad that behind are the ones deceiving the most.

Berethor · Answer

Because they are? making your breast look bigger than it is, that is not honest behavior.

Anonymous · Answer

You have to admit it kind of is deceiving though because you are trying to make yourself appear bigger than you really are so people will like you more.

jshm2 · Answer

They are just being fools.  The point of a padded bra is to give protection and support to soft breasts

A_Bell · Answer

I'm pregnant so I have built in padded bra, hips, butt and thighs. So who needs fraud.

soe11 · Answer

I don't think so, some like that way to hide nipples or look more lifting, end of the day person to person choice. My girlfriend like without padding and half cup as a outerwear.

PizzaPieMamaBear · Answer

Om barely a 32B like a 32A/B I don’t care I’m wearing padded push up

Drumlin2001 · Answer

It's completely deceptive. How would you feel if you go home him a guy he stripped down to his bulging boxers and he pulled out a big ball of socks?

SphynxUK · Answer

Because they’re stupid. Bras are items of clothing. They come in all cuts and styles.

elizamichale1 · Answer

just asked my brother n he says its coz padded ones give an impression of bigger and firmer tits

AmeerX · Answer

I like them natural and bare. Padded is just so weird. And girls should not feel conscious about being flat chested. It's still you who is beautiful

Avicenna · Answer

I don’t think this is something men are particularly focused on

Candyterry · Answer

İt depends. When you have bigger breast you’ll use padded bras to took away the heavy weight from you and also it makes big breast look smaller. I don’t understand b hurt men in the comment section tho.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I guess the same reason putting rolled up socks in our underwear is deceiving.

Starsonfire · Answer

For the Obvious reason is they are definitely deceiving, all depends on how deceiving the Women wants to make Her Breast Size?

XavierSteele · Answer

I don't have a problem with them personally. They are to make the woman feel good about herself.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

"Why do men think padded bras are deceiving?" "I think it's just a type of an underwear that helps the breasts look good..." Women cannot into self awareness

Anonymous · Answer

We need men's underwear with padding in them to help the crotch look good. Just something light with a little lift... you know... to mask the outline... totally not to deceive.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Because they add size and fullness that the woman’s chest doesn’t actually have.

Anonymous · Answer

Never been a big breast man. In fact I kind of prefer smaller breasts because I like cupping them with my entire hand.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess it’s false advertisement just like with heels making you look taller than you are, if you’re happy with your size then you should not need padded bras unless you’re always having hard nipples showing

Anonymous · Answer

Quality men who have their lives together don't care.

Vendela · Answer

Because men are dumb and don't understand how bras work.

tfan1 · Answer

It makes your breasts look bigger under your shirt?

AngelOfLight258 · Answer

Same reason that they think makeup and cosmetic surgery is deceiving.

Anonymous · Answer

I expect they consider it yet another way that women cheat with their presentation given that men place importance in their looks.

convo_king89 · Answer

Padded bras don’t really make it that much more bigger, it’s not implants..

Anonymous · Answer

Regardless if she's wearing a padded bra to be deceitful or just to feel good about herself, I couldn't care less. If I'm in a position to discover that information, I have other things on my mind.

Gavin_Rowe · Answer

Because they give off an illusion of bigger and firmer breast

Anonymous · Answer

It's a lie, false advertising. Of course it's deceptive, in the same way a man lying about his income or job is.

Fleet7635 · Answer

They don’t bother me at all I appreciate a woman who is trying to feel good about herself

In_Trance · Answer

For the same reason women would think a penis extender is deceiving

bananathunder · Answer

not at all... they usually help a girl out in my opinion

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