What would you do if a girl you knew got a lot of plastic surgery?

[Anonymous]

What would you think of her? Would you see her as less than? Even if she is super insecure of her looks

she never had a boyfriend and was called insecure/ ugly a lot.

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+1 y

I meant to ask.. “what would you think “ sorry

[Weapon77]

I would be beside myself that she felt she needed to do that. I really don't kniw what I'd do. I'd want to never talk to her again, but at the same time I don't want to make her self-esteem and other issues even worse. I'd feel awful if she committed suicide or something afterward. I really don't know... maybe I'd have a sincere talk about it with her to explore why she felt she had to do it and why it's dangerous and unhealthy. But wouldn't it be too late to fix herself after that? Telling her it was bad for her might only make things worse. Good grief, I'm torn. I just will try to make sure all the women in my life know that surgery os NEVER the answer for self-esteem or aesthetics.

[Asker]

Yeah I think she did it bc she hates herself. I’ve followed her on social media for years and she always talked about her looks and called herself ugly which did become annoying to most people

She wasn’t bad looking. She’s a different kind of beautiful ig

[Weapon77]

Right. My degree taught me a lot anouy body dysmorphia, and it's well documented that people who get elective cosmetic surgery have particularly severe cases. It's sad

[Asker]

Oh wow , she def has it

I remember one post said that she felt too ugly to be a woman and she was considering a gender change

Her mom is really pretty and people would ignore her bc she didn’t look like her mom. Like she would introduce her and they would barely say anything.

[Weapon77]

Very common. Most gender changes are related to or caused by that feeling you describe. Gender dysphoria is technically a type of body dysmorphia, so it's all connected. The saddest part I think is that most these people could solve all or 90% of their problems by exercising snd eating right, stopping all addictive behaviors, ACTUALLY SLEEPING ENOUGH, and counseling as needed. Instead they get themselves carved up

[FunkyMonkee]

Not a damn thing! It's her body! The best I can do is try to talk her out of it before she has it done.
If she was already attractive I'd think she was nuts, if it made her look worse, I'd think she was insane for having it done!!
I've been called ugly most of my young life but, I'm not stupid enough to take the words of other kids as gospel!!

[Asker]

I mean if she’s bad looking and wants to change her looks then I don't know

She doesn’t look better or worse just different

[FunkyMonkee]

IF she's LEGITIMATELY bad-looking, okay, I can see her doing something about it.
My ex-fiance had her nose done when she was little but, that's partly because she accidentally broke it. 2 years after we met, I got to meet her family and noticed how they all had hooked noses so, it DID make her look a lot better after having that removed!

[Anonymous]

Iv seen some beautiful people get facial surgeries, to me its sad but I'm not sure my words would do any good for them. I myself wanted to get surgery on my face but I could not afford it at that time, I was in my early 20's and now i'm 31 and glad I didn't have enough money to do something like that unless I needed to become a movie star which was very unlikely to happen. I don't judge anyone who gets surgeries its there life and own choices anyway.

[CA4444]

Surgery is not a very popular option usually but if it’s something that you do for yourself OUT OF SELF LOVE (and not because you hate yourself or because you were bullied etc) then it’s absolutely right and you can be confident with it and present it confidently to other people, it’s hard to argue against that I think.

[Asker]

Yeah I think she did it bc she hates herself. I’ve followed her on social media for years and she always talked about her looks and called herself ugly which did become annoying to most people

She wasn’t bad looking. She’s a different kind of beautiful ig

[CA4444]

Oh I thought you were talking about yourself

[melanieeeB]

Nothing, It's not your business and not your place to judge.

[Danny_dan92]

I’d wanna see pictures of her before.




Honestly I’ve seen girls get shit done when they didn’t even need to do that shit.




Like one girl had a perfectly fine nose, but she for whatever reason felt the need to “change it”

[JPresidente]

For me it would just depend on the level of work done. If it's maybe a slight nose adjustment or a boob lift then no worries. If its done in excess like lip filler, butt lift, boob job etc etc then that would throw up a red flag.

[Lis-the-librarian]

I think she should keep the plastic surgery as a last resort.

She should work out and get into a great shape. Then ask for help in makeup, hair and clothing styles.

[Asker]

It’s really her face she doesn’t like

It’s a butter face regardless

[Lis-the-librarian]

She should make damn sure it isn't just in her head. As messing with your face can have very bad outcomes.

Of course she could visit professionals and also get some theraphy to fix underlying issues. As one might easily get addicted to it, like so many have, untile they completely ruin themselves.

[Literalbillionaire17]

Nothing. That’s her choice m, if she’s doing though bc she hates herself or something then I’ll try and help

[Asker]

Yeah I think she did it bc she hates herself. I’ve followed her on social media for years and she always talked about her looks and called herself ugly which did become annoying to most people

She wasn’t bad looking. She’s a different kind of beautiful ig

[abc3643]

Feel bad because she's going to look like a train wreck soon.

[Summeroflove]

If it makes her happy she can do what she wants.

[glennos89]

Run... run fast. I don't like plastic surgery. Be natural that's the prettiest you can be

[sheikalana]

I wouldn't do anything. It0s her body and her money.

[Jamie05rhs]

I would feel bad for her. Unfortunately I wouldn't be attracted to her at all, though.

[Asker]

If no one was attracted to her before it probably wouldn’t matter to her

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay

[AdithyaR]

I wouldn't think anything about it. Her choice, her body, why should I have an opinion about it?

[Darine123]

I do nothing to her, cuz that’s her money and she did it cuz she wanted e

[DinaSmith]

I think it’s her personal choice as long as she is happy and not reaching the to the extreme level of destroying her features.

[Farmerboy2]

What can I do. It’s her money and her body. I personally am not a fan.

[Anonymous]

Wouldn't care, she's not paying me or getting paid by me

[Anonymous]

I would never think less of her, a person its defined especially by her actions and way of thinking

[Asker]

She’s a nice person but I think her low self esteem and perceived self hatred changed her. She’s nice sometimes and other times she’s a bitch

[Opinion Owner]

I think you should be convinced she is nice just living in her own mind and low self esteem took a tool on her it is not a healthy thing by any means, she seems very much like a hidden gem burried in a war with herself

[Asker]

Yeah I agree

I feel bad for her low key. No guy is gonna want that tho. Hate to say it

[Opinion Owner]

You never know... not all guys see just the surfaces

[Asker]

Eh I doubt it

[Opinion Owner]

You are just being pessimistic I don't doubt it at all

[Asker]

Seriously what guy would want someone with evident low self esteem and self hatred. Unless he wants to control her or sleep with her there is really no chance.

She looks awful. Her lips are duckish, cheeks are filled , chin etc.. she doesn’t look like herself at all.

[Opinion Owner]

A guy can change a woman maybe he sees beauty in her essence just because she is through a rough time doesn't mean much. I think you seeeing it as a control is a bad thing why control? why sex? Ehy not simply water her with love and make her bloom as a woman
duckish lips can be cute as well as other filled things

[Nikki1989]

It is her body. It is none of my business.

[Brando10222]

As long as she's my friend I don't mind

[Alex8736]

her body her choice

[In_Trance]

Nothing