Should I learn to dress more modestly?

[KathrynTaylor]

I have had a lot of the wrong kind of attention from men. Although I don’t dress like a slag, I tend to dress in sexy dresses that show off my cleavage and my long legs. I thought showing more skin was comfortable in a hot country and also that it made me look more feminine; but I’ve found that I get just as much attention in more modest clothing. As long as it’s a nice dress or jumper or t-shirt and I am a Christian and I’d like to learn how to dress modestly without looking frumpy. Like I’m wearing granny clothes. How do I achieve this?

[Andres77]

Just button another button and scooch your dress down a bit more. Attitude and confidence are very attractive and a confident woman, tastefully dressed is VERY classy.

i used to get so frustrated at my wife taking forever to put on her makeup. I’d say “you already have ME, why are you spending so much time putting that stuff on?”

her reply was “I’m not doing this for you, I’m doing this for me.” 🙄. Whatever…

anyway, find pictures of businesswomen dressed like you want to feel. Adjust your wardrobe over time. I think you’ll find a nice balance.

good luck

[Summeroflove]

If you’re not looking for sexual attention then it’s fine. But if you feel convicted or don’t want creeps. Then yeah I guess dress more modestly.

[CountryWanderer]

Men who want to lust after you will lust no matter what. Dress how you are comfortable with. If you want to cover up more, then do so. If you're fine with something more revealing, that's okay, too. Base it off of your own convictions, not what some random dudes might think.

[jshm2]

You dress bad - not "sexy". It's why you're getting attention, but no numbers.

[Hardworkingguy]

You should eress however you want if you have beautiful breast then show them off. That doesn't determine a man's intentions.

[Anonymous]

Gosh you are such a tease mhhhm I love such a woman who tempts with clothing but still wants respect ehich is normal