Are post-breastfeeding breasts a turn off?

[Anonymous]

I never had huge boobs. Always about a 36C. After breastfeeding for a collective 6-7 years, these puppies ain't what they used to be.

I actually plan to do a breast fat transfr once I have the money.

They don't sag and they still have a great shape, they are just not full at the top lkke they used to be. I am rather slim now so they are basically As 😪.

The surgeon I consulted told me they are still nice and just need a little pump.

Are post breastfeeding breasts a huge turn off? I am insecure about them now and I have never been insecure about my body.

[CubsterShura]

Looks like a bait question to me, but I'll answer anyway.

What's your current bra size? Most people get their bra size wrong and I highly recommend that you read this. Also, if you really want to see a plastic surgeon that's up to you but this guy you're seeing sounds like a red flag, I can't imagine any respectful professional surgeon talking like that.

I highly doubt anyone cares that a pair of boobs are pre or post-breastfeeding. By the time the clothes are off you're already at a point where he is just going to be happy to see your boobs lol.

It would be highly beneficial for you to see sexual encounters in a mindful way instead of dissociative way. Worrying how your body looks from a third person perspective is just a way we dissociate from our bodies. Instead of thinking of flaunting your boobs to show off to your partner, perhaps think more so in the sense of enjoying the sensations of your boobs being played with! You will be less worried about how they look and more about how they feel, and it will make you enjoy the process much more.

[Asker]

Bait question? I have the correct bra size and the last thing I think about during sex is how my tits look. It was really just a question. Your response has such a condescending tone.

[CubsterShura]

I've been all over the busty/bra fit community on the internet and it's full of men who look for fetishizing women and boobs by asking such questions. It's important to be wary of those but I answered you anyway just in case you are genuine. You asked this from an anonymous account, I don't know who you are.

[Anonymous]

I know how it is I also want fat transfer too, I was thinking about implants but everyone kept telling me how much they love natural ones more. I agree it’s kinda weird they aren’t saggy they have the same nice shape from the front just flatter than before. I think my nipples are sexier now they are always pointy they show even through tshirt bras lol

[Asker]

Yes, exactly! Same deal for mine.

No, no implants. They are cheaper to do but more to upkeep and more risks. And usually you have to end up taking them out or switching them. Or worse, if there is some sort of recall. Your own butt fat can't be recalled.

Yes, my nipples used to be so tiny but now they are like pencil erasers. So hot.

[Opinion Owner]

I also really like my wider hips and that my stomach is still firm and flat after 4 kids so I really can’t complain about my body. I’m sure you still look great since you say you stayed slim too. One thing I would recommend is getting properly fitted bras until you can afford surgery try the ‘a bra that fits’ calculator or the one on bratabase at least you can make them look how you want under clothing with the right bra.

[Asker]

thanks for the tip. I had to get rid of my old bras and had a bit of a hard time getting the right fit again. Then it was so depressing seeing these little tiny bras. HAHAHA. Oh well. Yes, keeping my stomach in order was a huge priority for me, too. Post baby bodies that are tended have a sexier seasoned look to them.

[Opinion Owner]

Right, I think I’m pretty set on fat transfer have you consulted with many Drs? What kind of lipo is best for transfer because I heard some kinds damage the cells too much but I don’t know if that’s true.

[Asker]

oh i don't know which lipo. I've seen one surgeon so far and will likely visit another.

[Anonymous]

So as a man that was with a woman pre, during, and post pregnancy. And also having at least a bit of mental maturity and such. I won't go and say they are a turn on per say. Like im not gonna go looking for post breast feeding boobs. However, I also understand that they are part of life. Stretch marks, etc are going to happen. Pregnancy is a beautiful thing. An amazing thing. And it does come with stretch marks etc. its a worthy sacrifice for brining a child into this world.


More to the point. They are neither a turn on or a turn off for me.

[Asker]

Very reasonable. I think for most woman their post-nursing breasts are a challenge to accept.

[OddBeMe]

I mean they aren’t great. Like me after a long day at work. I don’t look my best…

[PenkWing]

No, I like them! I love bodies that don't look like a shopped poster, and show the signs of your own life experience. Breasts come in all shapes, and it's great.

That said, I encourage you to do as you feel. Life experience also means that you might want to shape your body the way you prefer. Don't do it because of the way you look to others.

[Asker]

no, the fat transfer is for myself. but, i hear you.

[EricSummer]

Not at all. Breasts in general are a turn-on, at least on a woman you love. Women themselves often want them to be perfect, but men are far less picky in these matters.

I can understand surgery in certain cases, for example if a woman has practically no visible breasts. However, to make them "perky" again it's an unnecessary intervention.

[Asker]

how about if the entire top portion is flat like a pancake?

[EricSummer]

You wrote "They do not sag and they have a great shape". There's always a flat part at the top of the chest, isn't there? Anyway, it sounds like an imaginary problem not needing intervention. Of course, if you retroactively change the details to make it sound really bad, then maybe you made up your mind anyway and do not want to hear that all is basically fine.
The question was is breasts are a turn-off after breastfeeding, and the answer is "not at all".

[Asker]

yes they don't sag, they are still rounded and the top half is totally deflated. that is not imaginary.

[Nahid1707]

Only asking to understand how many kids you have?


Yea, they aren’t a turn off
Because natural women are the best as yourself


Any guy who dates you will appreciate this


It’s sweet you’re a mom

[Asker]

Three.

I'm not insecure about stretch marks. I have the same body I had before kids except my boobs got small and a little deflated but they don't sag at least.

Yes, I like being a mom. Thanks for the nice words.

[Nahid1707]

You’re welcome 😊
Yea, i am certain your boobs are good

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Nope, Post-breastfeeding breasts are sex, no turn off at all.

[Asker]

Awwww thanks for putting this in bold. That was kind of you 🫂

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Aww, you are welcome, sweetheart. 🤗

[Pegases]

Boobs can still be amazing after breastfeeding. They do change, but I like my girls boobs just the same.

[humanearth]

What wrong with you emotionally?
Do you suffer from low self-esteem?
What's wrong with loving yourself as you are

Maybe see a therapist instead of a plastic surgeon. Fix your head, not your body

[Asker]

oh wow. such vitriol.

[humanearth]

I'm not trying to be bitterly or abusive. I'm just trying to be honest

[Reorx]

If I'm honest yes though I'd be a major advocate for breast feeding, I prefer she use a pump instead but that's not something I would make her do.

[In_Trance]

All breasts are a turn on

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Hooter hammock 😂

[RavVid]

They can be disappointing I have to say. If you are doing it for you then fine.

[soe11]

Neither turn off nor turn on, but she need to be protective and hygiene for her offspring in public.

[noohair]

I think it should be a discussion between you and your partner. His opinion should be the only one that truly matters.

[Stevefiveo]

I've been with two women that have had my babies and they both breast fed. Their boobs looks just fine afterwards. I'm sure yours do too.

[LickSmack]

I'm actually not terribly familiar with the post-breastfeeding look. I'll have to look into it, become acquainted with it.

[Tellme]

They are not at all a turn off. They are wonderful the way they are, and I'm sure a big turn on for guys!

[ThomasDavid1989]

Dont get fake boobs. I dont recommend it

[Asker]

no not fake. fat transfer. not implants.

[ThomasDavid1989]

thats fake. its still fake

[Asker]

it isn't. its my own fat that is bejng put to my own body where fat previously was. my own fat of mine.

[ThomasDavid1989]

its fake

[Asker]

what synthetic material is being used to make it fake?

[EmmaMary]

@Asker I seriously wouldn't go wasting my time with such a juvenile delinquent.

[ThomasDavid1989]

@EmmaMary its fake news

[Asker]

@EmmaMary i think i will take your advice

[ThomasDavid1989]

Then all you were looking for on here, is confirmation bias

HAHAHAHAAHAHAH

[ThomasDavid1989]

And don't expect me to answer any more of your questions, if confirmation bias is all you're looking for. OK, I know you're anon. but, if you're not going to listen to OTHER OPINIONS, then don't ask questions, GOT IT

[Usernamesuck]

It’s not noticeably fake because there’s no foreign material used they are just fatter natural breasts. You would never know unless she told you

[WanderingLoveWizard]

🤣🤣🤣

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm sure they are just fine. :)

[Wise4myage]

I'm guessing not, lol.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No...

[Jmmmfi4]

Obviously

[Anonymous]

Mostly Yes