I hate how I look?

[Quicowardsblood]

I hate how I look. I'm middle eastern, greek and Southern Italian. I've an olive skin tone, dark brown eyes and black (really dark brown) hair. I wish I looked germanic or Scandinavian, with blonde hair, fair skin and blue eyes. I know there are people into my appearance but I feel like the typical germanic or Scandinavian look is more sought after

[ChicoFromThe305]

You shouldn't hate how you look, if anything consider yourself less common, why would you want to be like the rest, remember as well people love with their heart not their eyes, you just need enough of putter beauty to attract a man to hook him with your inner beauty, from what you described you seem to be good looking, feel bless that you weren't born with the worst genetics.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Outter it putter*

[ChicoFromThe305]

Not* 😡

[bededazzle]

i’m sorry to hear that young lady. i am very experienced in self hate. i do not believe we can all “love” ourselves, but please don’t compare yourself to others. um, you sound closer to the appearance i am attracted to, though i crush on all kinds. do you live in a multicultural area? i live in chicago where there are all shapes and sizes of women and different men that like them. give your life a little more time before making these assumptions.

[CrimsonAngel09]

I know the feeling, hate my appearance too.

[Forceinhand]

No one should hate how they look. Beauty as related to ethnicity is wholly subjective. If I as a Scandinavian hated how I looked and wished for olive skin and dark eyes, would you encourage my self-hate or reprimand me to be content as I am? I find the reversed scenario logic often helps dispel bad thought patterns.

[RyanK9b]

Its normal. Those ethnics you describe are commonly the most popular. Bc of their clean appearance.

You just can work with what you got. There are people who desire your look more.
You have to deal with your situation and make the best out of it

[Staximus]

Stop hating on yourself and learn to love yourself. I don't know where you're from, but most people over here would rather have the Eastern Mediterranean looking women and not the pasty looking northerners

[soe11]

Your truly beautiful without a doubt skin is really really attractive to me and eyes too.

Be positive and optimistic.

[FenixG45]

We share a similar heritage, and I would NEVER change my looks. I dislike blonde, blue eyes

[Anonymous]

Focus on your self esteem.

[Anonymous]

Why do you think so?

[Opinion Owner]

Are you here