I could venture to guess two main reasons why a girl would not make eye contact with me. First, I am not cute enough for them to want to make eye contact. Second, they are too shy to look into someone eyes. Third, maybe they didn't see me.
The reason I do not think it is the third one, is because a girl will SPECIFICALLY look down, away, or at a cell phone right when I try and initiate eye contact.
I can tell you that I am not ugly, I am a decently attractive guy. I have dated and been in relationships with beautiful woman. So I am not sure why a girl that does not know me at all would go through great lengths to not make eye contact.
but..i could be wrong. ;-)
Any thoughts?
Are ladies more surprised if a guy gives them strong eye contact. Thus not being ready for it pushes it along to likely have a shy look away or look down?
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