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If I check out good looking guys, I only check them out when I know they aren't looing. I don't want to come off as desperate.
Have you tried talking to them? It is one thing if they are checking you out without you noticing, but it is an entirely diffrent story if all of them are turning you down after talking to you. That will confirm that maybe there is somthing wrong. Not with you, but the way you come off.
Most girls will not do the first step. It is pretty common to let the guy make the move (even if it sth as little as smiling). Just be nice, smile, say hello, talk to her, compliment her (but don't overdo it) and don't use any lame pick-up-lines and girls will like you.
Contrary to what some may think most girls like the average looking guy with a nice personality. They may swoon over the hot ones, but they are hardly boyfriend-material.
A lot of people don't like maintaining eye contact with strangers, it can seem confrontational. And a lot of girls probably slyly check you out as you're passing by.
Your best bet is not caring why you don't get perceived attention and just approaching women.
Be friendly, smile, introduce yourself and drop her a compliment or point out something (i.e. you're both in a coffee shop line and you point out how crowded it is or that the weather is so strange if it's down pouring and the middle of summer).
Im shy I don't make eye contact with any guy
im more shy if I think he's good looking
im more and more shy if he was looking at me first
ive never talked to a guy comfortably looking into his eyes .. I may seem weird or shy depending on what I do or look like, I hate the fact that I never blush, my face has never gone red .. all I do is act weird.
this is only why I don't make eye contact.. sorry I don't know why other girls wouldn't make eye contact.
its that 4 my opinion girls don't want you to notice them while they check you out cz they don't want you to feel so proud of yourself and to think that your a ladies-man and those kinda stuff and they like to play it cool so you have to initiate the conversations and approach them and stuff but most of all I can't see you but I can tell you this,everyone is handsome or pretty if he or she believes it!the real beauty comes from the inside,from your heart and as I always say:
the looks brings her to the door but your personality keeps her in! (if you know what I meant! :P )
hope I helped a little! :)
the female species are experts at staring at everyone in the room with out any guys knowing about it... Mainly any self respecting man would be staring at their preys t*ts and ass to not notice where there are eyes are drifting,lol...
Don't kid yourself if your in the room they are looking, doesn't matter what you think you look like... women notice EVERYTHING... sorry girls your little (girl secret) is OUT !,lol...
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I believe what the girls have said is correct, if they like you or think you are cute they probably won't make eye contact like guys with girls.
Though also to be fair, perhaps they don't think you are the most attractive, maybe they're shy, or maybe its just not their thing. Perhaps they truly are intimidated, I guess the best you can do is talk to them and hope for the best.
the more I like someone, the less I make I contact, it makes me nervous and I can't help but look away...i mean I won't avoid making eye contact, ill make eye contact when I'm talking to them or somehing, but I can't just stare into their eyes from across the room. this is especially true if I don't think they like me back, and done want them to find out I have a crush.
Girls make eye contact with me and smile all the time, but a lot of times they aren't interested, so its not a big deal if they make eye contact or not. I guess I meet all the polite ones, so don't feel bad, women will never make things easy for us.
I rarely make eye contact with anyone, actually. I don't do it purpose but I'm shy so it just automatically happens. Don't take it personally, it probably doesn't have to do with you, or if it does, it's likely not bad.
its intimidating probably, just like the most beautiful girls don't get approached as much cause 90% of guys think they really have no chance with them.
Next time maybe you can smile first from far away...I say far away because they'd have to have eye contact at that point to see where they're going. Then when they get closer they'd return it and there you go...FYI: they probably ARE intimidated...
I avoid eye contact a lot because that usually leaves a door open for a conversation to start, and I'm not a very talkative person.
Us girls can be just as scared as boys when it comes to approaching the opposite sex. They could feel intimidated. Next time, if you see a cutie you like, give her a little smile.
Not really. Sometimes girls are shy than you think and they would got nervous if you have noticed they had watching you. So be confidence about yourself !
Yeah, they probably think you're not interested. If you're pretty good looking they might be intimidated and not want to make the first move. So, you definitely should.
maybe theyre just not interested in you? or maybe you make too much eye contact with them and they feel intimidated
If you make eye contact you should go chuck them under the chin or something or they'll think you are inhibited.
conversation rules the nation! maybe you should try that and stop looking creepy and actually speak to them!
You obviously have no confidence in yourself so they aren't gonna be looking at you until you start believing in your own worth.
maybe they are just too shy to look you in the eye idk
haha it's happens, I don't make eye-contact with an attractive guy lol.
yeah dude :P we are so good lookin that wee seem unapproachable :D but there's another factor! if you are not alone for instance with your guy friends ull seem even more unaproachable.
yeah, she is probably nervous/shy so she doesn't keep eye contact : ) and to answer your other question, I would think a guy thought I was ugly or something if he only looked at me but never made an attempt to get to know me better lol...I would think "do I have something on my face?" lol...
Maybe they think you are a bit conceded or shallow. idk?
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