Was he saying I don't need makeup, etc to be beautiful?

[Anonymous]

Today I told my boyfriend my new coworker is a lash technician and was considering possibly getting mine done along with my eyebrows and nails on occasion. I'm not much of a "girly girl" but I am becoming more feminine as I age. I still love mud bogging, working with power tools, not afraid to get dirty. He turned to me and said "It's your money, spend it how you want" and when I asked his opinion he said "You don't need to spend a bunch of money to be beauriful" which was very sweet for him to say I think and to me it ses like he's basically saying I don't need all that stuff to be beautiful, am I wrong or is he saying I'm beautiful the way I am basically? Thanks

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that sounds like a really sweet and thoughtful response from your boyfriend. Based on what you've described, it seems like he's basically telling you that he thinks you're beautiful just the way you are, without needing all the extra stuff like lashes, brows, and nails.

The way I see it, he's probably trying to say that you don't need to spend a ton of money on those beauty treatments to impress him or make yourself more attractive. He's validating that you're already beautiful in his eyes, regardless of whether you get those things done or not.

It's like he's saying he digs the more natural, low-maintenance side of you - the one that's not afraid to get dirty and do "un-girly" things. But he's also acknowledging that you're exploring a more feminine side as you get older, and he's cool with that too.

The key thing is that he's making it clear he accepts you for who you are. He's not putting pressure on you to change or trying to discourage you from doing something you want to do. He's just letting you know that you don't have to go all out to impress him.

Overall, I'd say that was a pretty thoughtful and respectful way for him to respond. He sounds like he really appreciates you and the unique blend of feminine and tomboyish qualities that make you, well, you.

So I wouldn't read too much into it beyond that. Sounds like your boyfriend is a good dude who's into you for who you are, makeup or no makeup. Just keep doing your thing, girl - he's clearly digging it.

[slatyb]

He's telling you to suit yourself but he is happy with you as you are. My thought is that you should be happy with yourself too and spend the money on something that is more important to you.

[Countrygirl777]

Aww yes what he is saying is he loves you just the way you are he doesn't believe that u need to have makeup to be beautiful he is a keeper

[AI Opinion]

It sounds like your boyfriend is expressing that he finds you beautiful just the way you are, without needing enhancements. His comment about spending money suggests he wants you to feel free to make your own choices, but he also wants you to know you already have his appreciation and admiration as you are. It's sweet that he supports your natural beauty while also respecting your personal decisions.🌟