How do I accept that I will never be petite as a tall big woman?

[AmazonChick171]

I’m slim but I’m medium size built, 6’4 and even though I’m slim, I look huge around petite women, even 5’8 women.

I've always dreamed being shorter because most things seems easier on a shorter woman than a very tall woman. Men like short women, more room in cares and are planes, hiding is easier and nobody gives you nasty glare looks.

Growing up my parents said I need to embrace my height and people are just jealous and wish they were like us.

Mom said I will never be a petite woman and I need to accept that. So what if there’s women smaller than you? More are. Accept that I will always be a larger girl. Get over it.

I can’t get over it. I want to be petite. Petite women look more feminine “as men say” and tall men love short or petite size women. Tall men don’t like tall women and that’s a fact. 😭😭

6’4, medium size/large shirt, 160s, size 13 feet in women’s and it SUCKS.

[msc545]

We all have physical conditions we dislike and you are not alone in this. you height does not make you unlovable, but your discomfort with your height is a bit off-putting and that alone may make it difficult to get to know you. I am not nearly as tall as you are, but for me st least that would not be a factor if I got to know you and I liked you.

The getting to know you part of that is, of course, the real immediate problem. I am not sure what the real underlying problem here actually is, but I am pretty sure it isn't your height.

What do you really want?

[SixFootSexy]

I know a woman who is your height & weight, she started lifting and she looks like a snack now. She has a dumptruck booty and there's nothing wrong because she takes care of herself, fixed her style and flattened her tummy. All off a breakup last year.

[AmazonChick171]

Well good for her

[Anonymous]

Get over it already. You will never be petite or short. You don't need to be with a tall dude you shallow little thing.

Find a short guy - who's only thing for him is that he's short and that's why no woman wants him. Then you two can sit and whine about being short/tall and how that makes you struggle more than anyone else.

Know taller and bigger women than you and they're happy with TALL men. You must just simply suck all over.

[AmazonChick171]

Okay that was extremely rude! I didn’t ask you to be rude. I’ll have you know my ex boyfriend and I dated for a year in a half and he’s 5’7. Us tall women get shamed for preferring tall men and short/petite and average size women don’t get criticized for preferring tall men. You’re probably just jealous of my height.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't give a fuck anymore. People have answered this shit thousands of times. Go date a short guy, you can blame all your problems on your height together.

No I'm not, I'm not jealous of being unwanted forever, while hating myself and making my height my whole persona. One ex. Dear it ain't your height that is the issue. It is YOU.

[Opinion Owner]

Now your height is something to be jealous about according to you. Stop being a shallow bitch and date a short guy especially when you're whining like a bitch over people not wanting you because you're tall. (hint it ain't it)

[Opinion Owner]

I don't give a shit about tall women and their preference, lots of them are dating and this includes dating tall dudes - with no issue. And then it is you. The troll that no one wants and talks down to.

[Jj1994]

By looking in the mirror and saying fuck everyone else, you are who you are live life don’t worry about little things that honestly don’t matter

[AI Opinion]

Embracing your uniqueness can be empowering. Your height is part of what makes you special, and it’s important to focus on your strengths rather than comparisons. Elegance and femininity aren’t dictated by size, but by confidence, which you can cultivate. Many tall women celebrate their height, standing out in a world full of average. Remember, people’s preferences vary, and there are men who adore tall women. Embrace your height, as it gives you a distinctive aura many admire. Acknowledge your parents’ words, cherish your individuality, and confidently express yourself.

[WonderingManII]

You just make up your mind that you will accept it. You shouldn't fret over things you can't change. It doesn't do you any good emotionally. But one thing you can try working on is your personality. Like be polite. Be gentle. Be sweet. I think guys like that in a woman.

[Surely]

Until you can convince yourself. Of how you want to accept what you were born with and can not change. When you can appreciate yourself and be the best person you can be. People will shy away from you. Because you are probably projecting your personal feelings about you not finding a mate!
Merry Christmas!🎁

[Ironco]

Size never stopped me.

I've dated 5 ft women up to 6-6ft women. I'm 6 ft. For me it has to do with her personality, humor, and self confidence.

They're are guys out there for you, just don't put so much pressure on yourself.

[Sunlight4]

Love yourself and don’t look at it the way you think men like short girls.

[AmazonChick171]

But it’s true! Men especially tall ones like petite women. I WILL NEVER EVER BE PETITE!! I’m always going to be this tall large woman. My dad keep reminding me that I’m very tall and I can’t wear or do things little petite women do and I HATE being reminded that I’m not little. That makes me feel embarrassed bout myself. My dad said to not be ashamed of it and everyone will always mention that I’m tall and big (we’ll I’m slim). I need to brush it off. Mom also said I need to find close that makes ME comfortable and forget about the latest fashion and stop trying to be something I’ll never be. She struggled with it growing up as well.
My mom is 5’10 and dad is 6’7.

[Anonymous]

I would definitely date a woman taller than me but unfortunately we live far away and I don't think we're sexually compatible

[Anonymous]

You should find a guy that likes fem do m.

[Opinion Owner]

Do you like fem do m @amazonchick171?

[Opinion Owner]

Open your dms to people you don't follow.