People tend to hate on women with "hourglass bodies" or just for being skinny or slim, is being big more attractive nowadays? I'm a little confused because I through skinnier women were usually preferred.
I highly doubt it , the problem with society is a lot of people are fixated on what they see on tv or social media , thinking that’s the only way someone would find them attractive and that’s where people are wrong. Everyone has their own preferences of what they like and don’t like , So never compare yourself to anyone period. Just because one person might not find you attractive, it doesn’t mean everyone else is going to think the same thing. Sadly most people are their own worst enemies when it comes to being a certain way. Just accept yourself for who you are and find someone that accepts you for who you are. If someone doesn’t like you because you are too skinny or too fat , Oh well , that’s their choice and decision. Do you really want to be with someone that wants you to be what they want you to be? That isn’t love , that is abuse. Find someone that accepts you for you. Just because someone is skinny doesn’t mean they are attractive , just because someone is chubby , doesn’t mean they aren’t attractive. Me personally prefers a girl to have some meat on her bones , not to skinny and not to fat , I am not saying all skinny girls or chubby girls’ are ugly , I just prefer a girl that is average , if she puts on some weight no big deal , if she loses some weight no big deal to me , she is still beautiful to my eyes. I dated real skinny girls’ that looked beautiful to me , that watched what they ate , counted their calories , always worried about her weight , but when it came down to having sex with her , I felt like I was banging a skeleton , , so I ended up dating a girl with some more meat on her bones and the sex was 100 times better in my opinion. , so that’s why I prefer a girl with some meat on her bones compared to some real skinny girl that looks like a skeleton
No, and in fact, the "thicc" trend has been over for the last 4-5 years already, having had a big surge in the 2000s.
A few years ago, Victoria's Secret tried to go woke, and embraced "body positivity" among other things and put a bunch of "plus-sized" models in their ads. Their sales dropped by nearly 40%, and they've since announced that they have "pulled back" on wokeness and are putting hot women in their ads again. And those women are thin.
The "thicc" trend was largely due to the huge influence of Hip-Hop culture that ramped up in the 90s and dominated in the 2000s. It's been proven that among the lower class (regardless of race), bigger women are more desirable, while middle and upper-class people prefer thin women. Hip-Hop grew out of the lower class, both NYC and Los Angeles lower-class areas, and Hip-Hop culture reflects those values and aesthetics.
But after 20 years of Hip-Hop culture dominating, trends have moved back towards traditional values as of the last 4-5 years. Hell, even Lizzo is losing weight.
Makes sense, thank you!
Not necessarily. But different people have different versions of attractive. Some guys like hourglass, some guys like straight, some like pear, etc. You just have to find the guy who likes you for you and excepts your body type.
Those “people” who hate slim women tend to be fat women. When I hear, “OMG, is that all you eat?” I want to reply with something about the pile of salt and sugar that person is shoveling in their mouth.
It's always cake.
People always say to me " you're so skinny"... then I reply with " why are you so fat " 🤔
@dustybiker2 I hadn’t thought about that, but I believe you are correct! In hind sight, those women are usually the same ones eating donuts. Just today one asked if I wanted to “split” a dozen donuts with her. She knows me and knows I wouldn’t even eat one. It’s interesting how they want to make everyone else fat too. No thank you!
@fantasticass I always want to reply, “Hey Fatty,” when they say, “Hey Skinny.”
@TrueConfection But they never think to ask how slim people eat, it's always what diet to try next.
@fantasticass and @TrueConfection
Agreed on the comments back. It gets harder to bite the tongue. Some do slip.
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Slim may not be as advertised as it once was but trust me, lots of people still like slim. That applies to almost any body type in general, really. A lot of people will like all kinds of body types.
I think the reason slim may not be as advertised anymore might be because it's been the standard for god knows how long in recent times.
Yes in older times I know chubby/fat was the ideal yada yada yada, but I'm talking more recent times. I highly doubt most people alive today even existed the first time around when chubby/fat was ideal. Because back then skinny equaled poor while fat equaled rich.
But either way, when something just becomes normal people stop talking about it. So now chubby/thick is the new talking point.
It also sucks that body types are often treated as fashion trends. It sucks but that's how society is I suppose. Society sucks.
Slim is attractive, it is also unattractive.
Being fat is unattractive, it is also attractive.
The fact is, everyone has a type which is individually labeled in ‘eye of the beholder’. You may not see your true beauty, maybe from hardships like bullying, hormonal changes to your body during puberty, feminine product adverts, etc. Though your true beauty is there, just have to look deep and hold onto it… Not let anyone define that except you.
Someone will look beyond whatever standard you have and say you look gorgeous, beautiful, punctual, and fabulous & have a heart from your character, demeanor, radiant personality, etc.
Be you, let those assholes be them. Slim is attractive because a lot of people find it attractive, don’t pay mind to those that say it isn’t attractive since you let them be them & you let you be you. Thank you!
Some jealous women may say so, but men still love slender women. Strong is not the new skinny. And fat is not strong.
Men do prefer the skinnier girls, but a common psychological strategy women employ is to simultaneously talk down women who are more attractive than themselves, while talking themselves up.
'You're skinny with no curves, no man is going to want you. They want a strong, curvy woman like me!'
Meanwhile the skinny girl has probably ten times as many admirers as the wildebeast.
You can see this a lot on things like tiktok comment sections.
If you look at the prettiest girls' videos, you will see tons of comments picking them apart for the most minute things. Meanwhile, if you look at the overweight, overbearing, obnoxious women's videos, it's all "Yass, slay, queen!"
Ignore it all, skinny girls. You're still aces.
I just don't like fat/obese chicks. I've been with really skinny chicks and voluptuous big titts and ass chicks... I'm equally attracted to them both. But if it gets extreme in either direction... nope! Anorexic is yuck and flubby fat arms and rolls are yuck.
Normal and healthy is more than enough to pass my looks test.
Skinny with big assets isn't attractive to me at all lol sorry, it looks weird, the proportion is off.
I agree to a point... when something doesn't match the rest it just doesn't look right. Like giant tits or ass on a skinny chick. Naturally, I don't see that often... it's mainly those chicks that get the surgeries and all that. It's so fake and doesn't look right/
Medium sized at most, otherwise it looks fake even if natural. Also the clothes must be hard to find to be honest.
Do be specific... you give me a skinny chick, I do expect smaller than c cup tiddies to go with that. If she's 120lbs and flopping around double D's it sort of looks retarded and not very attractive. I might be alone with that thought because I see ridiculous things in anime and sex dolls.
I agree.
Slim women ARE preferred by most guys, but you're not allowed to say it because women from from certain ethnic groups tend to have bigger bone structures and thicker bodies. So if you say you're not attracted to that and you prefer slim women, you're classified as a racist.
This is only been true for maybe the last 20 or 30 years. Before that all the models were extremely thin, the thinner the more successful and admired for their appearance. But suddenly that was some kind of racist White privilege thing and you had to make believe things changed and you like fat women.
Call me racist, I prefer thin women! 👍
I've only ever had woman tell me I'm too slim. Which is just as rude as saying back they are fat. I'm built of lean muscle. I'm just not out of shape.
I apologize if I'm being rude here, but ignore the fridges. Most men prefer the look of slim and fit women 👍🏼
@HawkPerception then what's up with the hate on slim girls?
"Hate on"? On? On what? This is grammatically incoherent. Like when some silly people say, "I could care less".
Anyway, no, slim people are not, objectively-speaking, "unattractive". Fat people are. Being obese is both ugly and unhealthy, so don't allow anyone to tell you otherwise.
It's literally slang dude?
It seems that the MSM buys this idea that fat girls are attractive and we should be embarrassed for not realizing that, but it is just more woke nonsense. Most guys do NOT prefer women with 38K boobs and an ass the size of a large boulder. Yes, slender women are ore attractive.
Sorry it just got me worried.
Nah. You only see hate towards slim people from a very vocal minority. Humans are objectively healthier at slimmer weights so it will always be the most sought after as long humanity remains as agriculturally prosperous.
I hope..
Slim or fit body has always been attractive since long ago
Skinny is NOT attractive, sorry
Saying unattractive is too strong, but I don't know any man who wants to be with a bag of bones. They still want the curves.
I didn't mean anorexic but normal slim.
People hate on everyone regardless. Skinny is too skinny. Chubby is fat. Athletic is masculine…. Okay people judge not matter what. Most of the time people don’t even look bad
Slim is and will always be the most attractive body type in my opinion. I've never been into the "thick" trend.
I'm skinny.
I like skinny to hourglass women - depending on the size of the hourglass ⌛ ⏳ I usually go for short fit women (I don't mean they've got muscles or go gym)
No it isn't but for some reason a lot of guys have turned into ass men.. so as long as you got a nice ass you are all good.
Women are just assholes to each other. If you have an hourglass or slimmer figure absolutely no man is going to say you're unattractive for it.
Those comments are from men mostly.
Those might be the ones that stick out more, but honestly, seeing the kinds of women men go for it; it's just not as common. There's just no way. There wouldn't be over 8 billion people on Earth if men were picky.
I am a man, have been my whole life, and I've been surrounded by men of all ages. I can tell you it is extremely rare for a man to say negative things about a woman's looks. The shit women say about each other? Totally different story. The things I hear women say about each other on a fairly regular basis would make me end my friendship with a guy if he made similar comments.
No! Slim to me is the most attractive body type, please don't assume we all want bigger.
Well majority of men tend to hate on us for not being fat.
I'm thin and my boyfriend loves my body. I think thin women are still preferred.
I prefer top heavy (huge boobed) hourglass over everything else.
Um okay?
Much much much prefer slim and healthy women.
I don't think it is.
I imagine it's that the variety of shapes and bodies is still appealing to many
You have it right. Slim women are preferred. Big is not attractive.
Now it's starting to become the new trends underweight and blonde hair is coming back
I am skinny and repel men they think im a little girl
I don't know. It seems whatever the influencers are displaying on tiktok or instagram, or facebook, or youtube, is what everyone flocks too.
Skinny can go to shit real fast. I want meat on the bones just don't be all about that bass...
Healthy and/or athletic is what I find most attractive. Personality can make the fine adjustments from there lol
Nobody is hating on women with hourglass figures unless they are fat and jealous
Nah, slim still rules especially if there some shape in there as well..
I do like the BBW and chubby body type but I would definitely date a skinny girl. There are more guys who prefer bigger girls nowadays but it’s still probably only an 80-20 split of guys who prefer skinny to bigger girls.
No I much prefer a woman with a slim shapely body and "B" cup breasts.
Thanks 🙏.
I prefer curvy over athletic and slim. Real women have curves. Otherwise, I might as well just get with a dude
Many men do, but women think slim is what men like. They’re dead wrong
Depends what you have in mind by slim. Generally speaking I think slim is always better than fat.
I really don't know but I like healthy girl more then slim but some girls are looking very nice in slim size
Don't care. I LOVE slender to average-sized, bosomy women, not fat broads or slim, flat-chested chicks
Not alley mcbeal skinny. Slender, or hourglass is ideal. Guys are attracted to fit and beautiful
Everyone has their own flavor of tea they like drinking. I prefer the girl in the middle.
In my opinion, I'd find a woman with more of a body more attractive that a slim one
Women are so delusional and fragile they think being fat is being thick.
To skinny where you can see ribs are ugly. Fit is better.
Not at all. It’s just that people are taking a more positive view of larger women (and men).
You should look up the high class escort websites which girls are rated up
If it’s Unhealthy skinny. And some people who hate.
Slightly Obese is Considered more Unattractive than Skinny to us Guys.
It’s all a matter of personal preference. I prefer a few curves but my best friend prefers skinny
Yes a lot of guys and girls are into flat chests on girls, it's more androgynous so they can dress like either
Yes as it is a sign of illness. Also women must have breast. Real better than fake breast though
No, it's not, I like slim girls.
But I prefer athletic girls, fit & toned.
Most men prefer skinny women
I think thin women are hot!
Slim is always attractive.
Uh... no? Its not unattractive at all.
I only like very thin women.
Not by me, still love skinny girls
I prefer slim women, personally.
In most cases they still are
hell no. get to the gym!
I dislike tattoos and piercings
I like slim
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