So, I grew my thinning edges back in April, they fell out again but not my fault, will they even come back at this point?

[AmeeliahLeh]

So, on my other post, I mention that im struggling with hair loss at a young age, and recently in April my thinning edges were restored, but still needed to grow longer. I grew them back using Biotin pills, folicle enhancer, and Castor mixed with other oils infused with water. And a few weeks later I derma stamp my hair again, And started braiding my hair like usual for a protective hairstyle and I was in a rush cause I had school tomorrow. My mom offers to help and I agree, Long story short: She brushes my still recovering edges with a boars brush, VERY ROUGH FOR MY HAIR, and puts my hair in bantu knots, which has a lot of tension on my hair. And once again, my edges are gone again.

I'm genuinely scared or more than convinced that I'm cooked, It took my basically a year to get to where I was just for all my progress to be for nothing 😭

I'm really wondering will my edges even come back this time anymore, cause now I'm in denial. I'm really anxious that since this is the second time, and the loss happened so quickly that it's not even gonna come back at this point. What's worse is I'm still in high-school, and even though people think I shaved my hair to look cool, they still talk, and it's worse when you're a girl dealing with this at school. But, share your thoughts, feel free to!

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Sorry if this seems really wordy or hard to read, I'm basically trying to get this off of my chest, I can't go to a dermatologist cause we can't afford it and not can I :(

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Also, another thing! My mom knows that I don't want my hair being brushed to prevent hair loss!

[Levin]

Sorry, obviously not qualified to give professional advice.

A woman in our office had a physically abusive partner, and she wore wigs due to her hair loss. Interestingly, it has all grown back now she is out of the relationship. So stress can do crazy things. Any possibility of extreme stress for you?

But just keep patting yourself on the back and remember how strong you are. It's not an easy thing to go through, doubly difficult at your age because high school is full of nasty little shits! If you can own it in anyway, then own it!

[AmeeliahLeh]

Yes, I do have a a lot that's stressing me out, but it's mostly people at home and school, I learned to stop stressing a lot but im not sure how much stress does it take for my hair to react to be honest ☹️

[Levin]

Just remember that you're tougher than you give yourself credit for. And yeah, I'm sensing some friction between you and your mum.

[Lynx122]

Seems rough, I don't know if it'll come back. I don't have any experience with this kind of thing. Just try and stay positive. In hindsight in high school it's important to think positively about yourself even if you're going through tough times because those thoughts can stick around when you grow up. Try and take risks and face fears. I hope your hair does grow back though :)

[AmeeliahLeh]

Thank you :)

[AI Opinion]

It's understandable to feel frustrated and anxious about your edges, especially with the challenges of school life. Hair growth can be resilient, and with patience and care, your edges can return. It might help to avoid high-tension styles and use a gentle approach when handling your hair. Continue with nourishing treatments, and consider consulting a specialist for personalized advice. Your edges may need time to heal, so try to be patient with the process. Remember, you're not alone in this, and it's perfectly okay to seek support. 💖

[Jennz6]

It’s going to grow back

[Jennz6]

@ameeliahleh
Brushing is good, one hundred strokes every night for circulation

[AmeeliahLeh]

Ty :)

[Jennz6]

You’re welcome dear

[AmeeliahLeh]

I think I mostly need a brush with plastic bristles cause I have 4c Hair I believe and, there was another time when my mom brushed my hair and it fell out slightly in the back but fortunately it came back

[Jennz6]

@ameeliahleh
Good idea ❤️🥰