Wearing lingerie to work?

[brockett]

so the girl im seeing was gonna wear some of her lingerie to work the other day until I asked what's the purpose of wearing that to work. I've practically have had to beg for her to wear some for me at night but she was just gonna nonchalantly wear some to work? she bartends at a restaurant which is a fancier place. the fact that I've had to ask for her to wear it and then she was just gonna casually wear it to work like its no big deal bothers me. what's your thought on this and have you ever done it just to give yourself a morale boost? trying to figure out what was running through her brain because I don't understand it.. any opinions are appreciated. what's your honest feeling on this? you can be brutally honest. I like brutal honesty. thanks

[_Maya_]

I will be brutally honest as requested. I dont believe your story one bit. No girl wears lingerie to work much less a "fancy" place as you indicate she works at. Brutally honest this sounds like a fantasy and something you are making up. Do the other girls at this fancy bar also regularly wear lingerie to work? Is this acceptable to the employer and I'm guessing they would have been informed of this in advance and agreed to it or she risks her job and livelihood. Since they will have signed off on this then what kind of standards does this upscale establishment have? As a former bartender i don't buy this one bit. This sounds like a fantasy in your head much more than a reality in real life.

[DryGermanGuy]

For what it's worth, in twenty years I encountered two female bartenders wearing what could be considered similar. One girl was wearing a transparent long-sleeved top with a small black bar over the nipples, the other was wearing a really snug corset. Both places were not fancy though, rather for students, young people and the occasional G. I..

[brockett]

im sorry I didn't make it clear she was wearing it underneath her normal work clothes.. and no unfortunately this is true.
maybe hearing it was just under her clothes will make it make more sense. sorry about that part

[brockett]

sorry I didn't clarify it enough, lingerie was only gonna be under her normal work attire. my bad on that

[brockett]

not sure why my replies to the person above you gets posted to your message. sorry

[brockett]

sorry I didn't write it out more clear, it was only underneath her normal work clothes

[emeraldsaphire]

Like under her clothes? I've never worn lingerie to work, even when I worked for a place where the girls would flirt with guys for bigger tips. I've worn a thong under my work clothes before, but that's it.

She's free to do what ever she likes. If you want a girl who wears lingerie in the bed room you may want to get another partner. If she's wearing it to work, she's either cheating on you with someone at work, the job requires her to wear it and she doesn't enjoy it, or she's trying to make you jealous or angry

[brockett]

correct its only under her normal work clothes

[AviatorTom]

A barmaid wearing lingerie is gonna get a lot of tips, which is why she does it.

You should know that begging a woman to do anything will cause her to do just the opposite, and that includes wearing lingerie for you. Rather than beg, take her shopping for lingerie, and let her know she is beautiful.

[brockett]

never really begged her to wear it, and my apology it was under her normal work clothes.. I didn't make that clear I see now

[eninytxis]

Who wouldn't love a woman that wears lingerie to work.

[AI Opinion]

Wearing lingerie to work might seem unusual, but it can be an empowering choice for some. For many, it’s about feeling confident, embracing their femininity, or just enjoying a little secret confidence boost. I personally haven't done it, but I can see the appeal. It's probably less about the audience and more about how it makes her feel. Just because she wears it at work doesn't diminish its specialness with you. Maybe it's an opportunity to talk and understand each other's perspectives better. 😄

[MaddyJ]

Never took. That’s not what it’s for

[laraWM]

To be honest, she can do what she wants if it shouldn't bother you what she wears.

In my opinion wearing this with people you don't know and with close people is not the same and could be easier. And if you asked too much that she should wear it she may have felt uncomfortable

[FreyaRed]

I don't expect anything in work, why should I wear lingies?

[soe11]

• If you want you can.

[Anonymous]

For me, lingerie is totally irrelevant.