Would a beautiful girl still be desirable at age 30 something?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I feel like what was the point of being beautiful if I was anyways going to age it doesn't even make sense.

[AI Opinion]

Beauty at 30-something is absolutely still desirable, and in many ways more interesting 💅🏻

Your looks didn’t lose their “point” just because time passes. They gave you experiences, confidence, connections, fun. Now they mix with maturity, personality, humor, depth. That combo is magnetic.

Attraction doesn’t stop at 30, it just evolves. You’re not “past it” – you’re in your prime.

[BadApple69]

Some women put too much on outer beauty and a lot less on inter beauty.
The old saying “beauty is only skin deep” is true for the outer beauty only.
When I was a young boy (14) there was a lady in her 80s that my mother took care of. She couldn’t drive so my mother shopped for her and trove her to places she needed to go.
When I would see her which was a lot I was captivated by her stories and her wisdom in life. I admired her and enjoyed the opportunity to sit with her and talk.
I tell this story because it doesn’t matter your beauty, if you want to hold someone’s interest then have something interesting to say. Be that person that people want to be around.

[choco-latte]

There are plenty of women who are still attractive in their 30’s and past it. For example Giorgia Meloni is almost 50, Sofia Vergara is almost 54 and they still have a lot of admirers. Even if we leave celebrities and notice women in around us, some of them are 40-50 and looking great. A good diet, exercise and just prioritizing health and good skin care helps maintain your beauty.

[Asker]

But most are the most beautiful they've ever been in their 20s.

[choco-latte]

Not always, but even so just because you were a bit more beautiful 5 years ago doesn’t mean you can’t be a bomb now or 10 years from now. Many of these women are still more attractive than many women in their 20’s.

[Asker]

I guess I've been so used to being told my whole life that i was so pretty so beautiful now I'm like... heh it will just be GONE like that? That doesn't seem very fair

[choco-latte]

Confidence is something that can make almost anyone more attractive. You can’t control aging but you can control how you handle aging. You can maintain your confidence by focusing on a gym plan or something like that for example. Once you actually focus on the exercise just for the sake of exercising you will see improvements in your body by yourself with time. You have to keep valuing yourself and taking care of yourself in every aspect not just beauty.

[Asker]

See I was never like sexy like I didn't give off those vibes more like conventionally beautiful.

So much so that sometimes I would look at actresses and think but i'm so much prettier.

And it's true I was lol I mean of course there were lots of celebrities prettier than me but I was prettier than a lot of celebs too.

However I do see your point with regards to I do have some control over this aspect beauty regimes, gyms and so on

[Asker]

Like am I prettier than Megan Fox? No. Of course not.

Am I prettier than that Twilight actress I forgot her name Kristen I think.

FOR SURE.

[MrChinaski]

If all you ever had going for you was physical, then, no.

If you are a deep, interesting person that has invested in their self-development, has interesting perspectives on lives, ambitions, career goals and make a contribution to the world, can hold a conversation, has seen the world, is well-balanced and intelligent, and genuinely enjoys sharing fun together, then, yes. Women like that stay beautiful forever.

[Asker]

I am those things however it is SO cruel to have been born beautiful and to have that fade away as you age.

Nothing else about you fades so why your looks especially when you were so sweet beautiful

There are some people who are beautiful but they almost have this evil look to them.

Some are beautiful in a very sweet way.

I was the latter.

I can't EVEN BE CUTE ANYMORE WHAT THE HELL

[Anonymous]

Yes she would. But desirable in what way? Just for sex? There are women who meet men while older, maybe not like they used to. This isn’t true for all women, but I’ve noticed that at that age if she isn’t a someone there’s more than likely something going on w her. Maybe it’s her personality that’s why men aren’t wiring her up.

[Anonymous]

What @mrchinaski said. And based on your response you are NOT those things. Or you wouldn't be as preoccupied with it. Nothing in this last forever from your youth to your health. And one day you will die. But if you live your life the right way. Invest in other people. Lift others up. Be a light in this world. Than what you do while you're can reverberate for generations.

[Asker]

You are foolish because no matter how anything a person is, being beautiful is most certainly a part of someone's personality if they were beautiful for most of their life.

So it feels like a part of your personality is being taken away from you.

[Opinion Owner]

And that's how @mrchinaski and i know what type of person you are. People who are beautiful inside do not think like that. They know their inner beauty outshines the rest. They may know they have otward beauty. But that is NOT where their true value lies.

[Asker]

Everything in life except your looks are going to stay with you till you die.

Your looks don't. That doesn't seem fair at all.

Beauty like knowledge, wealth etc. is power.

[Opinion Owner]

By then most people have typically found their person. And beauty ATTRACTS a guy. But it doesn't KEEP a guy. You gotta be more than just beautiful hun. If you haven't figured that out by your 30's your failing looks are NOT your real problem.

[Asker]

No I just feel like I don't know. Falling in love in your 30s is just not the same.

It's complicated.

[Opinion Owner]

Well yeah, guys are not dumb anymore. It's easy to trick a young guy. They're going primarily off of hormones and ideals. By their 30's guys have typically seen about every trick that's in a woman's bag. A woman gets found out pretty quick if she's not being genuine with a guy in his 30's. Now those women can get slimeballs pretty easily. But slimeballs are always gettable. Because they are playing her as much as she is playing them.

[Asker]

No it's not that.

Like you laugh less in your 30s. The freedom of youth is gone.

I don't know how to explain it

[Opinion Owner]

Well you're not a kid anymore. Life has reprecussions, life isn't carefree. Hopefully you're gaining wisdom. That doesn't mean life has stop being fun. Being happy is a choice. And only YOU are responsible for your happiness. Not anyone else. Maybe that's your problem. Up till now you've made that somebody elses responsibility.🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

I want to be a kid forever not in terms of escaping responsibilities but just feeling light

I've become so dark

[Opinion Owner]

We all hit that period at some point. At some point you realize that is only one stage of many. You're a LONG WAY from old. With a lot of good times and great experiences ahead of you.

[Opinion Owner]

My 40's was my favorite decade so far

[Asker]

Really why? Was 40s best decade.

[Opinion Owner]

Lots of reasons i feel like that was the decade i really found myself, my voice, who i was. Up to that point i felt like i was being what everyone expected me to be. That decade was a decade that presented me with growth and changes. Changes in my health, in my occupation, in my finances. It was the first time i ever had a 6 figure year (towards the end of it, hopefully that continues in my 50's). Adversity either builds or breaks a man. He's tested and finds out what he's made of. My 40's really tested me. And when you emerge from it you realize you're stronger and more capable than you ever thought. I grew in my faith. I re-dedicated my life to Christ. And hopefully God has good things in store for me in my 50's.👍

[Chayce]

Some people look better as they age to be fair. Also if you run a great skin routine, drink plenty of water, workout, and abstain or heavily limit alcohol smoking and drugs you can look amazing.

[Asker]

Lot of people give up on life in their 30s

[Asker]

As on look at life as it will be the same hereon no point in trying to change it

[Chayce]

What's up with the overwhelming amount of negative people on this site. I think some of you need to do some serious soul searching.

[DryGermanGuy]

Monica Bellucci... the fifty year old Bond "girl". 🤭😍

[OneViewpoint]

You think it's over at 30? Think again! Only if you let that be your truth.

[FunkyMonkee]

Of course! I've seen girls in their 40's and 50's that were still gorgeous and barely looked older than 20-something.

[Nikki1989]

You are like a grey sprinkle on a rainbow cupcake. Cheer up.

[Nikki1989]

And don't let the usual anon trolls get you down when they arrive on this post either.

[Anonymous]

It's supposed to attract a mate for reproduction. After that it doesn't matter.

[Asker]

Of course it matters I want true love

[AngryCarl3]

A beautiful woman will probably still be beautiful in her 30s.

[itss_lily]

of course. 30 something is not old

[Anonymous]

That is up to you.

[Asker]

It just feels like... I don't know a part of my personality is also disappearing.

[Opinion Owner]

You're early 30s. If you want kids you always donate eggs it will still biologically yours and in 100 years no one is going to care if you raised them or not.

If you want a co-parent there are apps to start a family with a man with romantic interest. Purely platonic parenting.

Other than starting a family the age is not a big deal for finding love.

I was the same way when I was in my 20s when I got to 30s I realized non of that shit really matters and my happiness and peace is more important to me. I can do whatever I want on my own.

[Asker]

Who even wants kids I swear.

I mean of course eventually I will have one but kids are burdens.

Why? Because you put your own life on hold until the child grows up.

Also I think it is because I feel you are much more likely to fall in love when you're younger. When you're older what happens is I don't know like you just can't have those feelings for someone the same way.

For example let's say I want jack from titanic. I know that jack from titanic in his 30s is not going to blindly love me or anyone, because what's in it for him?

My mom has to love me it's like in the manual or something.

But why would Jack? What is he getting out of loving someone.

[jahaims]

Depends on way more than looks

[Anonymous]

lol it matters. Genes , race

[canamlusciouslad73]

Yep.

[Asker]

I still look very similar to what I was like before but something has changed I can't place it.

Like I look more mature.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[leviopperman]

not as much

[MasterKS]

yes why not?