Are ugly guys doomed to die alone?

Question

girls have developed high standards and only want want actor/model looking guys and dismiss the rest . Confidence is a lie . It means a guy who every girl wants = good looking guy .

Answer 1

Alonso14

Xper 2

Well about 50% of people with partners die alone anyway if their partner dies first, so its something a lot of people have to contend with.

As for not being able to get a partner its going to be far harder if you are ugly, especially with attractive girls who are almost completely unobtainable for ugly guys. The obvious answer is to go for less attractive women, it still won't be easy though, just hang in their and keep trying.

The other alternative is to work on making yourself less ugly. Depending on what issues you have the advice would be very different but no matter what is wrong with you its possible to make significant improvements. Try the obvious stuff like working out, buying new clothes and experimenting with a different hairstyle. If that fails look into plastic surgery and/or steroids.

Answer 2

Cantremember

Explorer

What's wrong with liking good looking people? Yes there will always be someone too shallow. But to be honest, I find guys more guilty of that than girls. At least in my experience I see more girls liking a guy for his personality than the other way around.

And, why is this even a concern to you? If she is shallow you don't want to be with her anyway. Problem solved.

Asker

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its not one . its many
Cantremember

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there are more than 3 billion women on this planet. why do you concern yourself with those "many" you don't want to even be with?
Asker

+1 y
how many of them are my age , in my area , speak the same language ,and want an ugly guy ?
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Cantremember

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How many of them do you want to be with?
Asker

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any girl who is willing to date me
Cantremember

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I am sure girls are falling over themselves to be the "any girl".
Asker

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they don't need to know
Cantremember

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I am sure that makes them feel very special.
Asker

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well when I had standards it wasn't different
Cantremember

+1 y
I wasn't talking about your standards but you ability to make girls feel special
Asker

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oh ya I forgot the guy has to do everything .
Cantremember

+1 y
one thing =/= everything

Answer 3

Asker

its not one . its many

Answer 4

Cantremember

there are more than 3 billion women on this planet. why do you concern yourself with those "many" you don't want to even be with?

Answer 5

Asker

how many of them are my age , in my area , speak the same language ,and want an ugly guy ?

Answer 6

Cantremember

How many of them do you want to be with?

Answer 7

Asker

any girl who is willing to date me

Answer 8

Cantremember

I am sure girls are falling over themselves to be the "any girl".

Answer 9

Asker

they don't need to know

Answer 10

Cantremember

I am sure that makes them feel very special.

Answer 11

Asker

well when I had standards it wasn't different

Answer 12

Cantremember

I wasn't talking about your standards but you ability to make girls feel special

Answer 13

Asker

oh ya I forgot the guy has to do everything .

Answer 14

Cantremember

one thing =/= everything

Answer 15

heavenonearth

Guru

You're falling into this trap of a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more you think like that and base your behavior on those thoughts, the worse the situation is going to get. The truth is there's only a small amount of girls out there who only want guys with model looks. If you're ugly (and not just perceiving yourself that way because of low self-esteem) you might have a harder time of it than other guys, but it's far from hopeless.

Answer 16

MaskofInsanity

Guru

No, though ugly guys with no personality, confidence or sense of happiness are definitely more likely to than others.

A charismatic, carefree attitude will make anyone 100x more attractive.

Asker

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well I'm a 0 so 0x100 is still 0
MaskofInsanity

+1 y
Ahh, high five for the positivity!
Asker

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iv ebeen called a 0 by women , why should I lie to myself ?
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MaskofInsanity

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Why not just acknowledge those women are probably bitches, ignore them and move on? Life's too short not to do what you can to enjoy it.
Asker

+1 y
becuase when many say it , then it must be true
MaskofInsanity

+1 y
That's the silliest logic ever.
Investigator

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Okay, first off, how the hell can you have been called a 0? That sounds like exaggeration to me. The ugliest guy in the world would probably be like a 1 (if that's possible), so a 0 would be the sum total of all humanity's garbage, concentrated into a single point, which I strongly doubt you are. Some women just seem to be full of it, given the claims brought against them.
Second, "because when many say it, it must be true?" Really? No, it's more like "Many people comprise a population that has said [blank]." Also, fallacy by appeal to the masses. I will admit that I myself am prone to this kind of fallacious thinking, but that doesn't make it true.

Answer 17

Asker

well I'm a 0 so 0x100 is still 0

Answer 18

MaskofInsanity

Ahh, high five for the positivity!

Answer 19

Asker

iv ebeen called a 0 by women , why should I lie to myself ?

Answer 20

MaskofInsanity

Why not just acknowledge those women are probably bitches, ignore them and move on? Life's too short not to do what you can to enjoy it.

Answer 21

Asker

becuase when many say it , then it must be true

Answer 22

MaskofInsanity

That's the silliest logic ever.

Answer 23

Investigator

Okay, first off, how the hell can you have been called a 0? That sounds like exaggeration to me. The ugliest guy in the world would probably be like a 1 (if that's possible), so a 0 would be the sum total of all humanity's garbage, concentrated into a single point, which I strongly doubt you are. Some women just seem to be full of it, given the claims brought against them.
Second, "because when many say it, it must be true?" Really? No, it's more like "Many people comprise a population that has said [blank]." Also, fallacy by appeal to the masses. I will admit that I myself am prone to this kind of fallacious thinking, but that doesn't make it true.

Answer 24

Anonymous

I've seen my fair share of cute girls with ugly dudes. My girlfriend used to date this homely looking grocery bagger before she dated me. And my girlfriend is the highly desired type.

Plus ugly girl's have hope too. My poor cousin was a hideous little girl who had to get a serious nose job to look remotely decent (enormous nostrils we are talking about). She eventually got married before 30 and eventually landed a supervisory job and a big corporation.

Answer 25

damo2487

Xper 4

Im an ugly mofo but my chick is stunning lol . you will appear attractive to any girl you can sweep off there feet and appeal to be yaself you be surprised

Asker

+1 y
sure

Answer 26

jmowen

Explorer

I've seen some.. unattractive men get married. Even to attractive girls. I'm not BS'ing you. Don't give up hope. There's someone out there for everyone.

Answer 27

Anonymous

Different women have different expectations. So stay confident, but don't be a douche. The right girl will like you, but if you think you are less than average looking, don't go for average or above average women. Sorry, sad truth

Asker

+1 y
ive learned that confidence isn't real

Answer 28

Asker

ive learned that confidence isn't real

Answer 29

Anonymous

If you think you're ugly, go for the ugly girls then. I bet you're not doing that LOL.

How many guys have model/actor looks? 5% maybe, at most. You do the math.

Asker

+1 y
i approach girls who look like theyve never been approached before . I know that I'm trash and don't deserve better
Opinion Owner

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You have low self-esteem. If you have even a hint of desire to change, you can do it. I used to have low self-esteem and zero confidence. I'm not perfect, but I'm much better than I was.
Asker

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i worked it for almost a year and still doing so and its useless so far . Girls still hate me
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Opinion Owner

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Analyse what you're doing rationally. Learn from successful men.
Asker

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they are all average-good looking

Answer 30

Asker

i approach girls who look like theyve never been approached before . I know that I'm trash and don't deserve better

Answer 31

Opinion Owner

You have low self-esteem. If you have even a hint of desire to change, you can do it. I used to have low self-esteem and zero confidence. I'm not perfect, but I'm much better than I was.

Answer 32

Asker

i worked it for almost a year and still doing so and its useless so far . Girls still hate me

Answer 33

Opinion Owner

Analyse what you're doing rationally. Learn from successful men.

Answer 34

Asker

they are all average-good looking

Answer 35

Anonymous

That's only because there is a difference between being confident and being a cocky-douche. Lol. Just be yourself, but be sweet.

Asker

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what if I am not sweet ?
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Then have fun being alone...girls don't like douche bags.
Asker

+1 y
hahahaha sure
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Opinion Owner

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You wanted answers, I'm giving them to you straight and not sugar coating it. But from the little convo I've had with ya, you seem like a douche and that is most likely why girls don't like you. Grow up.
Asker

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oh I believe you . Girls like nice guys and they never ditch them or friend zone them

Answer 36

Asker

what if I am not sweet ?

Answer 37

Opinion Owner

Then have fun being alone...girls don't like douche bags.

Answer 38

Asker

hahahaha sure

Answer 39

Opinion Owner

You wanted answers, I'm giving them to you straight and not sugar coating it. But from the little convo I've had with ya, you seem like a douche and that is most likely why girls don't like you. Grow up.

Answer 40

Asker

oh I believe you . Girls like nice guys and they never ditch them or friend zone them

Answer 41

ROBLOXIAN

Xper 4

Doomed? I SHOULD BE HAPPY

Asker

+1 y
what?

Answer 42

Asker

what?

Answer 43

Anonymous

maybe you are aiming too high

Asker

+1 y
no I go lower than most people

Answer 44

Asker

no I go lower than most people

Answer 45

Anonymous

Well you wouldn't date an ugly girl too

Asker

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i would . Those are the girls who treat me worse

Answer 46

Asker

i would . Those are the girls who treat me worse

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