Do ugly guys deserve to be single for the rest of their life?

[Anonymous]

I never had a girlfriend, have been rejected nonstop. Do ugly guys deserve to be single for life?

[serious]

No, nobody deserves to be single, it's rather they are meant to be single or tend to be single either longer than other sometimes for the rest of their lives, it can be for various reasons, looks are one of the reasons but it can be for other reasons as well, mentality, attitude, bad personality and so on. I don't think being ugly has anything to do with "deserving to be single".

Hence, ugly or not ugly I don't think anyone "deserves" to be single, they rather remain single, and some people also have bad luck despite trying they don't find someone who can love them for who they are, it's not their fault so luck also plays a role in this.

[Asker]

Didn't you read the part about me being rejected nonstop?

[serious]

Yes, I read that but did you read my second para? I said that some people just have bad luck and I am sorry you have been rejected many times but it's good that you are trying and you just seem to have bad luck, I know it can be hard but don't stop your efforts and it doesn't mean you deserve to be single.

[Sky1017]

No, but that doesn't mean life is perfect and everyone finds love.

People get rejected. It sucks and it bruises your ego. Eventually you start asking whether or not you deserve this for being ugly or undesirable and the answer to that will always be no.

You can't control your looks, but what you can control are your actions. Try to take a step back a rejuvenate after a rejection. Take a fun class, go for a walk, hang out with friends. This will help your regain your confidence and be ready for whatever comes next.

Now, go on out there and find the girl you're looking for tiger =)

[prettylittlemynx]

No they just need to work on their additude about themselves and how society views them and work towards but be patient for finding the right person that you would be compatible with on multiple levels.

[Asker]

Attitude?

[prettylittlemynx]

Their self esteem and how they choose to view and act around others

[Asker]

I know plenty of ugly guys that have wonderful personalities that get rejected nonstop.

[dude678908]

She couldn't handle your response cause she knows you are right lol

[Anonymous]

Ugly? Blah, blah who ever said that obviously does Not fully understand that "Beauty is really in the Eye of the Beholder".

Also, what about "inner beauty", obviously those assholes that give you a hard time for your physical appearance are the real "ugly" ones here, since they are the one with the "ugly" judgments with their narrow perceptions.

If that was the case you could always use plastic surgery, since many women and girls have done so to make themselves more "physically attractive" and appealing.

But know this is the ultimate truth, that all physical beauty and youth will eventually fade.

Anyone not giving you a chance just because they perceive you as an "ugly" person is sure missing out, it's their loss and not yours, so fuck them.

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

No man, they dont. Everyone has the right to be happy and live the way they want. If you want a girlfriend you will have to work harder theneveryone else but who cares. Workout, get a nice haircut, get simple but nice clothes. I beleive in you. Go out their and do whatever its going to take to be happy.

[Applefan1]

I have given up on love. I have been single all my life and get treated like shit a lot by girls so I am going to get animals to keep my company.

[Asker]

Sorry man. Are women at least ok with being friends with you?

[Applefan1]

Most are ok with that but some are just simply rude and nasty from the start. Nasty scowls, frowns and mean comments etc etc. People say women mature faster but I believe men mature faster than most women to be honest. At university most of the immature people in my opinion were girls.

[Asker]

What type of chicks were these?

[Applefan1]

A range of different types of chicks that were immature really.

[Asker]

Are you sure you weren't choosing the wrong females?

[Applefan1]

Nah some of them would give nasty looks, scowls and be rude without me even doing anything.

[Asker]

I posted at how women are just visual as men and I talked about an article that talked about it and I got hardly any responses. People can't handle the truth.

[Applefan1]

I believe women are nearly as or maybe even just as visual as men. The reason I think this is because women check men out to. I have had women looking at my ass before, I had a woman toot her car horn at me when I was running down the foot path (I think it was at me).

[Asker]

Also, if women aren't as visual as men than how come most good looking women date good looking men?

[Applefan1]

Deep down looks matter to women just as much as they matter to men. That is what I believe.

[Asker]

Yeah, most women are too chicken to admit it

[Applefan1]

Yup most will not admit it that is right.

[Asker]

Yeah

[XNicholeMariex3]

No, that's ridiculous.

[DaddyRollingStone]

Date an ugly girl, they need love too.

[Asker]

I never said I didn't ask ugly women on dates.

[DaddyRollingStone]

Try lifting a lot of weights, that helps

[dude678908]

You never even answered his question if ugly guys deserve to be single for life @DaddyRollingStone

[Asker]

Yeah DaddyRollingStone answer the question man. Don't be messed up.

[DaddyRollingStone]

I don't know, I'm not God. Do you think you deserve to be alone? Whatever you answer yourself is what you'll believe, regardless of what I tell you.

[Asker]

DaddyRollingStone you seriously think God will think ugly guys deserve to be single for life? Wow, you have a misunderstanding of God for you to even wonder if God will think that.

[DaddyRollingStone]

Is English your first language? That's not what I said at all.

[Asker]

@DaddyRollingStone yes it is. I just don't understand why you said ''I don't know, I am not God.''

[Asker]

Can you please respond to my last message?

[DaddyRollingStone]

It means I don't know everything

[Calex]

I don't think girls care much about looks..

[Asker]

LMAO. Wow dude, you are ignorant. I would have had a girlfriend by now if that was the case. Yeah dude, most women would be ok with a guy that they think is ugly.

[Calex]

That's only what I have been told, right here, on this website.

[Asker]

Wow and you believed what most other people have said? Well that is a myth dude.

[dude678908]

@Calex you are an idiot for believing that.

[fulloflife]

Not at all, everyone has their soul mates

[Anonymous]

No, it's not like they choose to be ugly.

[dude678908]

He is asking if you think ugly guys deserve to be single for the rest of their life? Please answer the question.

[Opinion Owner]

@dude678908 I already said no