Blondes get a lot of hate, but can't we agree that some women don't look good with dark hair?

I am blonde and though I do lighten my hair, my natural hair is light and would not look good dark. I am pale with light eyes. My eyebrows and lashes are pretty light (dirty blonde). I used to want darker hair as a teen but my hair dresser said it will look awful and wash me out. She is right, the lighter I make my hair the more alive my skin looks. And I really just look better blonde, many tell me that and I agree.

So why do blondes get so much hate? Some look very fake and are badly done. But can't we agree that some women just don't look good with dark hair? Namely those with pale reddish-toned skin and blue or green eyes who have light brown or dirty blonde hair and were blonde as kids. Me dyeing my hair dark brown would look just as bad and fake as a girl with black hair and brown eyes going blonde.
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I am pale and even my natural light brownish dirty blondish hair made my skin look very pale, everyone tells me how much more alive I look with light blonde hair.
Blondes get a lot of hate, but can't we agree that some women don't look good with dark hair?
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