Guys Need to Be More Considerate (Page 2)

[GalaxyFlame90]

I would never do tha EVER!! That's absurd there more to life than just sex. I want to know more about their life what their interests are what re their hobbies what do they like you know and know them in person and understand them which is the only way to actually give them respect, by showing and actually having interest in them not just their bodies. Sex is a different story that comes after marriage.

[Guysvsgirls]

Thank you! I wish more guys were like you. :-)

[GalaxyFlame90]

Your Welcome! Appreciate your comment. :)

[allnite69withme]

You will find that, with all the sex in the media and entertainment, many young guys expect it to be about sex. There are also many young women who feel the same way. The important thing it for you to live as YOU desire and look for men who will accept your stance on this and ignore the rest. It may not be easy, but every person deserves to live they way he or she desires and not cave in to other peoples' values or lack thereof.

[miserybusiness]

If I had a dollar for every guy who's wanted to bang me

I'd be Mark Zuckerberg

But if I had a dollar for every guy who's wanted to be with me

I'd still be broke aff

[Guysvsgirls]

That's really sad. :-(

[miserybusiness]

Hahaha yeah :(

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately a of guys believe that being an a$$ appeals to girls. There are plenty of girls willing to date them. You see it all the time. And to make matters worse there are a lot of girls who like jerks.

[MaragothThorn]

It depends on the guy you're talking about. There are plenty of guys out there who only ask for sex, and believe me, I know them. But there are others out there who are respectful. One tip... you want a guy who's respectful, make sure he respects himself and others as well.

[Hannah591]

I wonder how many guys who do this think it'll work? I get so many guys hitting on me regularly, even when they know I have a boyfriend. I find it disrespectful and I do feel like an object; they have no interest in finding out who I am etc.

[BigBootyBoy]

It's not like women don't treat men like objects either.

[Hannah591]

How many girls in the past month have contacted you asking for sex? Because that's what I'm getting at here.

[Guysvsgirls]

Who are you asking?

[Hannah591]

I was asking BigBootyBoy (ironic username, pah)

[Anonymous]

Women will still be saying the same thing about men 10,000 years from now. Can you guess why?

Instead of women trying to change men to be more like women, why not accept the fact that men and women are who and what we are because we are different. Complaining about men acting like men accomplishes nothing positive. It just makes you look silly and pisses people off.

[SecretSomeone]

Girls should stop being dramatic. Oh, right, not all girls are dramatic and not all guys care only for sex. Stop generalizing.

[Boob_Boy]

Butthurt

[SecretSomeone]

@Boob_Boy Nah, I'm calm.

[Applefan1]

I agree, It feels like some girls think that any guy that locks eye contact or talks to a girl in anyway is just wanting to get in her pants and that is something the girl needs to get over. While some guys are too much about sex to fast towards girls so to are some girls towards guys. Not every guy that looks at a girl wants sex with that girl. There is also no excuse for ignoring people that are talking to you. Ignoring people that are talking to you is just plain rude.

[SecretSomeone]

@Applefan1 +1

[RandomStudent]

Still, most guys aren't like this and you are generalizing. A lot of guys might be troling you also, and since they're online there are no real consequences to asking for sex. Guys will always love sex, but most of us want to be in relationships.

[05Jueey]

I don't really internalize it personally. I tend to think the guy who does that is super lame

[kambo_trick3y]

This isn't gonna change shit.

You may as well ask a dog not to bark.

Most guys are more animal than human.

[Guysvsgirls]

That's scary to think.

[kambo_trick3y]

Women too.

Humans in general are wired to seek pleasure, and sex is considered the ultimate pleasure. Most chase it and say "fuck the rest."

[Guysvsgirls]

Well, I'm unlike most. :-)

[AshleyMD]

Humans are animals so not sure what you mean 'most guys are more animal than human.'

[kambo_trick3y]

@AshleyMD

Let me place a bookmark on this point for a second.

This is the most vital part that separates me from other people. I'm an idealist, I expect great things from human beings. We were born with the capacity for great self-awareness and to rise higher than base animal instincts (I didn't say do away with, I said rise higher). But instead of seeing human beings for the valuable potential and precious brain that they have first, and then as an animalistic reproductive option second.

You've chosen their genitals over their brain. A poor and cheap decision.

[AshleyMD]

Oh ok, I see what you meant by saying that now.
I don't agree, but we all have different opinions.

[Anonymous]

It's not my job to police every other guy out there. If you truly feel this way, then I'd play your own game and say that girls need to be more sensible.

[Applefan1]

Some girls do need to be more sensible. I agree guys should not be messaging or talking to random girls like that in public that they do not even know but some girls also need to realise it is also their responsibility to not encourage that kind of behaviour if they don't want it. I mean look at some of the clothes they wear the lowest cut tops you can find or the shortest skirts possible etc etc. If a girl dresses like of course she is going to attract that kind of behaviour from guys.

[Guysvsgirls]

That's a good point! @ Applefan1
That's why I choose to try and dress conservatively.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't even think it has to do with how a girl presents herself in public. All I'm saying here is that instead of getting frustrated and then having the unrealistic expectation that us guys are supposed to be policing each other, as if we're all one big club that has weekly meetings or something. You need to learn to take people as they come, and not paint all of us with your bad experiences.

You'll walk by 99 guys in a day and not notice any particular one standing out because they're acting normal. But that next 1 guy that comes along and offends you stands out because he was the most negative. And instead of saying that you ran into one crude guy that day but otherwise it was a normal day, you start fearing or getting frustrated at the other 99 for the 1 that stood out to you.

Again, that 1 dude isn't my problem.

[Tinkerbell12]

I feel the exact same way that's why when a guy tries to talk to me I dont even bother.

[Anonymous]

Girls only go after certain guys who just want sex and ignore the guys who would actually care about them. Hate on this all you want it's the truth and no guy will feel sorry.

[Ulyss]

Preach it bro chicks don't want nice guys

[front2back]

Okay.
Guys, stop asking girls for sex!

...

No one gave a f**k what I said.

[Guysvsgirls]

Thank you for the support!

[Calex]

Why should I feel guilty because of some guys that can't keep their sexual thoughts to themselves?

Do you want me to apologise for the entire gender? Okay, sorry. :|

[Findesemana]

er... i've never done that, and won't ever... we ARE different... and women are into sex as much as we are haha..

[Guysvsgirls]

Most women are really into sex. But usually they don't try to push the guy into having sex.

[ThatBritishLad]

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I shan't even...

[mario1321]

Your treated the way you allow guys to treat you we are not the smartest

[rUinSAYAN]

in which world do you live? time to turn of the computer and go to bed