Should I be offended that he called me goofy?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to my crush today and he laughed and said "you are goofy". Should I take it offensively?

[dropthetuna]

No! No no no. If he's anything like the guys I know (including myself) he's into you.

[Asker]

Haha okay! Its always hard to tell because he never really compliments me. Its always a you're a weirdo, you're hilarious and now this. I want a compliment for once haha

[dropthetuna]

He is definitely sending you a message. It's ALWAYS better to put yourself out there and see if the stars cross!
Hope I helped :)

[Asker]

I'm working on it. I get so nervous around him, but I'm determined to see if something happens. I just need to get past the fear of possible rejection.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Only if he's Mickey Mouse

[swiftsaver602]

No it's a good thing! Especially considering he laughed when he said it.

[Asker]

Ok, good to know. He always laughs and says I'm goofy, weird and hilarious but I sort of wish he would compliment me in other ways.

[Apophis]

No. What part of that could possibly be offensive?

[Asker]

Idk. I talk and he always either says "you're a weirdo." "You're goofy" or "you're hilarious". He never says compliments.

[Apophis]

Those might actually be compliments. He's probably teasing which means he could very well be into you.
He could be uncomfortable with direct compliments and thinks they might come across wrong.

[Asker]

Ah, true. Never thought of that. thanks :)