I've been rejected before and yeah, it hurt, especially when I had to sit next to him in a lecture the next day (talk about awkward), and I've got to ask... have you rejected before and got a similar reaction? If not, a bit harsh to judge all women on this one occasion :p Anyhoo, to be completely honest, when I think of taking rejection badly, I think of guys, because it TENDS to be guys who moan about the friendzone and how THEY were rejected, becoming all bitter and so on... basically rejection is hard, but also a part of life, and anyone who takes to it extremely badly needs to get off their high horse and grow up! :p xx
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Rejection hurts, nobody likes it.
But it hurts even more when you toss in insults or start calling someone a bitch or a bastard.
I mean, I would have stopped when I saw someone on the phone or when they told me I'm busy or something. I
But the insults would have really irked me.
That's why I don't do anything about this guy I think may be interested (I just assume, he shows the signs and such) I don't want to be called a f'ing bitch. The rejection would hurt, but I'd get over it, the name calling though would really hurt.
A typical response from men when they want to immediately reject a girl is mentioning something to do with their mothers. You were blowing her off without purposing rejecting her (because you were actually talking to your sick mother) and she didn't take the cue and went off. Perhaps she in particular doesn't take getting rejected so lightly. I, on the other hand, would have stopped or wouldn't even pursue if someone were on their phone.
Hahahaha is this the same fella that ditched the girl for slating shy guys? Dude if this is you, I've read three of your questions today and you've had me in tears of laughter.
You Sir are an absolute legend, I wish I had a friend like you, I wouldn't need to pay money to see a stand up comedian.
Pretty women aren't used to rejection. They think because they're pretty, they can't get rejected
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Most women don't deal with rejection it's usually the guys because we are expected to go out and pursue the girl. If a girl put herself out there like a guy she would have no problem with it eventually. I think women with find it easier to get dates though especially if they're cute.
She probably thought you were ignoring her that was really rude of her though but in my experience guys don't handle rejection well either depending on if they are used to getting a lot of girls they get really angry when a girl rejects them. I was rejected a few times by my ex before we were even together I took it hard only because I was being strung along and didn't know what to think
Lol welcome to our world. At leas she didn't grab your ass and say "Let me be your mama." You had it easy guy.
I wouldn't classify that as rejection - that was a case of her being rude and inconsiderate while you were on the phone and you telling her to step off, after you politely tried to tell her the first time. Perhaps you went overboard but were probably emotional because your mom is in the hospital (so sorry). Even if she was trying to flirt with you, she went about it the wrong way and at the wrong time.
I hope your mom is ok...:(To be honest, I think its the other way - when a guy rejects me yea sure it hurts but then I get over it like nothing happened because I realize he was not worth my time in the first place and she got beet red because you screamed at her and she got embarrassed - the fact that other people laughed and your friends shows how mature they are... yes, she was coming a bit too strong there but you shouldn't have screamed at her like that...
Why does one crazy bitch mean that all women can't handle rejection? I wouldn't talk to someone on the phone, period. Supposedly you're in college... so... make sense please.
its just how girls are. we always want to feel likeable so..:p
i find that unusual tbh. personally, i felt rejected before and i think i handle it very well. :)
Everyone takes rejection badly, we're only humans with feelings after all. You males should see yourselves when you get rejected, you start to sound bitter and say mean stuff to the girl who rejected you. Pretty funny in my opinion.
Because they're not used to rejection. and because they're arrogant. it's very sad. many women are very self-obsessed and disconnected from reality
I stopped talking to women because every time I talk to one they assume that I'm trying to date when in reality I'm trying to make friends they would usually insult me and I would turn my head and walk away so I decide to isolate myself from them
lol she OVER-REACTED and she has issues if she's getting sassy over something like that! Good job I would've done the same thing (if i was lesbo and stuff)
Everyone handles rejection poorly, women and men
Men kill over rejection lmfao
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