Try not to appear too eager. Girls like mystery cause they want to figure out a guy. Don't worry too much about rejection. It happens to everybody. But when a girl says no, it means no.
You don't need ti climb any huge mountains metaphorically just to be with a woman or to have sex with them. Just be the different more nice guy who doesn't give a f*** about getting laid or not. Sex, kissing and any kind of intimacy should never be forced. It should come as a natural thing like a lot if things. Don't let you seeking to have a woman be your only source of happiness. Getting your hopes up on anything will only leave you disappointed most of the time.
Until you are completely serious with a woman or married, that's when you have to try a little bit more. Just enjoy life being yourself and improving yourself for what you want to make better and keep your options with women open. Then you will be content with yourself and things will all fall into place for you. ;)
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If you've been rejected that much, you're probably doing something wrong or maybe it's your personality/attitude. Maybe you gave off the impression that you're only in it for sex. Or maybe you got a bad rep at college for just making out with every drunk girl you meet at parties and attempted to sleep with every one of them. I don't know what the problem is...you spent more time blaming women than focus on yourself.
Try this: improve yourself before going for the next girl that you see or want to make out with.
Evaluate yourself, even ask friends what they think of you being brutally honest. If you come to the conclusion that nothing really is bad when it comes to you and woman like being over explicit, treating them in a way they don't feel comfortable, etc. Then just wait don't down grade tour standards, but don't only go for the "hot" girls. Actually try and find a girl and go slow a girl loves being charmed and tho lots will kiss you without a second thought we like to be woo'd and treated with respect. Find a girl you connect with on a friend level first. Then lead up to the kissing what's the rush
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Based on your comments below it sounds like you hook up with girls at parties and immediately try to 'seal the deal'. As the other guy said, girls don't want to be seen as 'easy'. Slow down a bit. Enjoy the makeout session and focus on those dates.
Just remember that the rejection isn't a reflection on you, necessarily."Getting any sort of sexuality beyond kissing is like trying to climb mount everest with a 500 pound backpack; an impossible feat."
Can you be more specific? Why doesn't a make-out session end up in sex? What is your sticking point?You shouldn't be disappointed. You should just approach more women.
Remember, some women won't like you no matter what, but there are women who will like you no matter what.Just keep getting rejected or change your attitude.
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