Help this fat girl tries to flirt with me and I'm not interested at all?

[Anonymous]

This fat girl I work with is trying to flirt with me. What's the best way to get her off my back? I don't want to be rude.

[Anonymous]

I know this isn't helpful, but I'm just saying, you could have asked the question without saying she was fat.
Like that's supposed to make us go "Ohhhhh well in that case I totally understand why you're not interested!". You would have gotten the same answers if you'd just said "Help this girl tries to flirt with me and I'm not interested at all?"
It's just kind of offensive is all.

[Anonymous]

Such a douche. How about you just fuck off and eat a fat one. She's not hurting you and you're not forced to date her so what's your fucking prob? There are more things to be concerned with in life than some chick flirting with you.

[MothMonsterMan]

Ha! As if you ladies don't do it all the time to guys as well! Turn about is fair play!

[Asker]

So what do I do date her? I'm trying not to hurt her feelings I'm not interested.

[Goran_]

You have no right to call him a douche with the way you're acting. He's bothered by her because she's stalking him and won't leave him alone. It's not just about her size.

[Opinion Owner]

What other women do has nothing to do with me. If I don't like a guy that flirts with me I just continue to be polite as I do all people, ignore them, or politely let them down. MothMonsterMan. And you're such a child. Why can't he do it girls do it too wahhh. Not fair play. If he isn't interested then he should continue about his business. It's work... so he should be working not flirting.

[Opinion Owner]

Asker no one told you to date her. Whether interested or not I don't recommend mixing business with pleasure. Just tell her kindly you aren't interested and besides this is the workplace then go about your business. And using fat was an unnecessary adjective.

[Opinion Owner]

Goran how am I acting? Can't quite tell through words can you. He asked for opinions I gave them. He said, and I quote, "this fat girl that I work with is trying to flirt with me" she is not imposing harm, he never said she was stalking him, it's innocent flirting. It can be stopped in a matter of a few moments if he just clearly made his disinterest known. And by the way she could just be the girl at work he isn't interested in... not the fat girl at work he is not interested in.

[MothMonsterMan]

To the anonymous poster: You said yourself you politely let them down. By him saying he's taken, that's politely letting her down.

[Opinion Owner]

I said I do either of those things... it depends on how far they take things and how often I have had encounters with the individual. And has he done so already? If so, most likely he wouldn't be on GAG asking.

[Anonymous]

Just friendzone her. Tell her she's more like a sister to you. Or tell her you like someone else.
On the other hand,
I hope you run faster than him...

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[coffeprince]

Agreed! like the little sister action, keep it kind by taking her you wish she was your little sister, or that she reminds you sooo much of your younger sister or cousin. She should get the point.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

mention a girl you just met

be very dry when she tries to flirt

[cavmanier]

You don't have a "not interested" look or "I'm bored" look? That's what I do.

[rthomas43]

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Filllllll

[Anonymous]

Think about all the girls you tried to talk to and didn't want u. It's not that serious. To be honest just because a girl smiles and you and starts a conversation doesn't mean she like you or is flirting with you. I used to tease and mimic This guy at work and I didn't even like him he was just an easy target. But if you strongly believe she likes you even tho she never said so then when she DOES SAY SHE LIKES YOU TELL HER YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IF THIS EVEN HAPPENS.

[coffeprince]

100% agree!! Very well said!!

[cheeseysouffle]

talk about a girl problem. "so this girl I've known since high school wants to hook up. What should I do for a date?" or maybe talk about your "girl friend". You could be reading the situation wrong anyways.

[mutedaisy]

"Although, I usually appreciate the advances made by opposite sex, I do not enjoy your casual attraction to my person, please back da' hell up" haha, that's how I would do it lol Just tell her you have your eyes on someone else.

[chocolateraisins]

"Please stop flirting with me. I have a girlfriend I love to death and I'd hate to cheat on her. Back off sista."

[MothMonsterMan]

Just say "Thanks, but I'm taken". and leave it at that.

[Asker]

She knows I'm single because she stalked my Facebook

[MothMonsterMan]

So? Who says Facebook is the undeniable truth? You could just tell her you haven't updated it yet and that's what she gets for trying to use social media to find out what's going on with someone.

[Anonymous]

you hatin' cause i'm fat? :( well i'm working on it! if you want me to stop flirting, just use the codeword: blue. say it and i'll quit asap.

i'm sorry i made you uncomfortable. :(

and i'm sorry if you're not him. lol.

[thelowanthem]

"I like being friends with you, but the flirting is making me a little uncomfortable".

[Goran_]

Act as if you already have a girlfriend so she knows you're "taken" and leaves you alone I guess.

[Goran_]

Just read he other post. Act as if you don't do the entire "set your status" thing on Facebook. Other than that, tell her she makes you feel uncomfortable and you're not interested.

[nonopink]

If you feel uncomfortable then you have to be rude at some point.