13 year old girl is flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

Hey, I'm currently 17. There's a 13 year old girl in one of my classes who I think likes me. She'd come and find me in another room, follow me around like a puppy, casually touch my shoulder, hands and leg and even told me her boob size 😅 She literally told me a couple months ago she likes a man to dominate her in the bedroom I'm not kidding and she'd laugh about everything I say. I might be delusional but pretty sure these are signs of attraction. I'm definitely not acting on it but is she attracted to me and why? How do I deal with this?

[BlackBeauty90]

For a 13 year old to be doing & saying such things is quite concerning. It strongly implies she's been sexually abused, either at home or elsewhere.

I'd strongly advise you to tell your teacher or school counselor. If possible have someone who sees her behavior go with you to back up your claims.

She has psychological issues and needs assistance.

[DaBiggestBird]

Just ignore it, she’ll probably call you a pervert if you replicate these actions, which I think you shouldn’t. If she straight up comes out about it then just say something like you’re too old for her, be a Giga Chad about it. You know, this awfully reminds me of the time the original Wizard of Oz came out, I was literally 70 when it was released. Absolutely a youngster I’ll tell you hwhat.

[Fireguy17]

They do that, send her on her way and do not get involved with her at all.
When you are 18 she will be 14, we called that jail bait.
Not worth it.

[ShesRad80]

tell a teacher or a guidance counselor what she has said and what she does.

she has some issues. you wind up saying the wrong thing or doing the wrong thing based off how she acts, you could find yourself accused of something you did not do.

[4ngelic]

i think she is yea, as for why i mean she probably thinks your cute or something. its very normal for 13 yos to crush on older teens

to make it stop just straight up tell her (nicely) that she's too young for you. that might not be enough if you just say it once, might have to repeat yourself to make her understand there's no chance she'd get what she wants

[NotTacocaT6969]

Tell her to come back when she’s 18.


Just say that every time she flirts with you and brush it off.

[ChiTown33]

She's got psychological issues. Has probably been sexually abused. What 13 year old girl talks and acts like that. Especially to a 17 year old!

I'd tell a counselor and get her some help.

[AngryCarl2]

This is the correct answer. Lots of red flags here!

[Surely]

Do not touch her and try not to be alone with her without someone else being there.
I agree with the others opinion about talking to someone at your school to see if she has problems at home.

[Datboi65]

If you don't wanna end up on Chris Hansen's show, tell her to leave you the heck alone.

[HelpfulWoman]

you make it clear you find none of this amusing and cut off as much as you can. what a little creep

[HappyWoman34]

She’s attracted to you but is too young. Find someone 15-19 to date.

[Anonymous]

Ignore or insult her. Cuss her out.

Unless you want to end up in prison for being a PRED. 🧼

[Starrrboy]

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[Anonymous]

Don't be a creep, leave her alone.

[riverrat3]

Be very careful