14 year old girl flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

First off this girl is the 14 year old step-daughter. Of a close friend of my father's. And I am 21 years old. She used to never really talk to anyone. Then recently after a joint family trip she starting to talk to me alot. On this trip she went out of her way to talk to me. She now dresses with these really low cut shirts. I will be talking or on looking at my phone. Look up and she is leaning over with her cleavage almost in my face. She even sometimes does this with no bra and loose shirts. She now has my cell number somehow. She started sending me flirty messages. It is not like she is unattractive. She is tall and in good shape. Also very developed for her age. As she has already told me in a text she is a D-Cup. My cousin says go for it. It is the age difference that has me worried. What should I do.

[Artistgirl18]

Why in the hell would a 21 year old go after a 14 year old. Okay, isn't she like right out of middle school or something. There are plenty of D-cups out there, buddy. And around your age, too. Oh and you can actually have SEX with those people, unlike this girl where you'll get friggin arrested. Age difference won't matter if you wait another 4 to 8 years, but obviously all you're thinking about is boobs and flirting and sex so go find someone your age to do that all with. And make it clear to this girl you're not interested. Your cousin has a great sense of humor. HAHAHA. Very funny dude, let's get our family arrested. jesus christ...

sorry if I sound mean but COME ON MAN... BRAINS. WE HAVE BRAINS FOR A REASON?!?! NO!?!? YES?!?!? MAYBE?!?!

lmao

[laceyz565]

Ok just saying but she's the kid your the adult. Your the one whos suppous to known the limits. She's a child. There are a lot of people that date 8 years their junior but that's when their both adults not when ones barley in there teens. I wouldn't go there. She's young and naive and stupid. She will act on her impulsive s because of that. Her brains not fully developed. Don't get me wrong your probably a nice young man but when 14 you don't really think of the consequences, plus she's more easy to mulipulate. I suggest finding a adult girlfriend not a little teenager

[ArabianPwincess197]

you shoudnt even be asking you should have enough common sense to know not to get into a relationship with a 14 year old - for starters its your ticket to jail. You'd be labelled a pedo and your career prospects would lower. If things get worse tell her parents or something or just steer clear of her/block her - and get yourself a girlfriend if your that desperate lol oh and ignore your cousin because they obviously can't give good advice

[Phantom-menace]

Mate stay clear, she is 14., do you want to be a known a pedo. If you feel that uncomfortable about it, just tell her straight, that she is still a child and your too young. and If I were to have a relationship with you, I could go to jail. your life will be ruined. its your choice.

you have 2 options.

1)go jail. and be known as a pedo. life ruined.

2) stay clear, and tell her, that me and you will never happen, she needs find someone of her own age.

good luck

[Phantom-menace]

Thanks buddy.

[TylerDurden9087]

Dude that's a biiiiiiiig no no. I'd stop all communication with her now.

[Anonymous]

Jail bait- that's what she sounds like. It is illegal- you're 21 and she's 14. For her it is a fantasy, she's just discovering her sexuality and is still developing into a woman. You should focus on girls your own age. It's not worth the risk, she's not as sexually advanced as you despite how she presents herself.

[UrsTruely2]

OMG DON'T DO IT! And seriously? You had to ask this on a site. Aren't there women at college? That's right WOMEN. You're 21.

[Anonymous]

you can be arrested. she is a child. I wouldn't. do you really want to be a registered sex offender? play in your own ballpark. she is a BABY! my sister is that age.

[Anonymous]

No she’s 14 horny and just looking for experience be the older person and say no

[Anonymous]

If it's illegal, don't go for it. You'll end up in serious trouble.

[Drooogie4]

She's 14.. Be flattered but don't risk it

[Anonymous]

Take it as a compliment ;D