Okay so I'm a Christian and I always talk to my friends about my crushes. It's really hard to flirt with guys in college because they're all so nice and it's hard to tell if they like you or not. We're all brothers and sisters in Christ. My friends always tell me to treat my crushes like they're my brothers but I don't know how to do that. How do you treat someone that you like like you're related and just siblings? It's kind of a hard concept to understand but that's why I'm asking.