Do you make it obvious when you like someone?

[kain7th]

When you like someone are you the type to make it obvious? or do you shy away when you do?

I make it pretty obvious

I shy away

Somewhere in between the two

[existing_not_living]

I make it VERY obvious when I have a thing for someone. If the guy doesn't catch on then he is brain dead or something. I made it very obvious with my bf that I wasn't into him. I always sat very close to him when we hung out. I took interests in things he liked and he finally got the hint that I was into him, haha.

[GreenTiger]

How do you make it obvious? Like what do you do?

[existing_not_living]

Well, when we hung out, I would always sit super close to him. This resulted in us cuddling. I would just be my typical flirty self (I'm a natural flirt). I would also teach him how to do things (NOT sexual things) and have flirty banter. Like, I taught him how to shuffle cards and when we were sitting crosslegged on the floor across from each other we would pass the cards to each other I made sure that I brushed my hands against his. Also with us, it was just kind of obvious from the start that we liked each other. Everyone knew it. We knew it too, but were the last two to own up to it, haha. @GreenTiger

[kain7th]

did he eventually ask you out? or how did you get together?

[existing_not_living]

Yes, he asked me out. It was actually our second time hanging out with each other. We were at our mutual friends place (our friend introduced us) and we started out the night just talking, but then we got closer and closer and by the end of the night we found ourselves snuggling up on the couch and holding/playing with each others' hands. :) He asked me out then.

[kain7th]

If he never asked you out... would you have asked him or would you have given up and moved on?

[existing_not_living]

I might have given up and moved on. It's just that honestly, I had just gotten out of a fling with another guy and I was actually giving up on relationships in general. I wanted to be single for a while. Then my bf had to show up in my life and screw up that plan, haha. If he hadn't taken the initiative, though, we might not have been together.

[kain7th]

seems kinda weird that you weren't ready for a relationship, yet you were hinting that you liked him? so deep down you wanted more from him?

[existing_not_living]

It wasn't so much that I wasn't ready for one, but I wasn't looking for one. I kind of just wanted to be single and see where life took me. Then I met him. I wasn't expecting to have such a strong connection to him. We instantly clicked when we met. It was like we were made for each other. I wasn't really interested in a relationship, but when I met him everything kind of changed and I decided to go for it. :)

[mei0313]

Yeah i'm shy but i normally say it out loud lol "I LIKE YOU"
when i talk to him and whenever i can express my feelings 🙊🙈 but with extreme blushing 😳😊☺️

[kain7th]

it's probably cute as hell when you blush ;)

[mei0313]

Lol no i become 🍅🍎 😅🙊

[kain7th]

yuppp thats cute haha

[mei0313]

Lol 😅😅😅 thanks

[asuspiciousraccoon]

You are a lot braver than I am. How do you do it?

[mei0313]

@asuspiciousraccoon
I just tell him whenever I feel heart warmed because of him lol normally i say it more in text but i usually say it out loud in person too. I sometimes think it might get old lol
I think it could be just my personality i let my people know that i like them and care about them a lot lol including my friends and family :)

[asuspiciousraccoon]

That wouldn't come off as too strong?

[mei0313]

Hmmm not sure lol maybe 😐😑 @asuspiciousraccoon

[misscoffeehead]

www.funniestmemes.com/.../...lady-garden_6457.jpeg

Jokes aside. Yes I'm obvious. Pretty damn open about it.

[kain7th]

lol nice pic :P

[misscoffeehead]

Would of made more sense if I was a guy. But I still giggled like an idiot 🙈 my boss is looking at me like "wtf Misscoffeehead?" 🙊

[kain7th]

his expression just sells it for me lol!

[misscoffeehead]

It's so corny and cheesy 🙈

[misscoffeehead]

Thanks for MH KK!

Gnomesaying? <--- LOL! I cannot stop laughing 😂

[Accipiter]

I try not to make it obvious at first. But I've been told by plenty that I'm easy to read, so therefore I think the girl would have it figured out right away.

[Virtuous]

Yes... I'm pretty straight-forward...

Wish I knew tips to work on that.

[GlassHeart]

No not as much as i should whenever i had a crush on a guy i would do everything but talk face to face with him ( they were mostly guys i never talked to)
Im the type of girl that will stare and smile and try to get ur attention but i fear going up to a guy i want to get to know and flirt with him just to get turned down

[emerald77]

I used to be really shy, so I never confessed to anyone. But now if I like someone, I'll let them know. I missed out on a lot of chances for being shy. especially since the guys I usually like are shy themselves, so they have a hard time letting m know that they like me. So now I just do it first and I have had some great dates after being more open about my feelings!

[Rcjh1987]

I become more flirty more than I naturally am, more touchy. ... I'm obvious

[kain7th]

*winks at you* ;)

[Rcjh1987]

awww hehe does someone have a crush. ... just kidding😉😉😉 I also smile a lot

[coffeprince]

I think I'm a bit of a tease and kinda obvious through text or on the phone.. But in person I'm kinda shy, honestky I can't even keep good eye contact. Lol. Lame.

[linkywinky]

I'm so obvious it's disgusting. I try to tell myself I'm not obvious but... I'm friggin obvious.

[asuspiciousraccoon]

That wouldn't come off as too strong?

[asuspiciousraccoon]

Sorry I meant to add that to a different opinion.

[JackKerouac77]

I usually scream at them to love me.

It's the American way!

[lemonlimetime]

I kind of make it obvious. Most of the time my friends can guess who it is...

[Sassyprincess14]

I try to make it obvious but people tell me I'm hard to read so I don't think it works.

[aKKordingtoGreta]

No, in fact I distance myself from them to make sure it is not obvious.

[blondfrog]

I only make it obvious after I have gathered enough evidence that she likes me based off her subtle signs.

[Anonymous]

I made it really obvious one time and learned from it; now I'm as shy as they come 😶

[Words_and_Wisdom]

I'm a terrible flirt, and I'm quite shy normally. So I decide to just make it obvious.

[Destinybae]

keep it to myself but i do tend to stare at him.

[obscura13]

I think I'm being obvious...

[Klaatu51]

yes because i don't have nothing to lose

[kangy]

Usually not obvious
more like shy away

[Virulent]

No. I like keeping it to myself.

[Account]

No. I suck at it.

[kain7th]

Smiling like in your pic at a guy would work well for you ;)

[Account]

Thank you! It's the only thing I have going so... :p
I just can't use words to say it and I suck at flirting and it's.. none of their business!

[findingdreamland]

I make it obvious. Maybe too obvious. lol

[justbanANNAz]

LOL no way. i dont want it to be.