Should I pop up to her?

[adam_fruitbat]

Hey. My crush posted on her snapchat story "dreading tomorrow, someone talk".

Should I pop up to her saying "hey, so what you dreading about tomorrow then?"

Problem is she is talking to my friend apparently in a serious way. What should I do? And what if she doesn't reply

[AlternativeUnicorn]

You should talk to her, and if she doesn't reply then maybe you should try to move on. Sorry if I'm not much help. GOOD LUCK

[adam_fruitbat]

Spoke to her for a bit. Might talk to her again tonight! Should I ask her if she has plans for tomorrow?

[AlternativeUnicorn]

I would talk to her for a little bit longer first, ease into it :)

[adam_fruitbat]

No I mean if she's doing anything tomorrow just like what you up to tomorrow? You get what I mean! I'm trying to chat her up really to try and get her of my mate! Sounds harsh but it ain't my fault I like her

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Ohhh i see, that would be okay. Make sure you don't come off as creepy. It doesn't really sound harsh, it sounds like you like agirl

[adam_fruitbat]

I sent her a message on snapchat, the chat where you can write to people asking how she go on at her gymnastics competition. She replied "I'm sorry I can't read your sc they are not showing up" do you think she is trying to say that I should go away with that excuse or her snapchat really doesn't work? I feel like I'm bothering her 😢

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Maybe you could try slowing down the messages but not fully stopping them

[adam_fruitbat]

She told the lad that I'm annoying her and he face booked me saying she would appreciate it if I'd stop snap chatting her. I was right, I was bothering her. Might aswell give up hope now

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Maybe not, but if she can't realize that you are a great person, sorry to say this but she might not be worth your time
Sorry

[adam_fruitbat]

Ah well I can't do more than I have. I tried to talk to her but she rejected me before I even got the chance. I have sent her a snapchat with appology in it but she hasn't seen it yet. Also the lad said he isn't bothered if I apologise to her because there's apparently nothing going on between them.

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Oh, if she doesn't like you then she's not worth pinning over. Find a girl you like likes and accepts you :)

[adam_fruitbat]

I didn't know girls can be like that if a guy tries to be nice to them

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Yup we can act like bitches sometimes (not calling her or anyone else a ) sorry

[adam_fruitbat]

No it's ok. Just don't get why when someone makes an effort to be nice and ask how her gymnastics went she goes and tells someone that

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Girls are weird, we do stupid things that nobody understands

[adam_fruitbat]

Do you think she'll tell people now that I've been annoying? I feel like the whole world had turned against me

[AlternativeUnicorn]

No, she most likely won't. She would only do that if she actually it's a bitch. I'm sure nobody turned against you, these kind of things happen ALL the time

[adam_fruitbat]

Well let's hope she doesn't. When ever she tries to speak to me now or ask me something should I just blank her?

[AlternativeUnicorn]

I wouldn't do that, it seems slightly immature. Try responding with short answers and end the conversation add soon as possible

[adam_fruitbat]

I'll just do that then. What a disgrace really. Someone tries to be nice and they do that

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Good, and people suck sorry to say

[adam_fruitbat]

Yeah well. Just because she's good looking I don't think that gives her the right to treat people like me the way she did to be honest

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Nope it doesn't. And what do you mean by "people like me"? Just wondering.

[adam_fruitbat]

People like me means a person like yourself! 😊

[AlternativeUnicorn]

I'm sorry? I asked because the way that you said made it seem like you were being negative about yourself

[adam_fruitbat]

Yeah I was because I'm not very good looking in my opinion

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Oh, looks do not matter at all (to people that are worth your time). And I'm sure your attractive enough, i don't believe that there I'd a single completely unpleasant gave out there

[adam_fruitbat]

Well I'm very handsome and good at football that's why I play at semi pro club 😊 hope she realised what she missed out on when I play professionally 😀

[AlternativeUnicorn]

That's the spirit:)

[adam_fruitbat]

Lol. To be honest I hope someone treats her the way she treated me so she realises what it feels like

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Usually i would say that you shouldn't wish revenge (that is kind of what it would be considered) but i agree. She needs to realize get mistakes.

[adam_fruitbat]

Bet my life on the fact if I ever become a known footballer then she will try and tell people that we were friends

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Most likely

[adam_fruitbat]

Sly bitch! Do you reckon I should accept her apology if she apologies for being like that or not?

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Forgive but don't forget

[adam_fruitbat]

I'll never forget that. It'll always be there, for the rest of my life

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Good to know your not a pushover who forgets everything to see the good in people. :)

[adam_fruitbat]

Don't worry I don't forget things like that

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Good :)

[adam_fruitbat]

I didn't even tell my mum I liked this girl and I've liked her for nearly 3 years. Too late to find out now isn't it.

[adam_fruitbat]

She's apologised to me for what happened yesterday. I really wasn't expecting that! She popped up to me saying "sorry I was just in a really really bad mood yesterday 😂😂". To which I replied well I'm sorry that I was annoying then she said "no you weren't I was just being a bitch".

Honestly wasn't expecting to hear that and I feel much better!!

[AlternativeUnicorn]

Thats good :)

[adam_fruitbat]

Honestly I wasn't expecting that! Also after she said she was a bitch I said "don't worry about it, I've heard worse from people" and she replied "aw 😉😂"

[melodymai]

I think you should try! in a friendly way if not a flirty way.

[adam_fruitbat]

I'm talking to her now. I'm nervous very nervous!! I think I'm doing ok though

[DarkHumorRUs]

Nah, don't get into peoples' weird business. Unless you're really good friends with her.