Does your voice change when you flirt?

[Anonymous]

Does your voice change when you flirt? If so, in what way?

I notice when my roommate gets on the phone with this guy she likes her voice and speech pattern completely changes!

Her natural voice is loud, high-pitch, and very clear tone.
When she talks to the guy she likes her voice pitch deepens, she talks slower, and she pretty much mubbles.
WTF?!

I have seen other people do this too and I'm not sure why but it kinda creeps me out lol.

My voice doesn't change at all when I talk to a guy I like. Does that make me a bad flirt?
I have had guys change their voice when talking to me and my reaction has always been "wtf why are you talking to me like that?" and a feeling of second-hand embarrassment washes over me.

[einAmerikaner]

I deepen my voice a bit and improve my gestures and body language. It's very noticeable because I make it noticeable. But, I also do this in social events where I am mixed with people.

[Asker]

So for you its very calculated? Do you think others change their voices intentionally as well?

[einAmerikaner]

Yeah its calculated because I know how much to put out. I don't think other do it intentionally because other includes shy people who don't get to socialize often and don't really know how they react. I've friends who often talk to girls and change and after I tell them and they think I'm lying. I think the best way is to really try to control it.

[kaiis_other_half]

My voice gets extremely soft but deep at the same time it sometimes turns me on lol

[Asker]

Your own voice turns you on

[kaiis_other_half]

Yes I am very self absorbed lol

[Asker]

Okay that's weird but I applaud your confidence.

[kaiis_other_half]

I have to build it up some way right?

[Bmxgirl]

As my voice is kind of deep then when I talk to someone I like (and when I flirt) my voice becomes a bit higher

[Katy16]

When my boyfriend first asked me to be his girlfriend my voice went all high pitched and shy and stuff lol

[sweetsinner]

soft and slow. and if I'm on the phone you can hear my smile getting in the way lol

[Asker]

Do you mumble too?

[sweetsinner]

nope I dont think so. I'm quieter but still able to understand what Im saying

[Taywallee16]

I'm pretty sure my voice goes up an octave and I stutter lol

[Asker]

That actually seems cute haha

[Taywallee16]

No it's really embarrassing because I sound like I don't know how to speak English haha or that I have a stutter which I don't

[kittykatbrat]

Flirting honestly isn't my style.
I just show up... the end.
.

[Prof_Don]

Talk about not wasting time! ;-)

[kittykatbrat]

Meaning... I go out places... the end!!!

[Starfishlover]

My voice becomes quieter and huskier

[Asker]

But why?

[Starfishlover]

Because I am nervous as hell and it just automatically becomes like this :(

[Asker]

Ohhh so its caused by nervousness

[Asker]

Why you so nervous girl? You're pretty :D

[Starfishlover]

Hahaha thank you so much for the compliment, that was very sweet. But yeah I just automatically get nervous.

[Iron_Man]

No it does not lol It just becomes more friendly

[Asker]

Describe "more friendly"

[Iron_Man]

when you flirt you make your voice more friendly it does not change

[StickStickity13]

I don't pay attention

[Asker]

Have you paid attention to other people? Or girls when they flirt with you?

[StickStickity13]

Do girls usually sound different? I don't really notice.

[Asker]

I think both girls and guys sound different.