Guys, what does it mean when a guy compliments our shoes. Is it more of flirtatious or is it just complimenting?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I think it normally means that he knows women like compliments, but hate getting them about their body. So he complements her shoes, even if he thinks the shoes are ugly so she will like him. Her shoes after all are a reflection of her taste and to an extent her personality. Women tend to eat up those kind of complements by reading them as being more meaningful.

Guys in comparison don't care if anyone compliments our shoes. I think most guys would rather women tell us that we have a nice ass. However most of us eventually learn that the things we would find to be a complement are seen as degrading to a large percentage of women. So we adapt in order to make women happy, and compliment things we don't care about, since we can't give the compliments we really want to give.

We can't even tell a girl we like her new hairstyle without being treated like a creep. Complimenting her clothes can also get us in trouble because a lot of women think it has to do with her figure even if we really did just like the color. So a girls shoes are the safest and most innocent compliment a guy can give without looking like a creep.

[sobg71124]

Guys know nor care anything about shoes. That's just a classic line that guys learn at some point from one of these dating gurus. "Always make sure to compliment her shoes. Women like that".

[DarkHumorRUs]

Both. If I didn't want to flirt I probably wouldn't mention it. But, I'd only mention it if I actually did like their shoes.

[Ulyss]

Ummm wut... have youve been watching josh & drake

[Thatguyfromsomewhere]

Gosh and gay?

[Klaatu51]

just a compliemnt most of the times

[abc3643]

Both + could be shoe fetish.

[Anonymous]

He might be into girls' shoes and feet!