Treat her mean, keep her keen?

[Anonymous]

Do you believe this is true? Are there ways to stop someone doing this? Is it only women who this works on, or men as well?

[aidxen]

Not all girls. My wife I treated well or at least I thought I did but we drifted apart. Actually she seemed to push me away.

I went through phases of anger, sadness, and depression trying to work out what was wrong. Wrong with me or "us". I read tones of self help books and so on. Went to seminars and talked to people.

One day I started to have coffee with a woman who was separated from her husband. We talked about all sorts of things. including this.

We are now having an affair. The weird but in a way fun thing is that we have decided to do an experiment. With her willing participation. I know that sounds weird. But we trying the "treat her mean" thing. Now mean in our case means I spank her and whip her. When we go out together I will tell her what I want her to wear. Usually that means a short skirt. Basically making it tough for her. Making her put in effort.

What it is not though is telling her she is bad, crap or useless. That is liek a dagger to her heart and makes her sad or depressed.

So far it's working. We are still going out.

[JohnStamoist]

Yeah this is definitely true for the majority of girls out there. They tell themselves they want a nice guy, but in the end are only in love with the idea of being with one. Some girls actually fall for the nice guys, very small percentage with compared to the former.

[Asker]

I think long term the nice guys win?

[JohnStamoist]

No long term most nice guys lose. They have to deal with years of emotional baggage that girls have from dating douche bag losers. That's even if they stay nice guys, I know a lot who said fuck it and became douches to get girls.

[BellePepper]

Ahh yeah I love it when my boyfriend acts emotionally abusive toward me. SO HAWT.

If you're in a relationship where you need to resort to stupid games, it's not a healthy situation for either of you and it needs to end.

[330selena]

Nah, treat her mean, see her leave is more like it. But i guess for M or girls who like chases like it.

[WhaChaChaKing]

I wouldn't stay with a douche bag but I don't know what other girls would do.

[Keyspirits]

Right. Being nice and u will fall to the friendzone cuz ur boring as hell to them. Treat them like dirt to spice up the fun inside them 😘

[Anonymous]

Yeah normally the guys who treat girls like crap and harass them date girls and the ones who don't dont date so

[Anonymous]

Bet her up if she can't keep up
Skin on s skin of I don't put it in
Old pussy never dies. It just smells that way.

[Anonymous]

Treat them how you'd want to be treated yourself, that goes for everyone not just girls

[I_am_repulsive]

Yeah I don't really believe in that shit

[Asker]

Fair enough.

[Starry_Night93]

Works both ways. I see guys do that on here a lot.

[Asker]

Games.