Why would she be so mean?

[Anonymous]

A girl basically tried to ruin my relationship recently. I told her to stop liking his pics and she never replied to my message. I told her to leave him alone and she never texted back. She just seen the message and didn't respond. 6 months later i rang her by accident and she starts insulting me. She tells me she went to a hotel with my boyfriend and when I looked up the hotel she said she went too i found that the hotel only opened 4 months after she claimed to be there so basically the hotel did not exist. First she told me she went to a hotel in January with him and when I texted her a month later, she says January again and then a month later i texted her to tell her to stop and she changed her story and she said that she went to a hotel with him every week but she never said the month. Why would she lie and be so evil? I confronted her and told her that the hotel did not even exist when she claimed to be there and about changing her story and she went crazy and called me loads of names and blocked me. I feel so much anger against her. Im finding it hard to cope. How could she be so mean? My boyfriend said he didn't do anything and he is always honest with me.

[caring__1]

It sounds like you're still dwelling on what you've addressed here in the past. If anyone ruins your relationship, it will be you. Her actions are irrelevant. The object is to feel so good about what you bring to the relationship that you'll see it as his loss if he chooses someone else. By making this an ongoing issue, you'll only end up pushing your boyfriend out of your life.

[Asker]

Can you dm me please

[caring__1]

It isn't possible to dm an anonymous asker. You'd have to send me a message.

[Asker]

I just followed. Im not allowed send messages

[spartan55]

Wow, you are seriously insecure... that chick sounds crazier than you though.

[Asker]

How am I crazy

[spartan55]

Because you are fixated on this girl because of ego and insecurity, why would you confront her in the first place? To tell her to stop 'liking' his photos on social media? Seriously? Then you kept going after her to confront her several more times... that's called crazy. You are focused on the wrong person.
I think you are letting your boyfriend off the hook way too easy. It's not like this girl came to you claiming she was with your boyfriend... what reason would she have to lie to you. And you can't understand "how she could be so mean" to you? You were harassing the shit out of her, what is she supposed to do? She tried ignoring you and that didn't work.

[Asker]

So you think she is telling the truth or what

[Asker]

Because she changed her story and said she stayed in a hotel with him when the hotel did not exist.

[Asker]

I went after him too but he clearly stated many yime that he didn't do anything!

[Asker]

What do you think happened then gowan tell me

[Asker]

@spartan55

[spartan55]

So did you ask him where he was those nights? So he just says he wasn't with her and that's good enough? Does he know her? Have they met?
She may have messed up the name of the hotel, or forgot it.

[Asker]

Can you dm me please? I would appreciate it

[Asker]

You are intelligent and logical so i would appreciate it please. I followed you

[spartan55]

DM me

[Asker]

I can't send messages i just followed you

[slatyb]

Pay no attention to crazy.

[Yourfriend2021]

Just stay away from her and avoid all contact.