My girlfriend is so mean?

[Anonymous]

i honestly don't know what to do, im at my lowest point, we met on Instagram we both have a tight schedule but we were good at first but after like 4 months she got so mean like no empathy at all , when we fight i always suck up and said sorry first , she would never do something like that, i love her and i don't have anyone else, she say the same thing but why don't she treat me like this? she is 23 im 25 , i always tell her don't be mean, im always kind and loving, i hope i will get some of that back even just a little but i think when we fight her true colours show up she just leave for hours she never think about my side,, i don't even feel like talking anymore , is there anything who can understand what im saying?

[nataliexoooo]

its quite possible she's losing interests for u and dont know how to say it so she just acts mean/cold towards u. The fact ur saying u dont have anyone else and suck up to apologize right away gives off that you're too needy and obsessive with the relationship because you're lonely and so you depend on it. Girls don't like this type of clingy so you're like pushing her away. It also seems that ur a lot more dedicated to this relationship than she is, time to pack up and go and find someone who'll love u at the same level.

[Truthatanycost]

''when we fight i always suck up and said sorry first'' <----too nice. Most women despise nice guys with no back bone.
''i love her'''' <---- you confuse loneliness, infatuation, hormones, and neediness with love.
''i don't have anyone else'' <---- see above.

You are far too young to be inviting this toxicity into your life, when you could be building up your body, mind, esteem and future. Ditch the toxic waste, or find out why you can't.

[Anonymous]

"when we fight i always suck up and said sorry first"

That's where you fucked up. Never apologize just to end the confrontation. That's what doormats do. If she's wrong, disrespecting and blaming you, and you let her get away with it, you're her bitch. Show some dignity.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You need to move on with life and without her
you're too nice for her and you deserve a better girl
trust me there is always more fish in the sea as the
old saying goes.

[On_cloud_wine]

Stop apologizing and get outta there.

[Asker]

maybe i am over reacting? last night she was telling me about this #stayhome photo collage thing and one of her friend who she keep on blaming all the time that she is a bad person ask a picture of her to add to this and she doesn't like those things so she didn't have the photo and i fell asleep the she gave a photo to a friend, i don't know why i find that a big dead , that's mean things to do right?,

[On_cloud_wine]

What?

[Asker]

never mind , thank you

[Anonymous]

I assume you had to ask her out first