He wants me to meet his mom. But I think its too early.

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 weeks. He tells me he is so feeling me. One day we got into an argument. And he didn't call me for a day. I over analyze everything and thought he lost interest and text him did he. he never answered. He called me later on and said what dumb question us that. we are cool then. Then today he called me and said are you confused about the relationship. I said no, is this your way of getting out of the relationship. he said no if I wanted out I would've already told you. I really like him, he says he really likes me. He even wants me to meet his mom. But I think its too early. I just want to know why would he ask that. And do you think I over analyze thing? Thanks for your help.

[Anonymous]

Ask yourself this quesiton first, "do you like this guy? Do you see yourself with him in two weeks from now?"

He is showing you that you are in a relationship by offering to introducing his family to you. Some men are comfortable with doing that with some they even consider as a friend. Figure out what type of guy he is and how comfortable he is with his family. If it seems casual than than its just that. If they are interested in you and want to know more about you. then most likely he talks to them about you.

Don't be so keen on trying to define your relationship with him, it's only been weeks... A lot of men don't like to label the relationship, so don't force him too.

THE ONE WHO CARES LESS, CONTROLS THE RELATIONSHIP.

I know that is kind of a loaded saying but it is true to a certain extent. In this case because you are over analyical you need him to care more about you so you don't question things as much. Trust me, you need him to care more in the beginning all the way to the end. Men lose interest fast if they feel like that "run" you. So make sure you don't lose yourself in him and find a balance between him and yourself (always love yourself more. I know I'm jumping the gun but explaining this to someone who is over analyical I'm trying to paint you the big picture).

If you like this guy let him do these things for you without analyzing it. Try to be a little more carefree, but not to much that when you do over analyze it isn't such a night and day shift.

[greeneyedgal]

I think you need to take a deep breath and relax! This guy is evidently into you and is trying to show you that. I am not sure if you have been hurt really bad in the past or what. However, it's a big step in my eyes when a guy introduces a girl to his mom, family or friends. It means that he truly likes her and sees potential with the relationship. Guys just don't allow anyone to meet the people they're closest to unless she is special.

He seems sincere so try to take what he says at face value. If you think it's too early to meet his mom then that's understandable. Perhaps suggest meeting her after the holidays if you're comfortable?

But, I really think you need to go with the flow and enjoy the fun in a new relationship. Good luck.

[cheerclover27]

If you're not comfortable meeting her, then you shouldn't, or else you won't enjoy the new step in the relationship. Don't rush things, but don't over analyze them either. Trust trust your gut, if your not into something.