Why do I attract gangster/thuggish guys?

[watdatmouthdothoo]

it seems like every guy that comes into my life are always gangster guys, u no guys who are rough around the edges? why is that , how come i dont attract guys that are nice & respectful to ladies?

[Anonymous]

Those guys like all kinds of girls even sweet shy girls, so its probably nothing specifically about that is drawing them other than being a girl.
Do you live in/near the hood?

Nice/respectful guys aren't going to approach you like a thuggish guy would. Thuggish guys always approach any girls they like, and aggressively.

My suggestion is to befriend a lot of nice/respectful guys

[AmandaLynn1930]

maybe its how you carry yourself. sometimes people see things bc of how we act that we dont even realize.

[watdatmouthdothoo]

What u mean

[AmandaLynn1930]

i mean ur demeaner, ur personality, the way you dress could be attracting a certain type of guy.

[MrNameless]

Really hard to analyze this, as I have no idea how you carry yourself.

I think gangster wannabes are usually more vocal and take lmore initiative vs other guys when it comes to women.

[Anonymous]

You're asking the wrong questions. The question shouldn't be, "why do I attract gangster guys?" Your question should instead be, "Why do I only notice gangster guys?"

[kiler1000]

time fpr self reflection.

[watdatmouthdothoo]

What does dat mean

[kiler1000]

for. are you rebellious? are you a party girl? do you dress slutty? are you flirtatious? are you materialistic? or, are you hard working, religious, respectful, with reasonable standards and a simple tastes. a girl similar to the one i first mentioned always finds her man... but always brushes him off and she's also a mark for the guys you attract.