Does he like ME or my BUTT?

[Dianna1975]

Please bear with the long text I would really like an opinion on this... (Image)

Now I hope some girls saw and will understand that something is going on between us (although my bff said that she doesn't know a girl that has a crush on him). So the question is does he like me? Whats your opinion? I really like his eyes and butt? Friend with benefits would be better than nothing and I want to kiss him so much but I dont know If he would like to or he just likes my butt?

[Anonymous]

There's no love, there's no romance the only thing you are going to find there is lust.

Today is your butt, tomorrow you boobs, then sex and then he is leaving you. He is being honest, he is asking what he wants and you are downgrading yourself by giving him those things easy (you let him touch your butt).

[Dianna1975]

Thanks for you opinion... I will avoid him as much as I can to forget him... :/

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry if I was tough but I would hate you to feel less in a couple of months or even worse you make a huge mistake.

I was the one you helped when I asked about a diet program. Sorry I didn't answer sooner.

[Dianna1975]

its ok I really appreciate it and yeah I remember you! I hope I helped!

[Anonymous]

Uhm, you're 15 years old and shouldn't be thinking about friends with benefits. He likes your ass, not you. By the sounds of it, you guys really don't even know each other. Sorry to sound hateful but if my 15 year old sister was out doing this shit I would kick her ass into next week.

[Dianna1975]

Thanks for you opinion... I will avoid him as much as I can to forget him... :/

[Opinion Owner]

Its not that I am telling you to forget him. Its just that you are a young woman and need to be careful. You let him touch your butt. That is giving him an open invitation to do more, with or without your consent. You just have to be careful and know your worth. Don't settle for something when you deserve better. You're young sweetie. Give it some years before thinking of the whole "friends with benefits" thing. Actually, I personally never had a friend with benefits. I lost my virginity when I was your age and the guy left me. He didn't like who I was. He was a hormonal teenage boy who wanted sex. So when he got it from me he left. It hurt me really bad and I spent months after that extremely depressed. Just be careful. Promise me.

[Dianna1975]

I promise! I am so sorry about what happened to you... I am not planning on having sex before 18 and I am a hundred percent sure... When I said friends with benefits I meant just kissing and hugging but I will try not to think of him as something more than a friend...

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for promising. Know your worth! Good luck and God bless!

[Dianna1975]

Thank you so much!

[psychomonkey]

He likes your butt cause he is a young boy. And aren't you too young for sex? And liking a guy for his eyes isn't even a good reason to date him.

[Dianna1975]

Ok first thank you for your time. By friends with benefits I meant kissing, hugging etc. (not sex ofc) Now I generally like him and I feel nice when I am with him but I can't get his eyes out of my mind (they are grey/blue)...

[psychomonkey]

Friends with benefits always means sex. And you might as well call it dating cause thats all couples your age do.

[Dianna1975]

Yeah but I dont know if he wants me to be his girlfriend so kissing now and then would be better than nothing :/

[DarkHumorRUs]

I don't know, what does your butt look like.