He tickled me for two hours?

[Anonymous]

he tickled me for two hours (on my bed like really early in the morning), but flipped out and called me mean when I got on top of him and help his arms down. so I flipped off of him and laid next to him then I pleaded with him not to call me mean because I hate being called mean and asked him how I could make it up to him. he went on tickling me. many chances to kiss me, didn't try once, in fact possibly even avoided kissing me. after about two hours of this, said he was very thirsty and got up to go get a glass of water. we got him some water, and when we came back we just went to bed. nothing else.

what did I miss?

[funsaurus]

I think most of the people here are in the same boat as you.

After reading your story, I myself go "HUH?!"

Most guys want sex.

But in your case, it's strange and very very very uncommon.

Perhaps it has a relation to his family background and childhood.

There is definitely something wrong with this.

It might be a good idea to ask a psychologist about this.. secretly, don't let him know.. else he might get upset.

Hope this helps.

Yours sincerely,

FS

[centrestriker]

I agree. HUH?!

[matthewm]

Good question. I have no idea. I think you actually found a guy who's so shy he's afraid to have sex. As rare as it may seem, I think he was tickling and snuggling with you so he could be close to you, but he was afraid to get closer. If it isn't that, I'm baffled. That kind of stuff just doesn't happen. How did you meet him? Where? Tell us a little about him.

[funsaurus]

I don't think it's because he's shy or something.

The thing is he tickles this person for 2 hours... that's beyond the "international standard tickling"

[matthewm]

True, but she didn't necessarily say that it was nonstop. It could have been an on-off flirting kind of thing.

[Asker]

Nope, two hours straight.

we met through a friend about a month before this but we'd only been keeping in contact via fb until recently. he doesn't seem shy but then again I do tend to bring out a comfort level in people, even really shy ones. he seems really nice and sweet and like a good person, but idk. maybe he's not at all interested and just really like tickling people.

[matthewm]

Yeah. I agree with you then. If I were you, I would keep it in the "distant friend" stage. 2 hour tickling (not foreplay) is just a little creepy. Sorry to be so direct, but it's true.

[Asker]

Is there any chance he was trying for more but didn't want to push me? I mean yea two hours of tickling I would think would usually be foreplay too.

[matthewm]

Maybe. I'm not sure. It's kind of a confusing situation. That is definitely a possibility, though.