Do I tell a girl I've been thinking about her?

[haywire]

I've met up with this girl a few times, there's most likely something there. Thing is, I've been thinking about how much I like her this afternoon, and although I think it would be a nice thing to say that to her, our relationship is pretty feisty in ways and I'm not sure if it would be breaking the manly wall too early.

[scarlett]

This is a question that many guys ask themselves. After all, you don't want to come on too strong and scare her off. But at the same time, you don't want to play it too cool and risk losing your chance. So how do you strike the perfect balance?

Here are a few things to keep in mind:

First, think about why you are telling her. Is it because you want to take things to the next level? Or is it simply because you enjoy spending time with her and want her to know that she's on your mind?

There's no right or wrong answer, but being honest with yourself will help you figure out the best way to proceed.

Second, consider how she feels about you. Does she seem interested? Or is she more platonic in her interactions with you?

Again, there's no right or wrong answer. But if she doesn't seem interested, it might be best to hold off on telling her how you feel.

Third, think about what you want to say. "I've been thinking about you" can come off as creepy or stalker-ish if you're not careful.

So take some time to craft the perfect message. Something like, "I was just thinking about the other day when we went to the park. It was so much fun spending time with you."

This is a great way to let her know that you're thinking about her without coming on too strong.

Fourth, think about when you want to say it. There's no need to rush things. In fact, it might be best to wait for a natural moment.

For example, you could say it the next time you see her. Or you could send her a text or email letting her know that you're thinking about her.

Finally, don't overthink it. At the end of the day, just go with your gut. If you feel like telling her how you feel, then do it. But if you're not sure, it's probably best to hold off.

By following these simple tips, you should be able to figure out the best way to tell a girl that you've been thinking about her. Just remember to be honest, respectful, and considerate, and you'll be sure to make a good impression.

[-StillWater-]

Haha! You're funny! A manly wall! xD Good one!

So, ok, this is what you should do. First you meet with her somewhere special (like a park or the zoo, where you'll be in a casual but cute atmosphere), then you just make her laugh, keep the conversation going and then just say it. Now, don't be frightened, words will come out of your mouth, your palms may sweat and you will most likely have dilated pupils. So, just say it. Make sure that that statement is well in beaded in the conversation and is not something you just blurred out.

Good Luck!

*StillWater*

[bluexxeyes]

Every girl wants to hear that someone has been thinking about her all day. I think that if you have been thinking about a girl that you should tell her. Don't worry about what she thinks. If she thinks its weird or she doesn't like it then she obviously didn't like you to much to begin worth. I would love to know that "he" has been thinking about me all day. lol I hope I made sense.

[tanglesofblondecurls]

You can show her you were thinking about her just by sending he a text and asking her how her day was... simple as that... to me it translates to I was thinking of you and wanted to know how you were/been... :) LOVE when I get those tx's. I rather hear I've been thinking of you than see it in a text, it's less creepy.

[Annonn2003]

Definitely tell her, start as honest as possible, it’s never failed me. If she doesn’t feel the same at least you know early on and save yourself lost if invested emotions. Maybe do it subtly to begin with, don’t just come out with with in been thinking of you, it’s kinda creepy unless you’ve hit the perfect stage in the r/ship. Maybe say something along the lines of, “I saw this and thought of you” “someone mentioned this and it reminded me of you” “I was thinking of messaging earlier but I didn’t know if you was busy” all of these, tell her she’s on your mind, without u coming right out and saying it :) good luck

[irish-girl-08]

ok I kind of don't understand what you mean? like do you want to try get to boyfriend girlfriend status with her or just tell her you really like her? oh and you well look like one of the fellas out of one night only(don't know if you know them lol!)

[IJhonnyI]

Bro what do you lose by not doing it it's either you stay where your at or have a final answer no matter what you should because you never know at the end of the day

[suesnagglepuss]

Tell her! My boyfriend is really sweet and sensitive-prob more so than me but he's still manly and were still feisty together after 2yrs!

[Experience-Babe]

just tell her. don't be scared . and it would make you look sweet. I guess.

[haywire]

"Sweet" is a very good way to the friend zone.

[Anonymous]

Yet more reminders why you never ask women for dating advice. Tell her nothing! The next time you are with her, show her. That's it.

[TrustBex]

Tell her! You have nothing to lose.

[Anonymous]

HAHAHAH no lol