What if a guy says that he's not interested but then he acts like he likes me...what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

he smiles to me a lot. he always seems to be in my personal space or like "bubble". every time I look at him...he seems to notice me looking at him and then he looks at me.

[Anonymous]

"What if a guy says that he's not interested" ... that is because he is not, duh! end of story! period ! finido! why do women think like this. would you tell someone you like that you are not interested? why the heck say something like this?

All the sings you are saying are in your head. he is looking at you because it happened to look your way and you are staring at him 24/7. he is smiling because he knows you like him and he feels bad for you.

MOVE ON

i don't want to be rude to you. I just want to give you reality because you are in denial and serious pain. please move on, for youself

[toulouse]

"would you tell one you like you are not interested? "

:) Yes for multiple reasons... That is EXACTLY what I would do.

Sometimes cause I don't want to pressure them, or myself, or ruin a calm relationship, or I do not want them to worry about me liking them - people get all freaky, even if they like you, they worry about being liked

I think they equate it with you making demands, getting clingy,or 100 other stereotypes.

Mostly, I find letting things develop w/out SAYING anything works best.

[EarlofPuuding]

Friend zone. Or he likes you but his friends dont. Or he likes you but he doesn't want to like you. Or he can see that you reallylike him and its making him nervoso.

[toulouse]

Or he can see that you reallylike him and its making him nervous...... " I think I just asked you to elaborate on THAT one on another post^ .. I was going to ask you HERE, but I noticed the name, & that I already ASKED. haha

& About the not WANTING to like you - I was curious about that too - I can relate to THAT one^^

[EarlofPuuding]

I was fresh from a tiny caribbean island and moving to new york there's a greater diversity so I initially rejected all the girls I liked if they were different religions, certian ethnicities etc. Eventually I got over that religion is the only deal breaker. But to like someone you shouldnt is really unfair (especially like me who can only like one girl at a time).

[Ausencia]

Hmm, the thing about ^ rejecting someone if you think you like them MORE than they like you^ ?

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" Or he likes you but he doesn't want to like you. " - What do you mean?

"..Or he can see that you really like him and its making him nervous " - What do you mean?

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"...... to like someone you shouldnt is really unfair " -What do you mean?

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FRIEND ZONE - How do YOU THINK a girl gets stuck there?

:-)

Cool about the Caribbean - -Do you miss it?

[EarlofPuuding]

{well if you want to get into a serious relationship and the girl is just casual, then its not going to work out, you will seem too clingy or something and you wind up getting hurt}

{If you like someone that will just end up with your heart getting broken}

{It really freaks me out when girls show interest because in my mind I'm totally flawed and I feel like I will hurt them or theyll reject me eventually}

{ If you shouldnt like someone and you do, different religion etc very very bad idea.}

[toulouse]

"{It really freaks me out when girls show interest because in my mind I'm totally flawed and I feel like I will hurt them or theyll reject me eventually}"

:) flawed how? lol would yo by any chance say something like " I know how I get"

as a reason for NOT getting involved?

[EarlofPuuding]

Flawed as in not satisfied with myself, and bcus I'm different from most guys, I wouldn't know how I get I only had a girlfriend 6 days and counting and I realize once you get the girl you feel the need to find better, so that's why guys cheat... never thought id be that guy... Not that Id cheat, but just feeling like I could... guess I'm not as nice as I thought. And my girlfriend will be touching me and ill take her hand off or she talks dirty I change the subject...

[Anonymous]

He's not interested...sorry. Even if he was he sounds like a player and if you're looking for a relationship than he isn't the guy for you.

He may just consider you as friends, and that may be the reason why he's close to you or notices you looking at him. My advice would be not to dwell on this guy and move on to the next.

[Pati3nc3]

It sounds like a game. It's not even worth figuring it out. If he says he didn't like you take it for what it is and move on. If he ends up liking you, that's his loss. He shouldn't have been acting so dumb. lol

[wordwarrior]

He is attracted to you.. Maybe you are a cute face.. but then Guys like me prefer women who are more than just a cute face :P so perhaps he maybe not really sure about you.. or perhaps he is just bursting ur balls :P ;) (teasing u/playing with u)