So I'm 24 and I recently fell on hard times after the loss of my mother at 21 and I had no real choice than to move in with my alcoholic father I haven't seen since I was 9.
My uncle keeps coming over to visit. He's drinks as well but overall seems like a very friendly and nice man. Yet tonight I don't know he kinda set off alarm bells but I'm not sure if I'm misreading the situation and I want to make sure I'm not before I say anything because of the situation I'm in.
I decided to to stay in my room this time because when I'm out there they seem to get into arguments over me. Like my uncle trying to one up my dad in letting me drive his car when my dad won't or whatever. So tonight he yelled for me to come out and visit with him. So I did. He brought up maybe taking me to the states with him on his next trip for a week and I said I would think about it. Then he brought up my make up wasn't in the bathroom anymore and I said well I keep it in my room like dad wants and he said oh well your a pretty girl and I wish you would wear some make up sometimes. I just kinda laughed it off. Then he kept hitting me in the shoulder or touching my shoulders as he walked by. Told me to come visit grandma sometimes who he lives with and kept offering me a beer. I don't know maybe I'm overreacting but it made me a little uncomfortable. My dad was sitting there and it didn't seem to bother him.
What at do you guys think? Was I overreacting?
My uncle keeps coming over to visit. He's drinks as well but overall seems like a very friendly and nice man. Yet tonight I don't know he kinda set off alarm bells but I'm not sure if I'm misreading the situation and I want to make sure I'm not before I say anything because of the situation I'm in.
I decided to to stay in my room this time because when I'm out there they seem to get into arguments over me. Like my uncle trying to one up my dad in letting me drive his car when my dad won't or whatever. So tonight he yelled for me to come out and visit with him. So I did. He brought up maybe taking me to the states with him on his next trip for a week and I said I would think about it. Then he brought up my make up wasn't in the bathroom anymore and I said well I keep it in my room like dad wants and he said oh well your a pretty girl and I wish you would wear some make up sometimes. I just kinda laughed it off. Then he kept hitting me in the shoulder or touching my shoulders as he walked by. Told me to come visit grandma sometimes who he lives with and kept offering me a beer. I don't know maybe I'm overreacting but it made me a little uncomfortable. My dad was sitting there and it didn't seem to bother him.
What at do you guys think? Was I overreacting?
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