Guys, do you play mind games with girls you like?

[Anonymous]

Please, be honest, go anon if necessary.
Just tell me would you play mind games with girl you like?
If a guy plays mind games with you does it mean that he likes you?
What's the point of playing mind games?

Thanks in advance

[Scrambledagain]

Men have to play mind games. Ever see the difference of a guys demeanour when he is talking with a friend and when he is talking with a girl he has a crush on?

Being direct with women almost always ends up with the guy being labelled a creep. Being too passive always ends up with the guy being friendzoned. So the guy has to be consciously aware of how he approaches somebody he likes.

[Asker]

So guys play mind games with girls who they like?

[GraveTruth]

No, not as an older adult. but it does happen.

Most head games are sub-conscious.
Men often will act like jerks the get the girls blood flowing and her how she takes it. They also sometimes get see if their girl will get jealous.

Not all guys, just idiots play head games though.

[Relentless_Hippie]

Men aren't women. They don't play mind games with someone they want a relationship with.

[Widowspider]

Some guys do. But it usually just annoys girls and well the girl just moves on.

[That1tallguy]

Vice versa

[Widowspider]

@That1tallguy Yup

[SovereignessofVamps]

Ig he liked you, why would he try to be manipulative?

[Asker]

I don't know. He's weird.

[SovereignessofVamps]

I don't think he likes you, or even if he does you'll have to deal with more mind games in the future right?

[Asker]

Yes but It is okay, I like him and I play mind games too ( I am guilty)

[SovereignessofVamps]

If you're sure... it sounds like drama potential.

[Rdzivan98]

I've never really played mind games with girls but maybe your getting it confused with flirting or him not knowing if you like him. I've only seen girls do mind games on me and trust me if he was playing mind games on you, he would have annoyed you by now.

[Asker]

I haven't thought about it. How can I make difference between him playing mind games or not knowing that I like him?
You are smart by the way :)

[Rdzivan98]

Aww thanks😌. When someone plays mind games there are different types. The first one is the wating game where he waits a while to text you so he doesn't seem desperate. The 2nd one is the hard to get does he act like he is tough or not interested in you? The 3rd

[Rdzivan98]

The jealous game where he talks to other girls or about other girls to make you jealous and want him even more. Now when he's not sure if you like him he could act nervous around you or he tries to ask you to do something with him and only you two. There are many things he could be doing but you might not see it.

[Asker]

He initiates almost all the time but then we have long breaks, he says he has nit crush on anyone but I know he feels something to me.
He says he likes tall girls and he knows I am short. Kinda tries to make me feel as if he doesn't like me.
If I am kind to him he is also kind but If I don't act openly positive he shuts in his hell and gets bitter.

[Asker]

Yeah he tries to make me jealous, what the hell does he want from me? :(

[Asker]

Not*
Shell*

[Rdzivan98]

I've had a similar problem with the girlfriend I have now. All she does is try to make me jealous and if Im not happy all the time she gets mad for no reason. Best thing you can do I show him it doesn't bother you. Give him a taste of his own medicine. He found out he secret to making some one want you. Girls do it to guys what's some of them don't know how to handle it. Let him be the one who calls you, make Him wait to see you, and if he wants you he will look for you.

[Asker]

Thank you, I will take it into consideration.
Hope things will go better with your girlfriend.

[Asker]

I forgot to ask, him doing things like that means that he likes me or not? I mean why does he play mind games? Is it his way to show me that he likes me ir what. He has quite complex personality though.

[Rdzivan98]

Hey I feel like we could solve each other's problems do you mind helping me. Can I add you on any other social media such ass snapchat or kik

[oximeter]

yes if yorue smart and want things to work out.

women in society grow up in a fairytale and no one tells them things if its unpleasant to recieve...

they are slaves to emotion and there's a complex and anit intuitive process to get them to like you and respect you

relationships work when the woman feels she's the subordinate as her repsect for the guy is the same as attraction and value. they are slaves to social acceptance and the man who gets these dynamics will give her satisfaction/wanting more while getting what he needs from her

if he bleives in this disney fairytale love perpetrated by the media, he will not succeed in the real world.

[theonewhodoesntknow]

First of all you sound like you're explaining how to train a dog. Women don't need to be taught to respect or admire a man, if you are ever going to, then that is something you should do on your own. Do you think that women are meant to be submissive too?

[oximeter]

@theonewhodoesntknow yah people are sheep. media and pop culture controls them. just like these riots are created for the sheep to follow. www.usasupreme.com/.../

[oximeter]

@theonewhodoesntknow sure but not in a master and slave kindve way, but in a parternship kindve way. traditional family structure has been shown to create the strongest societies. yes truth does come off like a sexist. i dont think women are equal in ability and i dont care what people think. i care about truth and conforming to that truth.

[oximeter]

i do research for confirmation before i speak. i dont care about the degressed popoular opinion. i really dont.

[oximeter]

@theonewhodoesntknow no one corrects women because men just want to fck them. so they walk around with all sorts of misinformation patting each others backs like they accomplished something just being alive.

[oximeter]

damn you're under 18 too. for sure you dont know fck all lol i mean everything i said by the way.

[Prof_Don]

I'm not a game-player at all when it comes to dating!

However, I will admit that I tend to have a tier-system for the girls i'm talking to.

Two things determine her tier factor: 1) how much I like her (compatibility, looks, personality traits, ambitions/goals, etc.) , and 2) how much attention and effort she is giving me back

[Anonymous]

Of course I'm playing mind games with girls. Since I learned it. And I know I'm good at it. And successful. I'm not handsome. Or in good shape with great body. But it's not a problem to hook up with most of the girls I chose. When I was in good shape, I was nearly 100% successful.

[Whizzy83]

Do you mind sharing strategies or sharing a book?

[Luvme66]

well yes i do... but then again am not looking for anything serious...

I am always straight forward if I really really really like someone

[That1tallguy]

Guys don't play mind games for the most part that's mostly a girl thing. If he's playing games that's not someone you want to be with

[Cashew72]

Nope, to me, if someone is playing "mind games" with you that tells me that they don't like you. If I really do like someone, the last thing I want to do is play games with them, which equates to not treating them well.

[Djaaaaay]

Only people with dramatizing personalitys perform mind games which always results in a diaster , play mind games with others. Most sincere people don't waist thier precious time in thier life play stupid mind games.

[Kaazsz]

I wish I knew how to play mind games. How do guys even do that?

[TCJ1234567]

With girls I like, never but sometime it appears that I do.

[MancGuyUK]

Is that where you just keep staring at other and smiling at each other but don't say anything?

[Galaxy21]

Only if i see that she's trying to play games with me.

[Blitzkrieger]

Yeah all the time. Sudoku, chess, word puzzles, etc.

[Anonymous]

That happens to me because i'm embarassed about liking the girl.
I used to be like that when i was inexperienced with girls

[Anonymous]

No. I've let. myself. be. dragged into them...
But I dont. like mind games. Everything is so much easier with truth.

[jayzzzs]

Never. If he's playing mind games, he's doing it for himself, not for you.

[clampfan101]

Even if I could, I wouldn't. I certainly wouldn't want her to do it back.

[BernieforLife16]

I have when I was younger, hard to get is sometimes fun to play but it gets annoying.

[EnteringValhalla]

im too old and mature for mind games. if i like a girl (which is very rare), ill just tell her straight up like an adult

[Anonymous]

That sounds like an immature thing to do. Maybe he is too young to have a serious relationship.

[SlightlyCrazy]

No never as that's evil. RUN from those guys

[JohnDoe3000]

No, can't say that I do.

[JohnDoeJr]

Nope. I hate mind games.

[sp33d]

I don't have time or patience for that.

[AirForceOne]

No, but some people do.

[julietalphasixtynine]

Wait. What's a mind game?

[Luvme66]

its like... you know... i mean like...

see, your curiosity was played with in the above sentence, mind games are for playing of attractions and shit

[reptocarl]

Fuck no I don't

[Asker]

Then when do/did you play mind games?

[reptocarl]

I never have. I'm a brutally honest straight talking person and that makes me unable to play games

[beefcake2000]

Naw brah I'm a straight shooter.

[Yumix]

nope, not my thing

[bcromartie]

Yes.

[Decentguy]

nope