I would like to know what are some mind games girls who are attention whores like to play on guys.
What are some mind games girls play on guys?
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Girl sends text to guy asking him how he is. Guy replies promptly. Girl reads text and then doesn't reply for a day. Or the level 2 attention seeker doesn't reply at all, despite having initiated contact.
Level 3 never initiate contact at all but reply all the time.
Level 4 selectively reply sometimes. Ask how you are. Then never reply to your answer.
Level 4.5 ignore messages you send. Then text you out of the blue as if nothing was wrong with her behavior a month later.
Level 5 on top of this tell you how hard she finds it to make friends and find good guys
Level 6 use you for validation whilst calling you friend and being touchy feeley with guys who aren't as sweet.
Level 7- she takes her fine time to reply to you then expects a prompt reply from you.
These are just some. Can u check out my take pls. I would appreciate it?
The trick is to date the confident ones, so they are not susceptible to stupid shit (for example the basic things that gag pink texts struggle with) and then be dominant af, so you lead the situation and there is nothing they can even fucking do or say about it :)
@carinerose YEAH like they ask questions like "if i ignore him do you think he'll want to chase me?" it's like faceplam.. hahaha, Noo sir isaac newton lmao
correction on my original comment ofc not all gag pink texts (i mean you like muscle guys, so clearly you have your shit together)
Dan Bacon had a video that mentioned where girls, all girls, will test guys. Not sure which one. But yeah, it annoys me when girls act a little TOO hard to get. But a lot of guys get discouraged too easily, or intimidated from even approaching in the first place.
Looool. It really depends on the guy and the situation. Id say mostly giving mixed signals and trying to make him jealous. But yeah it really depends on the guy and the situation.
Yeah but i don't care. I don't need attention. I think most guys don't care about attention. They'll like validation from time to time from women of being attractive but they don't care about attention.
I don't really play mind games. I won't text someone until they text me back. And I usually don't text a guy first or make a first move but that's about it
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So in other words you like to play a power game where you have leverage and want the guy to chase you but you'll never chase him at all. Thus, making the guy confused as fuck if you even like him and possibly frustrate him.
I always reciprocate though. And that's just for like the first couple weeks. Once were actually dating I don't mind texting first and all that stuff. When I'm not interested a guy knows I'm not interested.
That's still bad though. So a guy does all the leg chasing for first couple weeks unsure whether you like him or not because you want to play a power leverage game where you try to make yourself have more value because he is chasing you. You only then want to balance out the power when you guys start dating.
This all seems like it's done so you can stroke your ego.
And it might not even be a fair 50/50 power balance because he still might have to message you more than you do him. Like for every 10 times he sends a message to you first. You'll only send a message to him first once.
This has nothing to do with my ego. It has to do with the opposite. I want to be sure he's interested in me so I let him take the initiative. It also give him a way out If he isn't interested.
Is a girl you're interested in playing games with you?
Yes it does have to do with ego. Why does a man need to prove he is interested in you but you don't think you have to do the same for him? Why do women think the man needs to prove himself but they are perfect and don't need to prove anything?
Like you said you want to have proof he is interested in you then don't you think he wants to know the same. He wants to know you are interested in him also and not replying to his text message whenever he sends it not doing that. It is very vague show of interest.
This whole he needs to prove himself is linked to women's fragile egos of not wanting to make themselves vulnerable and show they care. This is why so many of y'all don't want to approach, call first at all or plan out dates.
Because doing any of these things would require you getting off your high horse of expecting the man to come to you and being on an equal partnership/playing field that so called feminist in north america like to champion.
Omg some girls aren't like me... The guys I am interested in can handle that. You'll need a more dominant woman who's able to take care of your precious ego.
I've never played mind games with a guy. I haven't got time for that.
I haven't got the patience for hot and cold guys either, if they're going to do that, they can go and do it with someone else.
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Anonymous
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If a girl is messing with you just act obtuse, it's a fix-all. Women expect men to be obtuse so they can't question it. Eventually they just get tired of practicing on someone who doesn't react.
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