Guys, how many times have you been rejected? Girls, how many guys have you rejected? Or vise versa?

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rgb008 · Accepted Answer

Eh I guess I rejected one guy. He got my contact info from my math tutor back in high school and kept messaging me and then found my FB. Sent me weird messages about how he would listen to my conversations in class and said we had similar interests and to give him my number again because he got a new phone (never gave him my number in the first place). Never spoke to me in person at school even though we had 2 classes together. Just literally never responded to him. So I guess that's an indirect rejection? Hahaha

But other than that, not many guys have been interested in me.

t-timee · Accepted Answer

I have been rejected a lot honestly.. one guy told me to never talk to him again because he thought I wasn't attractive enough... a different guy told me he didn't want to continue seeing me because I was too much of a geek for him and not athletic enough.. those are only a few of my stories... but I have finally found someone who loves me for the person I am.

ElissaDido · Accepted Answer

I've never been rejected. I think I only BLUNTLY rejected a guy maybe 5 times or so.

Azgeda · Accepted Answer

When I think about it. Never really. Tho I rarely go out of my way to "date" someone , the entire idea is weird to me , you know next to nothing about the person and you want to "date" her , you're thinking with your penis , take it slow , learn more about each other first , start with something friendly and see where it goes from there.

jacquesvol · Accepted Answer

I stopped counting half a century ago. You can't win them all.

JiminsHoe · Answer

Lol I don't place myself in situations where I may be rejected, but I have rejected a guy. But I tried to pet a dog and the owner totally freaked out and yelled at me GOD THAT WAS EMBARRASSING LMAO.

lovydoey · Answer

This semester 5 guys... I just don't get crushes or fall for guys easily. And these guys were either: needy, older than me with children, or only wanted me because I'm Latina

CanadEh · Answer

Been rejected three times, rejected girls twice. Convinced a ton I was dumb as fuck because I was too dense to pick up their signals until years after the fact.

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

I've been rejected about three times by guys, and quite a few times with guys due to cold approachers and then a few guys I actually knew.

ThisAndThat · Answer

I was rejected enough and rejected enough, well, almost. I'm the scorned dude and I'm formally rejecting everybody here. So to all those of you on here saying they haven't been rejected, well now you have been, welcome to the crowd :D

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

Only counting outspoken rejections with girls I knew longer than a day: I have rejected twice, I've been rejected three times.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

I have only been directly rejected a few times.  As for INdirect rejection, that's another story entirely. The girls where I am are passive aggressive as all hell.

Mrwoo99 · Answer

Lost count, I've been rejected to the point of having no soul left. I'm just numb from being called a creep, freak or ugly etc, for either just asking a girl to dance, approaching or greeting her.

Phoenix98 · Answer

It hasn't really happened to be honest, I've rejected a handful of girls though, politely and respectfully of course though.

TiffyPuff · Answer

I don't keep count, lol. Guys get all sad, but that's life :)

Imafreespirit · Answer

never been rejected (probably coz I've never asked haha!) and I've rejected 5 times

BeautifulPromisesx · Answer

Never been rejected.  The opposite way uh I don't know.

Kuraj · Answer

I got rejected once while I was 15. I rejected about a dozen people in person and most people on dating sites, including lots of dudes...

Ketamine · Answer

I apparently reject guys without realising it, I've never been rejected myself because I've never chased after someone before

Anonymous · Answer

Dozens rejected, dozens rejected me. Probably about even.

Tanisha69 · Answer

It's tough for a girl to approach a guy. Maybe tougher than for a guy to approach a girl.

ASEXY · Answer

I never been rejected because you know why. I lost count of how many girls I rejected...

Puppylove94 · Answer

Honestly I've rejected quite a few guys lol I was weird about dating in college.

Geekcinderella · Answer

I've rejected one guy because i used to be stupid and doesn't think. I've been "rejected" by a crush once (i think because he found out i like him. He started acting weird)

candyaurora · Answer

I have rejected 2 weirdos... never been actually rejected because I am shy and dont chase guys 😀

DamnCurtis · Answer

Never been rejected as I'm not one to aggressively hit on girls. Rejected maybe 2-3

datgirl · Answer

I've never been rejected, but I have rejected many many guys.

LiterallyZeus · Answer

The male privilege in society becomes so so obvious when you see these rejection statistics...

ToruMatsuda · Answer

Does friendzoned count as rejection?😅

Cosytoasty · Answer

I stopped counting after 100 lmao

Marellia · Answer

I've been rejected 2 times. And I rejected 2 guys

3336PS · Answer

goes both ways. too busy to count.

deraz24 · Answer

May be in the low 20's or teens

Ephemera1 · Answer

0. The poom comes to me fam

Avery18 · Answer

Was rejected once. Have rejected 15

Ahmed_Sy15x · Answer

i can't count them, maybe over 100 times

TonyRyanAgain · Answer

Very few, I've rejected my share though.

ThePetSquirrel · Answer

A lot.

CT_CD · Answer

Never been rejected.

awesomenesslove · Answer

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