Guys, how many times have you been rejected (be honest)?

[Anonymous]

How did you feel?

[UmbrusNightshade]

I’d say about 5-7 times. I have no luck with women.


In high school I got one date to Homecoming. In college, I actually started talking to a girl but my dumb ass chickened out when she told me to call her.


I was rejected by the only woman I’ve ever loved but post-rejection she became one of my closest friends ever. She and I see each other as “kindred spirits.” And there was one woman I was super into but she was engaged. I was her fiancée’s roommate and we got so close that she once told me that if he ever left her or died, she’d marry me in a heartbeat.


Most recently got mindfucked by a woman. We hit it off and flirted for about 2 weeks or so and she let met me escalate the flirtation to a degree no other woman had. So I give her my number m, she texts me immediately, I ask her out but she is busy. I ask her if I could call her later the next night after she left her mom’s house and set up a dinner date. She says yes. Two hours later I get a text that “it wouldn’t be fair to the guy I’m talking to go out with you.” What the hell was the point in flirting and agreeing to go out to turn around and pull that crap?

[Anonymous]

Hehe just once and never tried again. These days i enjoy spending my time alone. And it someone really likes me they will come forward if not then oh well i will just be alone. Perfectly fine to be alone. You have more time to think, more money to make, and best of all quiet and no drama.

[OfMiceandMen]

Once out of about eight times total. I shook it off and thought plenty more women that I would like to meet tonight.

[UniquelyBasic]

None really but then again I only asked out 1 girl. 100% Success rate 😅

[Asker]

Congrats!!

[LiamJHayden]

Hundreds. I cold call and cast a wide net. I do not care about rejection. I prefer that to the "text me" time-wasting game when she has no interest.

[Anonymous]

I have only been rejected by one women, but it was multiple times. It makes me feel real bad.

[Asker]

How many times?

[Opinion Owner]

The first time was multiple times over a short period. She eventually executed me once and for all.

[Asker]

Wow. What made you try again?

[Opinion Owner]

I wish I could explain why i was so interested in this one amazing woman.

[Opinion Owner]

But i cannot

[Opinion Owner]

There is certainly a pull

[Vegasrunner]

Probably a lot. Women are simply a numbers game. Any guy that's goof w/ women has been rejected numerous times that's the only way you improve.

[Anonymous]

More than I can remember. It's just part of the game for any guys who wants to date.

[spartan55]

More than you for sure.

[Asker]

I've never been rejected.

[spartan55]

Your definition of rejection is likely very different, but nonetheless

[Asker]

I've never approached a guy.

[spartan55]

Then you can't say you've never been rejected.

[Asker]

Yes I can

[spartan55]

No you can't, how do you figure?

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Too many to bother counting.