How many times have you been rejected?

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and what was their reasoning/how did it happen?
i have been rejected by every guy i approached , and i guess the problem is with how i look , and masculine personality and face , and also low self confidence probably.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Stopped counting at 5200. That was a few years ago. I've been rejected every single time, by every girl I've ever approached, even when I made it clear I'd be happy to be friend-zoned (because at least then I'd have a friend). Most often it was for being "too nice", "not their type", "a loser", "a virgin", or just flat out "fuck you, I don't have to justify anything I do, I'M A GIRL". Everyone's too good for me. I stopped pursuing people and gave up on relationships when I turned 30, because it's now too late; the entirety of my youth, the prime years of my life, are all behind me, and I utterly failed to accomplish anything. Now, I settle for what little momentary solace I can derive from online porn and my right hand; I know I can never have anything more.

ak667 · Accepted Answer

I'd estimate somewhere between 200 to 1,000 times.

>> and what was their reasoning/how did it happen?

I think I might have been too drunk if I had any chance. I've found out the hard way at parties that there's a right level of intoxication between looking like you're having fun and being unable to put together a coherent sentence Also immediately asking all the girls next to the one who rejected me wasn't always the best idea.

BrittBratt2416 · Accepted Answer

I don't approach men first (the only guy I've ever approached first was boyfriend, if he had so no then that would been the first and last time i did it. And if we were to ever break up, I most likely wouldn't approach again anways.) so I have never been flat out rejected but from my school days I was in a way cause all the guys I liked didn't like me back. They didn't exactly say it, but they let me know that didn't like me by either dating other girls, not responding when they found out I liked them, or give a rather disappointed or grossed out response. But I never had a guy say "sorry im not interested" cause I don't approach them like that.

Pria_ · Accepted Answer

Girl I’ve been rejected because I keep settling, I get these guys who I know only want sex and I expect a different result because i’m a “nice “ person , I’ve been blocked twice including the guy I lost my virginity to and those are the only guys that I’ve ever had sex with... so the point is rejection is not one sided there are flaws with the other person too, maybe they’re just too shallow , or maybe they only like blondes. My point is don’t let rejection make you feel like you’re the one with flaws.

ragequeen · Accepted Answer

One guy in eight grade 😂 poor guy was really sweet, but I didn't know he had autism at the time.

Tiaroendu479 · Answer

Once, and it was because I wasn’t his type. I hate to say it, but the “type” of person does make a huge difference when it comes to attraction, so my advice would be to try a different type than you’re used to; if you normally go for jocks, try finding a nerd that you can have a connection with, and vice versa

Accelerate · Answer

Once. It was the start of high school when I approached her. She said I was too good for her and that she doesn't deserve me. I'm pretty sure she was just trying to be nice and let me down easy. We still remained friends after that, but I quickly lost that crush-like attachment I had to her because of how she changed.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I've been rejected a few times most the time I'm stuck in the friend zone but I don't mind you know what they say if at first you don't succeed try try again. And I want you to look at it a little bit differently than you're looking at it nobody's too good for you if they don't see you for who you are then that's their loss move on and find you somebody else but don't ever say somebody's too good for you.

MrKinktastic · Answer

12 before a girl went out with me when I was in high school. She was cheating :p

Since then only a couple of times when I over reached lol normally I have easy enough conversation with women I can get a good sense if theyre interested before I ask

englisc · Answer

Too many to count. I don't worry about the reasons - when you're the one approaching more often than not you're gonna aporoach people who aren't attracted to you anyway.

gear_head · Answer

Too many times to count but don't let that stop you... just because a lot of guys said no... their will be that one that says yes... beauty is in the eye of the beholder what one guy doesn't see... another guy will just be patient

Prankster13 · Answer

Every time but one. Too young (but I'm not). Not attractive. Too short. Just a friend. Not their "type." And so on...

CaffeinatedCactus · Answer

I have never actually been rejected Haha I've never really pursued a relationship. Definitely too shy to ever do that

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I stopped counting :D The reasons were numerous, but I never heard something like ''you don't look good enough''.

bongopudding · Answer

I got rejected once and that was before I even said I was interested 😂 he said he was emotionally unavailable but then changed his mind

strawberrysouffle · Answer

Once, 'cause I was only once bold enough to make a move. It was terrible.

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

The number of girls in my class - 1 Their reasoning usually goes along the line I'm not serious it's a prank blah blah

torwulf · Answer

Probably in the thousands by now, i get rejected 5 times per day on average. Its usually something like "im in a rush" "im busy", usually quite polite.

Zero-Zulu · Answer

3 times. One was friend zoned. Second was a long distances thing. Third one was cause she was looking for looks more than other things

atlasking · Answer

pretty much every step of the way in my 30 years on Earth. basically, I'm Asian and short and Asian girls like tall and white guys. Nowadays, I won't even look twice at Asians.

jasco · Answer

well for me i think 2 times at least and well there are a lots of things that can help u with ur problems

therainman · Answer

Too many to count. Always the same excuse: I like you as a friend. In all of those cases, our friendship never lasted very long after that.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Lol, I lost count years ago.. I actually built the confidence that I have off of rejection and mistakes!

chameleon3081 · Answer

Every single time I asked a girl out. And all o do is say hello and make small talk.  But I stay happy, have lots to be happy about in life.

Namkrow · Answer

More times than I care to acknowledge. Between that and the only ex I'll ever have, I don't try anymore.

ghost_leader07 · Answer

I've never been rejected because i never approached a girl and I'm going to ask a girl soon so I'd say one rejection is loading xD

One_J_Boi · Answer

I've always been, but that's y I keep quiet to prevent rejection

Landshrk0068 · Answer

Focusing on the negative, just makes your low self confidence worse.

Whiterecluse · Answer

Twice. I’ve only tried two times. I didn’t even do it right. I won’t likely do it again until I’m sure it and I are worth it.

jw2k1 · Answer

I get rejected every day. Snobby girls look at me like "in your dreams" when I'm just doing my job and greeting them when they walk into my store. Bitch nobody wants you!

Anonymous · Answer

Never really be rejected, but I have been ghosted so many times right before dates.

JutaJia · Answer

I usually approach as a friend first, so rejection come from they thought of me like brother or something.

lazylittleowl · Answer

Twice and I'm sick of being rejected. That's why I feel like I should not confess first.

jdrrichmond · Answer

A bunch. Both rejected and ghosted. Probably age and Chubb.

StubbledShip · Answer

Same. I'm just bad at timing, I usually wait too long and miss the opportunity.

vini420 · Answer

I was rejected bcoz everyone has boyfriend though 😂

Jhon_99 · Answer

I never get rejected because I never ask. I'm so shy to approach a girl

Anonymous · Answer

a lot actually. But i don't give up & i keep trying no matter how much it stings.

Gerpar · Answer

0. My secret is being too shy to ask ;]

Tsunderedabbing · Answer

Can't be rejected if you don't ask😎

RevengeServedCold · Answer

Maybe 3-4 times in my entire life.

buffdude_1719 · Answer

More than i can imagine lmfao

mel1695 · Answer

I would say by 2 men haha 😂

breakerecho · Answer

0 I never asked anybody

ThePetSquirrel · Answer

Two infinity and beyond.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Impossible to remember.

jirwin7979 · Answer

15 times and not comfy to post on open msg's

TonyWilliams · Answer

Many, can't even count

egykimo · Answer

Never because i never approached a girl

Achellis · Answer

I have loved and been rejected by one and Only one

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

0 times. I just don't approach hehe.

HamzaNaeem · Answer

It will be equal to all the cells in my body

Revolver_ · Answer

I've never been rejected

Bribree18 · Answer

Probably 3/4 times.

SquiggleRain · Answer

over 9000

Mitch6192 · Answer

I've lost count lol

pitzi · Answer

Never

Anonymous · Answer

Always..

BOUNTYGUY9 · Answer

not nice at all

Redhadeziri30111991 · Answer

once

samay2 · Answer

One time

Anonymous · Answer

Show yourself!

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