Guys, why do you like hugging your favorite girl?

[hesaysim2sexy]

why do you like to hug a girl that you really like but she's not your girl and what does a big hug from behind with a deep long kiss on the cheek mean?

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

We like to hug girls we really like, because it's nice. We like that person, and hugging them feels wonderful, especially if they hug back. I do it with my best friend, because I love her and would do anything for her, but I'm not interested in something else.

But hugging from the back, that's different. Especially the kiss on the cheek. I'd feel like I'm crossing the lines if she isn't my girl.

If I see a guy hugging a girl from behind and kissing someone who isn't his girlfriend, I'd be 100% he thinks that girl is hot and would sleep with her without thinking twice. It doesn't necessarily mean he would, but that sh*t isn't cool to do with someone who isn't your girlfriend, because I know if that girl ever does get a boyfriend, that guy isn't going to put up with that sort of sh*t coming from one of her guy friends.

My best friend has a boyfriend, who doesn't mind that me and her are friends, or that we hug each other. But I'm pretty sure that if him or any self-respecting guy saw me hug their girlfriend from behind, and kiss her on the cheek, things would get pretty heated.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yea I was shocked he just hugged me from behind and kissed me too. tho it was on the cheek. he likes to ask for hugs. like maybe 4 under an hour. lol. even at work. omg. when everybodys there.

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

Yeah well that's because you're hot and hard to resist. I mean if you and me were close and stuff, I wouldn't just be hugging you from behind. ;D Muahah OK just kidding. o.o Sorry. About the hugging part, not... about the you being hot part. I'll shut up now. :I

[hesaysim2sexy]

Lol... its cool man. so you said you have a bestfriend. and she's taken. but what if she's not? what are you going to do about it? you sound almost like him but not really because he said the same things like I love her and id do anything for her but he wanted something else.he wants me to be his. I told him we can never be so he stopped. but he still wants me to be his bestfriend and btw he's taken too. he said he still loves me and don't want me to leave his life ever. is he for real?

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

Seems like he is for real. I mean, I don't see any reason why he wouldn't be. But if my best friend wasn't taken, nothing would change really, because I see her purely as a friend and never wanted anything else with her. Not just that, but she's pretty much my only close friend these days, and I don't want to have her as a girlfriend if that means I'll have to lose her as a best friend. I don't think I'm able to treat her as both at the same time - it just wouldn't work out.

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

But also, you have to understand that I'm a virgin and have never been with a girl before, and it's not really a priority for me right now. I don't mind waiting until I find a special girl that cares about me the same way I do, and so in that sense I wouldn't mind being just friends with a girl I have feelings for, even if she doesn't want to go any further. However, doing things like kissing and hugging and stuff like that, is only just making things harder for me.

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

But that’s just me. Obviously, I’m not like most other guys, and I don't know what his current relationship is like, but given the fact that you're quite attractive and that you two know each other enough to be friends, I'd say he still has this kind of crush on you that isn't gonna go away especially not if you two stay close friends and he gets to hug you a lot the way he does. I hug my bestfriend a lot too, but there's no sexual interest when I do it. I can't say the same happens with him.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Well, he doesn't really have too many other girl friends other than me really. I'm the one he talks about to his gf. and lately he has been having problems with her. I told him maybe what he feels for me is just a phase and maybe he should talk to her about their relationship. he told me I am the perfect woman for him because I am his bestfriend and everything and we fit together. when we are alone, he sometimes distance and sometimes is aching to hug me so he had to ask but sometimes he just surprise

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

Maybe he's fine being just friends with you, even though he would like being more. It means he respects what you want, instead of just looking at what he wants. But with the hugs and kisses, you have to ask yourself if you'd be cool with him doing that if your boyfriend was around. I know I'd get jealous if a guy started hugging my future girlfriend from behind. ?.? His penis should never be that close to her butt!!! Grr...

[hesaysim2sexy]

Wow that's so true. but I don't think he will ever dare to hug me when my man is around or his gf. that's rude. unless he has no feelings for me because people can see it you know. his girlfriend gave me a cold shoulder the other weekend. :( anyways, things are slowing down. I haven't been talking to him at all anymore unlike before. so is he. so its not really bestfriends anymore :(

[WeaponZero]

couldn't tell you cause I'm not a hugger. or a kisser. in fact physical contact of any kind for the most part is reserved for my significant other.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Awwww...:) guys like you are rare.

[GhostMagic]

it is what it is, maybe he forgets , but how can you forget a "significant" other...he's trying to feel you up from the back..thoughts happen quick

[hesaysim2sexy]

So he will never ever forget me?

[GhostMagic]

He will forget that you just might be a friend instead of a "special girl friend" depends how much you see each other.. it helps remember what ur relationship is about if you see each other every othe day...talking to them on phone could be like just talking to a friend on internet...hard to remember a voice...but a physical appearance has a lot to do with remembering...he might, might not forget

[hesaysim2sexy]

We see each other everyday... at work.

[GhostMagic]

Depends what you do, if you annoy him,,, he might not want to remember how special you are.. just want to remember what you could be on the side..BTW... who is asking this question..

[hesaysim2sexy]

I am lol

[GhostMagic]

Lol, hesayim2sexy?..

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yes ghostmagic! lol

[GhostMagic]

O, lol,,ok...well any more questions? :)

[hesaysim2sexy]

Check my new questions.

[martyfellow]

Probably it means you're such a terrible flirt that guys think it's OK to get physical like this!

[hesaysim2sexy]

Not terrible flirt. a good one lol. only this guy did this to me. and the others just play poke with me but have no guts to do anything else because they know they're not welcome. this guy is my close friend

[martyfellow]

That's what I meant by 'terrible'--meanng 'good'--

[hesaysim2sexy]

Awww lol... thanks

[AliRaza]

wel its simple we hug so tht she cud b ours and hug from back makes us closer and long kiss on check is to express love ..

[hesaysim2sexy]

Well he's my friend and he is taken. and so am i. so the long kiss on the cheek could mean he misses me?

[Anonymous]

hugging leads to other things...

[hesaysim2sexy]

Ttrue

[Anonymous]

They hug you so they can feel your boobs on them. But then they find out they suck so they kiss you on the cheek to make you feel better

[hesaysim2sexy]

Lol.. he likes to hug from behind

[Opinion Owner]

Well same thing with your butt...

[JustDance]

Lol. I guess its one way for girls to see it, but when I hug my girl friends(even those that I like alot), I don't do it to feel their boobs or ass... I'm a good hugger lol. everyone tells me so. but on the offchance I do feel their boobs against my chest, that's just a bonus haha

[blue2red]

Maybe he wishes you were his girl.

[hesaysim2sexy]

He already wished but he knows he can't have me. we are friends still. so does that mean he still wishes tho?

[blue2red]

If it were me doing that, then that would mean I still did.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Awww :( but I stopped talking to him.. and he still drives by ma haus

[blue2red]

Well, that's his problamo lol. He just randomly drives by? Yeah, he's for sure stuck on you.

[hesaysim2sexy]

Yeah like he used to...before we stopped talking. then he did it again