Do guys like it when girls make the first move?

[angelthexplorer]

I have read dating advices where in girls are adviced to sit back, relax and let the guy do the chase. The harder to get, the better it is. How true or untrue is this?

[Answerdude]

I guess maybe it's because I don't like to be too surprising, because I don't want it to turn out to be surprising in a bad way, or maybe it's because I've met so many girls who were pretty surprising themselves, but it seems like most of the time, it's the girl who makes the first move with me. That even includes girls who like to skinny-dip or go naked, who say they do it in a non-sexual way and then, when I'm not expecting it, they make their move on me.

[Moutinho1990]

it can work both ways, meaning it could go as smooth as baby cheeks or it can make you look desperate and complete creep.

me personally i don't go chase anyone they often be the ones who make the first move but sometimes it won't work.. sooooo I don't know..

[angelthexplorer]

Well said

[linds34]

If the guy is interested in you he would like it. I don't think the advice to wait around is a great idea, because a lot of times the guy will just never know you were interested.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, then they ignore the girl. That's how guys roll.

[angelthexplorer]

😂😂😂😂

[genericname85]

what if i told you "being harder to get" doesn´t mean throwing them a stick in the spokes while they try and approach you. making them feel like not everybody could have you is what you wanna make them feel and you can also achieve that if you´re the one approaching.

conservative guys will likely hate it. i love it though if she makes the first move. which of course doesn´t mean that i´m automatically attracted to her xD

[Renzo11]

I dont play those games. Either you're interested when we make a move or you're not. Purposefully showing disinterest or being indifferent is a big turn off. And if a girl makes the first move i am quickly impressed.

[saeidpro]

Well because it's not common it feels really good for men. So they won't turn such a woman down. But, it can't happen forever, because men will leave girls that are easy.
So you either have to make the first move in a way that he doesn't understand and thinks he made the first move (which is a really delicate stuff!). Or, if you made the first move you should let him chase you after that!

[LN8946]

I did make the first move, the answer was: 'Sorry, I have a gf' though I knew he didn't after he looked at me and did a lot of things during a whole year...

[saeidpro]

@LN8946 Well there is in fact no absolute rule in relationship stuff. Maybe you simply weren't his type. All things everybody writes down in here is based on their own experiences. In my experience men normally say yes quite easily, but it doesn't happen all the time!
It's better that you let the guy makes the first move, if he didn't my first solution (make the first move in a way that he doesn't understand and thinks he made the first move) is the best. if he didn't do anything still, go for a direct hit and see what happens. but eventually, there is a chance that he says no after all of this. So you better let go and go for the next guy!

[LN8946]

true say, yeah you're right ! I see what you mean, but I'm not that good at flirting...

[diablohunter2000]

Really depends on the guy in my opnion cause some guys are more old fashion where they want to make the first move where some people are more new style or "fashion" where they don't care who makes the first move

[DamonGill]

women makimg the first move is great! i hate the chasing and playing games that women seem to think we like

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Each case is different. If any girl is interested in any guy first she should give some signs that she is liking him. If then also he don't understand then in my opinion the girl should approach the guy and act like a 21st century girl.

[TheEnvy]

The harder to get is usually a big turnoff cause some girls "hardness" has no limits. He'll go to an easier target. Of course he'll move away from her too, but to you the result will be the same

[MackFreeze]

I personally like being the one asking the girl out. It would be nice if she showed she obviously like me or dropped easy hints, but I enjoy asking her out.

[serious]

Yes, it's true. Men do like it when women make the first move.

[columbine]

both should chase eachother play hard to get for a little bit fight for ur spot when u won the love battle cherish her or him realisticly both sexes r chasers & fighters

[Pro14340]

I have always admired the courage of such girls. I really like it when girls make first move. Because everytime a guy can't pick that 'hint '

[HeatNation1]

its fine. i can't stand how men are expected to do everything. if you're a woman and you like a guy, make a move. instead, women sit back and wait for that guy to read their mind

[RedThread]

I think it's sexy when anyone has the confidence to make the first move.

[ProjectFox]

I would like that because you don't know if she want more than being friends

[Truthatanycost]

Yes, I hate having to be the first one to move out of their way in the street.

[Yumix]

I hate it when I have to "chase"

if she's making me wait and chase on purpose, then I will just move on lol

and sure I'd like her to make to first move too... nothing wrong with that

[Anonymous]

Here is the problem: guy makes the first move, he's attracted to me.
I make the first move, the same guy thinks he's too good for me.
Or worse yet, he thinks I'm a slut.

[spliff710]

it's true for some guys, I don't chase females fuck that demeaning shit. I want to meet someone who really looks at life different then the regular. A girl introduces herself to me, that's a green flag.

[TheUglyMonk]

You'll miss out on a lot of chances if you just sit back and wait for it to come to you.

[MeGo99]

I don't mind it at all. Either way, as long as there IS a move, lol