Traditionally, men are supposed to make all the moves, but now a days it seems that a lot of guys are more hesitant when it comes to asking girls out or getting in relationships. Personally, I like making the first move for many reasons mainly because I always find myself attracted to more shy guys. What do you think?
Yeah I totally think guys like it when girls make the first move sometimes! Takes a lot of pressure off us, ya know? Like usually we feel like we gotta do all the work and it's nerve-wracking trying to figure out if a girl even likes you back.
But when a girl comes at us first, it makes it super obvious she's into us and it's a major confidence boost. Like "hell yeah, she thinks I'm hot!" It gives us the green light to keep chatting her up without wondering if we're bothering her.
Plus honestly I know a lot of shy guys never would've had the guts to say something without that extra push. So you're probably helping them out by breaking the ice. I'd be way more likely to ask a girl on a date if she gave me some obvious signs she was down first.
Plus it's hot when a girl knows what she wants, you gotta respect that. So yeah for sure, most guys are all for it when you take control! Go for who you want, don't be afraid to put yourself out there. You never know, that shy guy could surprise you once he opens up. Good luck!
Correction traditionally women made the first move and guys thought it was them making the first move. Ladies would drop a handkerchief while walking past a guy they were attracted to the guy being a gentleman would leap to action pick it up and return it to the lady and start a conversation. He would think he was the gallant hero but in reality she dropped it on purpose hoping he would see it and help the lady. So in answer to your question honestly it doesn't matter to most guys.
Sometimes, waiting for a guy means it won't happen, so it's wise to make the first, second or any other needed move :D
The clueless ones like it. They need all the help they can get.
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In today’s society where you can’t assume consent the spontaneity of the first move is in question. So many men tend not to do it. I have no issues making the first move but I have to have a good read in the woman. That said, in my case women tend to get inpatient before the date is over and end up making the first move which is fine by me.
I love that. There’s nothing hotter than a confident woman knowing what she wants and going for it.
u I sure do... lol
80% of my relationships started this way... when they approached me first
I was always s are around girls. Even if I knew a girl liked me I still could not make a move. A little help might have been appreciated
Only if she's genuinely interested. Most women that make the first move are just gaming the guy. So it ain't enough to just make the first move. She's going to get tested. And if she fails she's going to get rejected.
I have had it happen on occasion. When it occurs, my first reaction is shock, which is quickly replaced by a sense of pleasant surprise.
For crying out loud. Yes! Why is this still a question? This should be common knowledge by now.
It's certainly refreshing when a woman makes the first move. However, in my experience it is exceedingly rare.
Personally I need you girls to make the first move , so yea I don’t mind it at all , I will glance or have to work myself up to try and approach or talk
Depends on the guy but I think most guys are okay with it if not prefer that.
Many times, yes. Although it happens so rarely that a lot of men might be caught off guard by a woman's advances.
When I like the girl, but not when it comes to having to do the rejecting.
Traditionally, women are supposed to make all the food, but now a days it seems that a lot of women are more hesitant when it comes to cooking.
Yeah but why do I get the feeling this will never change
Confident girls are sexy.
Heeeeeeeell yes
yes they do
Yes. Dear lord yes.
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