Did my first date go well?

[Anonymous]

I went on a first date with a girl the other day. I really like her and am really interested in pursuing a relationship with her. I can't tell how she feels though...it seemed like we had a lot of fun during the date, there was good conversation and goofing off and laughing so that is why I think it went well. My problem is that there was not a lot of physical contact...we touched like twice all night. Once the date was over I walked her to her car (we met there) and she turned to me and was like so do I get a hug? and of course I gave her one. Then like a half an hour later she sent me a text message and said thanks for tonight...i had fun and hope you did too. I responded informing her of the same but now we haven't talked since but that has only been a couple of days. So...is she interested or was she just being nice with the hug and text? and ideas are greatly appreciated (especially from girls)

[Elcristoph]

Hello,

the date seemed to go well besed on what you said.. give it 3 more days then CALL HER and ask her out again.. if she accepts your on to date number 2.. just relax and keep things between you light and funny.. being the class clown is always best..

at the end of the 2nd date give her a KISS on the lips.. if she accepts then your in good shape for date 3 just keep calm and in control.. remember patients is the key to women so you don't want to charge in..

if she turns away and when you try to kiss her then she isn't interested and you should move on

Good Luck

- Chris

[Boring01]

She is trapped like a fly in your sinister web of deception. Now it's time to go in for the kill. Bye her a hello kitty action figure. That my friend will seal the deal.

Take Care

-Mom

[scribble]

There are Hello Kitty action figures? Like with smells like pancakes action? =P

[hjk2k5]

Ask her out on thatsecond date, she already told you she had fun, use that against her. If you aren't trying to get in her pants then why should physical contact matter? It will come in time, that first time she grabs your arm will feel really good, almost electric, if you guys aren't just holding hands to show the qorld you're a couple. Don't be worried about what other people do on their dates, do what feels comfortable, and usually that happens at the girls pace.

[Anonymous]

Until you ask her out for date 2, 3 and 4, you really won't know where things are headed. Unless someone is really rude, the first date should be fairly nice. The fact that she wanted a hug is cool, but sometimes that could be a knee-jerk reaction on someone's part and later they cool off and don't want to see the person for a 2nd date.

Hopefully by now you have talked to her and asked her for that 2nd date.

[CrazynKinky]

Did you text her or call her or try and make other plans? Cause girls don't like making first contact.

If you had a good time just try and hang out again try to make it clear that your interested. Cause she might be feeling the same as you. and considering she asked you for a hug instead of it just happening like it normal would she might get that he's not interested vibe

[sillysally]

Shes interested! Trust me, you can tell when a girl is not having a good time on a date. It will get extremely awkward.

Text her first, sometimes it feels like we are hastling you when we text first. But if you do it, usually we are more than happy to respond and keep the convo going.

Ask her out a second time! After all, what have you got to loose?

[Kerenai]

i think she's shy and maybe scared of making the wrong move. maybe she wants you to make the move first so she can be sure you like her and she doesn't want to date someone who doesn't like her.

[TornApart]

i think that maybe she is a bit shy. but I think it went well! :)

just take it easy and see where it goes :)

[mysteri2u]

if she wanted to text you after the date id say she's interested

[Phoenix52]

Nope. The date WAS going well, but you didn't escalate. Should have kissed her.