A girl put her hand inside my pants what should I do?

[Eddyyy]

She put her hand in my pants with the excuse to fix my shirt and give me a little bit of more style.

[Anonymous]

You seem knowledgeable. What does it mean if a girl will be seeing you soon and has been contacting over phone calls a bit but lightly drops she's on her period. What does this mean for me?

[Eddyyy]

Dude, look if she is contacting f you first that means she is interested and if she doesn't talk much over the phone that means she wants you to keep interested so you go the next day and talk to her more.

[Opinion Owner]

So just wait to hear from her?

[Eddyyy]

Yeah, but also try to get involved and try to help her if you can. That boosts your relationship and actually makes you more sexy i could say for her. Trust me

[Opinion Owner]

How can I help her while she not maybe feeling all that sexy during her period. But also she is making advances but it's been awhile since we've seen another for several reasons

[Eddyyy]

Look try to tell her how beautiful she is. Don't just tell her you boddy is hot or things like that. Try to tell her about her personality about her face her eyes her voice you know stuff like that.

[Opinion Owner]

I heard from her this morning wished her a good day at work. She instantly replied" you too 😇" but haven't heard from her. Should I wait to talk to her this weekend when I see her or contact her tonight?

[Eddyyy]

Did she text you first?

[Eddyyy]

You should definitely contact her tomorrow and tell her if she has any plans for the weekend. If she rejects you with telling you like she has to do something or stuff like do not freak out it is fine. Just tell her When would it be a better time the next weekend and if she accepts try to socialize more with her. Make sure to listen to her problems and try to give her solutions that will make her go right up to you when she has problems and when she thinks that she is gonna think you are the person she can rely on.

[Opinion Owner]

We already have plans tomorrow was just wondering if I should just to check up and say hello

[Eddyyy]

No, wait till tomorrow and have lots of enthusiasm. Step out of your confort zone.

[Opinion Owner]

So she probably sleeping, she told me recently she is on her period and hasn't felt great like she's sick. But can't wait for this weekend and is very happy and flirty in text. Sounds like she just wants to see me and hopefully feel better. I don't think it really matters what we do she's content. She didn't reply back tonight, just wait it out?

[Opinion Owner]

She did text me first yesterday and was fast to respond today!!!

[Eddyyy]

Then my friend you have nothing to worry about from the information that you are telling me she sound like she actually likes you it is just her period that is making her have a bad time? I believe once that period is gone she will be all for you.😀

[Opinion Owner]

That's pretty much what I'm getting but trying not to be clingy or overbearing like before. I want to go out more. She told me on the phone about a lot what she's been doing without me asking much, and she keeps telling me she can't believe the guys she's seen in. The past and how she couldn't trust them and how bad of traits they have and how she has no desire to see them. Why is she telling me this? It's not like she's committed to me yet.

[Eddyyy]

So she told you she wants to go out more?

[Eddyyy]

Ignore that text

[Eddyyy]

No, maybe she just got her heart broken by those bad experiences but you have the key to success right now because she is basically telling you the mistakes she has experienced and you can be that guy that she really wants.

[Opinion Owner]

Well she's very guarded, I want her to know I want her, I enjoy being with her and I will be there for her but I don't want to scare her off like before and I need to trust what she tells me and take things with a grain of salt. Nervous about Sat.

[Eddyyy]

To achieve that you just have to listen to her and give her solutions and if she really has like a big problem and can't have an answer at that moment you keep thinking until you get that answer and in no time she will know you will be there for her and that you enjoy being with her.

[Eddyyy]

Believe me this has happened to me a couple times and they feel a conection because they feel like you care about them. And you actually gotta care you can't act that out.

[Opinion Owner]

So question is do you think I need to be worried and how interested or is she actually considering my as boyfriend material. She has had a lot of bad relationships and admitted she's never seen anyone in a healthy relationship

[Opinion Owner]

Do you think her interest level is pretty high. Since I text her tonight should I just wait before texting again

[Eddyyy]

Dude if you are treating her right she probably considers you boyfriend material since she's been flirting with you.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah she has been, we are going to see another this weekend but she has said she was on her period and wanted me to know and she's only had 2 days off this week. I want to see her. Haven't heard much from her since she told me this, I miss her and she said the same and also just thinking of her is getting me turned on n horny.

[Eddyyy]

She just wants you to know that if she reacts bad it is because of her period.

[Eddyyy]

But dont get too touchy when she is on her period or too quickly only if it is an appropiate situation.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay so she is into me, just forwarding me that she's not feeling well and will warm up to me eventually. Explains probably why she's been on the more quiet side and hasn't invited me over. But if she intiates things just go with it

[Eddyyy]

Yeah she just probably doesn't want to give you a bad experience or doesn't want to scare you away.

[Opinion Owner]

You really think so? I'm just letting her come to me for the most part and we'll see how Saturday goes

[Eddyyy]

Yeah i strongly believe that but dont be too needy most girls find that unattractive.

[Opinion Owner]

Well she called me late tonight randomly told me how she's not seeing anyone else and that why she had been hooking up with her roommate. But her roommate found out that she seeing me again and got jealous. She is seeing me Sat, cut it off tonight since she's not feeling good and on her period. She dressed up a lot and I was just in a T-shirt and jeans. She looked stunning!!!

[Eddyyy]

From what you are telling me she just didn't know what to do so she just went desperately with her roommate but i think my guy she is trying to get with you because she is trying to impress you.😉

[Opinion Owner]

You think? What do you mean as to get with me?

[Eddyyy]

What i mean "with get with you" is she is trying to be something else than just friends.

[Opinion Owner]

You really think so, so just keep doing what I have. She seen me tonight we had dinner and ended back up at her place for drinks and chatted about a lot and then made out. We still have plans Saturday but she instantly asked what I was doing tomorrow even though she works tomorrow night

[Eddyyy]

Say no more. she is yours my friend.😀👏👏

[Opinion Owner]

She texted this morning saying that she had a good time going out and is looking forward to Saturday but since she slept with her roommate she don't want multiple partners and go back to that. She said it was a mistake of hers to call me over. And she just wants to be friends

[Opinion Owner]

How do I handle this?

[Opinion Owner]

Hey man need your help on this one please!!

[Eddyyy]

You mean she had sex with her rommates

[Opinion Owner]

Yes she had sex once with roommate 6 nights prior to me

[Eddyyy]

I dont recommend you to be with her or try to be her. She had sex and she probably feels comfortable with her roommate. You are just gonna be hanging in there and nothing really is going to happen.

[Opinion Owner]

She says she can't stand him. And she told me I wore her out and we have amazing sex.

[Eddyyy]

You had sex with her too?

[Eddyyy]

If you did tell her to drop him she doesn't have to make her life difficult

[Opinion Owner]

She's not with him. I think she feels bad she slept with both of us this week!!

[Opinion Owner]

What should I do or say when or if I see her today?

[Opinion Owner]

I know, she don't have to make it difficult. She don't want the feeling of sleeping around. Yet she wants to see me. Why would she dress up so nice and not tell me so I could and why does she continue to be flirty over text and ask about who I'm seeing or what I'm doing?

[Eddyyy]

Man you have to make her decide between you ot him. You have to be as straight as possible at this point.

[Opinion Owner]

If I do that like in the past she crawls back and won't talk to that person. I feel like I just need to make her comfortable and maybe she's tired of everything being sexual and see's me as a possible interest

[Eddyyy]

Do what you gotta do. You know her better

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I guess! She seems different, still interested but distant and scared off easily

[Opinion Owner]

So she asked if we could get together round 6, I said okay. But she said after she's going to her parents so she definitely don't want me staying.

[Opinion Owner]

So we went to dinner, dinner was great! She explained on our way there that she hasn't been feeling well! She said that she's been having bad cramps and headaches. She is concerned that she's pregnant, her period is a bit late and doesn't want to have sex right now. Dinner went well and we talked about our families and she confessed that she cried when I had to leave after we had sex and I had to get home that she expects me to stay!! She told me and opened up a lot to why she has trust issues and her family history. Some pretty serious stuff as I also told her mine! We ended back at her place but I went home. she got dressed up really nice tonight! When I went to try and leave she continued to converse and asked why I left and wanted to know more about my family and talked about hers and ideals and morals and relationships as well as our beliefs. I feel like this is more than we ever talked and made progress I hope. She said I think we just got off on bad terms. What does this mean

[Opinion Owner]

Please help I know I'm not ready for a relationship and I need a better job to support myself, pay off my debts and get a place of my own. But it will take time. She says she wants me to do it for myself and not all for her. She wants me to be my own man and she don't want to have to make me do anything but will encourage me. She says she don't want a relationship with me cause I need to be able and step up at good and bad times and vice versa as she would. What can I do, she thinks I'm doing this all for her! I'm looking forward to a new job but nervous and she says that she don't want fear to control me. What do I do with someone like this. So conflicted and kinda confused?

[sineater8]

Girls making a hard move on you, ask her if she wants to get some coffee some time.

[Eddyyy]

I will definitely ask her if she wants to go out with me. That may cause a significant escalation

[julinax3]

Check if she has stolen your penis.

[Eddyyy]

Yeah, it's still there

[maddd4ever]

Don't freak out. It's alright.

[Eddyyy]

I would do it, but i don't think it is a very smart plan to kiss her out of nowhere. Gotta be careful on your moves my dude

[Eddyyy]

Sorry this was for the other guy

[Eddyyy]

And don't worry im not freaked out i just want to know if i should proceed with i dont know taking her out or something.

[slashtrigger]

Say your hot dog needs a bun

[Eddyyy]

Hahhaha that is a good one. Ill probably tell her that if we get to that juicy stuff😂😂😂

[TonyRyanAgain]

Scream "STRANGER DANGER!!" and run off flailing your arms like your life depends on it.

[J-Rock]

Your mother cares how you look.

[Anonymous]

wear tighter pants so her hand won't fit. :P

[Eddyyy]

Ahhahaha😂😂

[niceguy1234567]

Did she grab your cock

[Eddyyy]

No, but she was a 1cm away from it.

[niceguy1234567]

You loved it

[Eddyyy]

Of course😂😂

[SamanthaAgerton]

Do you like her?

[Eddyyy]

I do like her. Her personality is really sweet and enthusiastic and positive but i didn't spect her hand in my pants so fast.

[SamanthaAgerton]

Listen hun dont over sexualize it okay? She shouldn't have done it haha but she did. But she most likely likes you if she's sticking her hand in your pants to fix your shirt.

[Eddyyy]

I mean Im okay with her doing that but do you think maybe she is sending a sign that she wants a sexual relationship.

[SamanthaAgerton]

No. I think she was was just fixing your shirt. Buttttt no random girl that doesn't have feelings for you is gonna put a hand down you pants. Try asking her to like eat ice cream or see a movie or out to eat or something

[Eddyyy]

Maybe she didn't mean it sexually but I think she liles me because what girl will feel comfortable puting her hand in a guys pants if she doesn't like him right and yeah, I think Im gonna ask her to go out with me.

[CapnHawk]

Thank her profusely.

[Eddyyy]

Dude oviously Im not gonna tell her thanks for putting your hand in my pants but Im not sure if she wants the "D" you know what Im saying

[CapnHawk]

I was being facetious with my answer, but if she spent more than the count of five with her hands in your pants, I think she wants more than just tucking in your shirt.

[Eddyyy]

Yeah she acted like she was trying to fix it but she got her hand in and back inside.

[MackFreeze]

Stop and leave her alone

[Eddyyy]

What?😂😂

[Eddyyy]

Why would i leave her alone. Give me some of your knowledge.

[MackFreeze]

I don't know hahaha, but um I read the comments below and you shouldn't be with her, she screws around. You should focus on a long term relationship man, marriage then sex! That is the way to go!

[Eddyyy]

I know that is what im trying to figure out my friend. I dont want no fuckbuddies games. That is why Im asking this big community of generous people.

[MackFreeze]

Yeah, my advice if a girl is like that goes something like this.

I figure girls like that have some problem be inner issues like self esteem, need approval. Maybe family issues. Or have no control of their impusles and desires.

I find promiscuity to be a terrible thing since it makes you more likely to have STDs, pregnancy, and divocre with whoever your spouse is the more partners besieds her you have. I want to get married so that is a huge no for me.

Also, I highly value the pursuit and control of impusles and desires. If she is doing whatever she "feels" then that is aimless and what other actions you think would be aimless besides sex? Feelings decieve us.

I would look for what you need in a person, not what you want so much. Look for long term characteristics and values you need and want! Not just what you want like looks. Looks are needed for intial attraction. But character keeps you two together!

Cheers man, God Bless!

[Eddyyy]

I didn't understand your concept.

[MackFreeze]

Character and values are what matter. She may look well and do what you what and desire, yet that is all pleasure based. Dont pursue pleasure since it is destructive. The pursuit of pleausre never can be queched. Just like materialism, "the rich man can never have enough money." "the alcoholic can never be quenched."

Pleasure can never be fullfileld by chasing it. Instant gratification is all over man, anywhere you go sex is avialbe. She is giving herself away to fast and not respecting herself. Controling your impusels and desires is a great trait to have and sonething you shoudl focus on besides pleasure!

[Eddyyy]

That was a exelent explination. Somebody please give this man an OSCAR please 👏👏👏

[Anonymous]

Stay calm and enjoy the scene

[pusyok12]

why? that was a sexual harrasment

[Opinion Owner]

That's not sexual harassment

[pusyok12]

It is.
How would you react if I put my hand in your pants to fix your shirt?

[Opinion Owner]

When your friend is trying to fix your shirt will you consider it as sexual harassment. She just tried to fix his shirt nothing else

[Eddyyy]

Im not sure if she just wanted to fix my shirt because I have been talking to this girl for only a week.

[Opinion Owner]

Better ask her directly. Simple!

[TheAshCooper]

Just kiss her already

[maddd4ever]

Oooohhhh

[Eddyyy]

I would do it, but i don't think it is a smart plan to kiss her out of nowhere don't you think.

[TheAshCooper]

Just lean in smoothy bro. You don't ask you lead

[Eddyyy]

I'll try that. Im gonna take her to the movies.

[TheAshCooper]

If she rejects you she does but trust me making the first move is a good start.

[Eddyyy]

Thanks bro all this knowledge is actually gonna help me.

[MidnightCowboy]

She likes you, go for it

[Eddyyy]

The thing is my friend is that i dont know if she wants a relationship or just be fuckbuddies. I personally dont like being fuckbuddies.

[johnnycool]

Get hard and bust all over her fongers... duh!!

[Anonymous]

lucky guy

[Eddyyy]

Dude is not like im showing off. I really didn't spect her to go this far so fast.

[Opinion Owner]

I had this date finger my ass in the movie theater

[Eddyyy]

Dude not to be mean but that is kind of gross don't you think?

[Opinion Owner]

it took me by surprized for sure

[Eddyyy]

Dude I dont know about that girl but i dont think that is good influence for you.

[Opinion Owner]

you are probably right thanks

[Eddyyy]

No problem :)

[sheeeeeen]

Call the police , thats sexual harresment

[J-Rock]

hahaha, yeah that exists...

[sheeeeeen]

It does

[J-Rock]

The longest any woman on the planet has went to prison for sexual assault is like 5 days probably.

[Anonymous]

Well definitely not enter GAG and ask about it.

[mohit1234]

Enjoy and calm